Some Advice

[LocaBoriquaQueen]

Well, Theres this guy who I was seeing for a long time.. We weren't actually a couple but at times we acted like it.. We were friends for a long time and our friendship progressed beyond your usual friendship... I really cared for him and wanted to be with him.. He was the guy every girl dreams of at least he was my dreamboy.. but and then I don't know what happened but he decided that he didn't want to be with me because he says that he didn't want to hurt me.... And basically he's confused and doesn't know what to do with his life... Anywayz I just really still care for him and I know it will never be the same but I at least want to be just as good of friends as we used to be.. And the truth is I really miss him and I really want to work it out with him but I don't know how to talk to him anymore, or even see him!!
I just need some advice on how to get over a nigga and try to remain friends w/out letting your feelings get involved...😛

 

[SweetGirl]

Its hard to do...I understand what ya going through, thats why I dont even play that Lets just be friends..cuz emotions can take over and you end up getting hurt even more....well thats my opinion...🙂

 

[Sexyangel329]

WELL I CAN DEFINITLY RELATE BEEN THERE GIRL BUT SINCE ITS STILL FRIENDS IT WILL BE HARD ON YOUR END TO BE FRIENDS. I TRIED IT ME BEING THE ONE WHO WANTED MORE AND ALSO THE GUY WANTING MORE. I WAS UNABLE TO BE FRIENDS BECAUSE FEELINGS GET CAUGHT UP IN JUST TRYING TO BE FRIENDS. WHEN I KNEW I WAS TRULY OVER HIM THEN WE STARTED A FRIENDSHIP. AS FAR AS GETTING OVER HIM IT TAKES TIME SPECIALLY WHEN TO YOU HE FELT SO RIGHT . TIME GIRL IT TAKES TIME. IN THE MEANTIME HEAD OUT WITH SOME FRIENDS AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. WHEN EVER I AM GOING THROUGH ANYTHING WHEATHER ITS ABOUT A MAN OR NOT HANGING OUT WITH MY CREW TAKES MY MIND OFF S*** AND BEING WITH MY FRIENDS MAKES ME STRONGER THEY LET ME SEE THE POSITIVE IN IT ALL. I WSIH YOU THE BEST MIJA. AL OT OF US HAVE BEEN THERE BUT IN THE END WE SURVIVE 🙂

 

[Heavenly]

Well I have to ditto EVERYTHING that Sexyangel has said.....I too in a relationship with a guy whom I was (and still am) best friends with......we just started seeing each other and well I'm TOTALLY MADLY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HIM!! It feels soooo right when I with him. The catch is He doesn't want to "get serious" and has told me several times that he doesn't view me as his "girlfriend", but someone he cares for DEEPLY.....more than a friend. But we don't see other peeps, he doesn't want to. URG ....how did I start talking about him.....sorry,.....anyways I think YOU need time to heal.....and once you feel it is right you can be friends again.....the feeling might not go away but atleast they may smoothe down.

 

[LocaBoriquaQueen]

Thanks alot... I guess its really time to move on.. but hey what he lost is someone elses gain.. everything happens for a reason and in the end everything will fall into place... I guess I'll wait til I'm over him to become good friends again.. Once again thanks.... Time to chill with my gurlies and meet new people... 😛

 

[Sexyangel329]

NO DOUBT MIJA ONE MANS LOSS IS ANOTHER MANS GAIN FO SHO. THE WAY I SEE IT IS IF A MAN ISNT READY TO BE WITH ME OR FEELING ME THE WAY I AM FEELING HIM THENTHE BEST THING TO DO IS KEEP IT MOVING. LET ANOTHER GAIN ON THE LOSS. GO OUT GIRL HAVE SOME FUN THATS WHAT IM DOING THIS WEEKEND PARTYING IT UP 😀

 

[Martini]

it sucks... but that's what happens sometimes when u cross the thin line between romance and friendship. you always gotta be careful with that... things will probably never be the same with you guys. that's why you have to be very sure that what you're doing is the right thing... cuz then u may wind up losing the kind of friendship you had. it's hard girlie.... just take it as a lesson learned for next time. 🙂