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Heavenly said:
But to society if you're OVER 30 and not married or haven't had any kids you're considered an old maid.... that there is something wrong with you.
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I call that being smart! It's like you know when your in your 20's you think you know it all. But when you hit the 30's your realize you didn't know shiat in your 20's. Life doesn't even really begin for people till there 30's!!
 
LOL Chuck! Shoot I feel like I already began my life ...when I moved out and been on my own...lolol! But sheesh MORE to come at 30! and 40!
 
Heavenly said:
I was listening to the radio this morning and they were discussing women over 30 being single and unmarried = old maids.

So the question if you're over 30 do you consider yourself an old maid?? Or if you have friends whom never married are they consider to be old maids??

Guys do you prefer to date someone who has never married or someone who has been divorced 2-3 times??

Roles reverse a man over his 30's who was never married ....
a. Still lives with mom Is he a loser?
b. SINGLE .... Can he commit??

Ladies same question applys never married or divorced?
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have you ever seen sex and the city??? why are women labeled as old maids and spinsters and men are labeled bachelors and playboys????? i don't think that question will ever be answered right!
 
ChuckD said:
Old is a state of mind.

you can be 30 and be old, and be 80 and be young.

As for being a loser. That's also a state of mind. If you let others dictate how you are supposed to feel about yourself, then you are bound for failure.
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no one could have said that better! thank you very much! i work with a 78 year old woman who also has a second job. this woman does more work than ppl i know in their 20's and 30's and i give her mad respect and love for that!
 
I'm 31 and have never been married (yet) and I don't feel like an old maid....look far from it....people are waiting longer to get hitched and I find that 30's are prime years (at least for me they are) 😉
 
mzcrazybtch said:
I'm 31 and have never been married (yet) and I don't feel like an old maid....look far from it....people are waiting longer to get hitched and I find that 30's are prime years (at least for me they are) 😉
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i couldnt agree with you more. i think ppl should live their lives to the fullest and have fun while you still can. i dont understand what the rush is. party all u can!!
 
32 and never been married nor do I plan to. I live on my own , take care of my son and live life to the fullest. I don't feel or look old 🙂 As for a man living withhis mom pass a certain age I will have to agree with what's been said here. If they are doing to better themselves fine.
 
never say never....i used to say that i would neveer get married but then i met my husband. i have absolutely no regrets. he's 31 and i'm 27 we do have kids but we still know how to have a good time. by the way, i see you are from j.c, we are from union city!!!
 
Jersey in the house!! lol. Look if I would've been able to still live my parents (peacefully) I most likely would've never moved out (@18)....it works for some but didn't work for me.
 
I've alway's loved women in thier 30's even when i was in my 20's and still do they are in the prime of thier live's,.. married, divorced it don't matter as long as the relation ship works out thats all I care,.. and i'm currently 31 now. So no I would not consider them old maids at all.
 
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