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Sexyangel329

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I am so tired its unbelievable. Tavian keeps me busy and he is so spoiled that he cries all the time to be picked up. I feel like such a horrible mother at times for not being able to calm him down. In having him I knew it was going to be hard as hell doing it all on my own and it truly is hard I am once again going back and fourth on thoughts of leaving to Miami I am waiting to see how the upcoming months go. Some days days like today I just cry I feel like I am letting my son down when I cant comfort him. I watch him sleep and feel how safe he feels when I lay him on my chest so safe he just falls right to sleep, I look at him and I know that come what may it will always be me and him, me and my Tavian. today is one of those days.
 
awww mama don't worry things will get better. See in this game of who got who trained seems Tavain is winning. I think we all went through that with our first. It will get better.
 
Angieeeeeeeeee! 🙁

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time...it will get easier though. Hang in there and don't EVER feel like a bad mommy cuz you can't get him to stop fussin...

BAD MOTHERS are the ones that abandon their children. :mad

You are a GREAT mom! The fact that you feel so bad about not being able to comfort him shows that! 🙂
 
Angie, Welcome To Motherhood. Funny Even At This Age They Can Make You Feel Like Crap. But It Will Past Mama. As Krys Said "just The Fact That You Feel This Way Shows That You A Good Mommy" Dont Let Him Train You Sweety, You Train Him.
🙂
 
angie you seem to be a great mom. baby want to picked up all the time but you have to take time for yourself. my son always wanted to be held. hope you get your needed rest.
 
Well latlely I have been trying the let him cry routine and yesterday he fell asleep crying when he is sleepy he gets cranky and wants to be picked up so I realized this and now I rock him a little till he dozes and then put him in da crib he will start crying so I let him and see if he falls asleep if he cries for to long I pick him up and put him to bed till he is knocked out so I am trying.
 
DAYYYUMMM ANGIE I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU...BEEN THERE! IT JUST TAKES LIKE A WEEK TO GET HIM OUT OF THAT...WELL AT LEAST IT WORKED FOR ME!! LET HIM CRY...FIFTEEN MINUTES IS MY LIMIT THO!! I AM SURE HE WILL GO TO SLEEP ALL BY HIMSELF BEFORE THE 15 ARE UP!! GOOD LUCK MA! :walk
 
Not for nuthin Angie- BUT it's not that he's really spoiled.
If it's not colic, then he wants you with him. This is bonding time like when he was 1st born and u held him- you were bonding.
If you think it gets outta control take tiny, lay down on the bed, place him ontop of you and make sure his ear is where he can hear your heartbeat- that used to do it for my boys all 3. If you feel sleepy after a while just make sure you have extra cushioning for the other side of the bed so he's next to you don't worry about feelin like you're gonna squash him, it's all instinct we all think that. only thing is not to let him get accustomed to being in the bed with you- what's the purpose of the crib right?
if u give him the bobo and he doesn't take it pick him up for a lil bit and hold him still tryin the bobo. it could be that he's still gassy...
You're NOT letting him down- You're NOT a bad mother those are hormones still kicking.
try to not let him cry himself to sleep then he'll be like cryin with "sentimiento" and I always feel bad when i see that-
I'm not a pro- but hey I had 3 and people ask how I do it: honestly I don't know. I just do.
 
Very good points there Liz!!.
Your gonna be on my speedial
when i have one!! :biggrin

Angie..im sure its all a mother's learning
experience..im sure your doing just fine.
hang in there girl!
 
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