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IM JUST CURIOUS TO KNOW WHAT U GUYS THINK OF RELATIONSHIPS VS BEING SINGLE? WHERE WOULD U RATHER BE - AND WHY?

ID RATHER BE SINGLE...at this time neway...LESS SIIIT TO THINK ABOUT!


:1luv vs 😎
 
I like relationships.... why? because u feel like u belong somewhere... i hate the feeling of loneliness.
 
c, i dont feel lonely. Maybe i juss had too much of it for my lifetime...and need a break - but damn! am i ever enjoying it! lol *whispers in chica's ear*: enjoying it with rudee! lmao 😀
 
hahaha ma.. damn... Rudee is DA MAN huh 😉

I know what you mean though... just that times in my life that I couldn't have handled by myself... I was thankful i had someone to help me through.
 
Right now with the way things are in my life, with school and work, I prefer being single. Plus on weekends, I get to do my thang, and hang out with the girls and not have to worry about answering to anyone where I was or what I was doing. Plus being single, if someone catches your attention, you can talk to them and get to know them etc etc without having to worry if your man(or for the guys...gf)is gonna find out.

~Meg~
 
DreamGirl said:
if someone catches your attention, you can talk to them and get to know them etc etc without having to worry if your man(or for the guys...gf)is gonna find out.
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why would they find out 😉

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Hmmmm....

As someone who's ALWAYS been in a relationship....I find myself in uncharted waters....A "Lake" so to say.....I'm learning how to "swim" again!
With the help of a few friends (they know who they are😉) I can honestly say that I'm "happy" right now. As a single.....Yes, ladies and very available man! I'm finding my silver lining! Don't get me wrong, I hope to hook up permanently one day and settle down.
But, for now I'm "livin!"

"One day at a time!" Someone suggested to me.
If something comes of my current situation....
I think that "It'll be a pleasant surprise!"

Thank you for your suggestion!

After this^ I know what your "angle" is!:smirk
 
Both is ok!

Sometimes being single is nice because it's true you don't have to answer to anyone. There are things you can do without thinking about the other person and plans that you can make and complete because there is no one there who will be affected by it.

But being in a relationship is also nice too, because you'll always have company. Someone to share your intimate self with. Plan ideas with and share as well as receive love. You don't feel so lonely when your in a relationship, especially if your both in love.

Sometimes both is nice, it all depends on you. For myself, I love being in a relationship because that's all I know. I was married for 10 years and was with him for 14. So I'm not too familiar with the singles life and what little time I did spend single I was miserable because all you see is the couples everywhere.

Best of luck to all you single people out there. May you find love and happiness when you chose too.😉
 
1sxychica said:
why would they find out
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Not saying they would find out, but you know how ppl love to talk. SO if you're out somewhere talking to a guy and say one of your man's friends is there, you know he's gonna say something to his boy...whether it's intentional or it just kind of slips out. One time when I was seeing someone I was out with my friends and I saw a guy I went to grammar school with and he saw me, we hadn't seen each other in a long time, we said hi he gave me a hug, end of story. Well one of my bf's friends was there saw it happen and next thing ya know, the story got twisted and ended up getting back to my man that I hooked up with the guy. 🙄 I mean my bf believed me when I told him what happened, but still it's just one less thing to worry about. Besides, guys come and go, it's your true friends who will be there. And honestly I'd take my friends over a guy anyday. As my friends and I say: chicks before d*cks! 🙂

~Meg~
 
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