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I have two boys (6 & 5 yrs old).

1st... I woke up in the morning and I was laying in a puddle so I looked at my (then) boyfriend and asked him if it smelt like pee. He smelt it and calmly said, no, your water probably broke. I didn't feel any pain or anything so I stood up and just waited for the pain to kick in. I sat on the toilet (sorry, had to say it) and called my mom and then the doctor. My doctor told me to get to the hospital as soon as I can. My boyfriend was in the shower and then started to eat something and I just sat there because I felt nothing. I was so afraid the pain was going to kick in so I just wanted to sit there. lol I laughed at my boyfriend because he was all calm about it, going about his morning business while I was obviously about to give birth to our first child. We still laugh at that day now when we talk about it.

Anyway, we got to the hospital, and got into out little gowns and I laid there {{{now, totally in pain}}} I got the shot and felt better. When it was time to push, I didn't feel my contractions that much so I couldn't push the way they needed me to so they had to go in with the forceps and pull him out. They even used the suction "thingy" and his head got all beat up looking. My poor baby. My baby Sammy Jr. was born. I woke up about 5:00am in the puddle, got to the hospital around 6:00 and he was born at 3:01pm.

Me and my boyfriend were broken up by the time our second child was born. It was about 8:00am and I started to feel tight cramps so I called him and he came to my house. We got to the hospital around 9:00am but this time, he didn't want me to get the miracle shot, so I tried to do it without it. He kept reminding me that Sammy's head got all retarded looking and the forceps scratched his face a little. so I DIDN'T GET ANYTHING!!!! God forbid his kid have a scratch on him. :lol

Anyway, my little Louis was born at 2:35 pm. God, that was some experience. Since I felt everything, I felt my Hips totally separate in order for him to come through. WOW.

Sammy of course was named after his father and Louis was named after my mother who died 27 days before he was born. 🙁

He is actually named after both of my parents... Louis (for Louise) and Anthony for my father.

In sadness, comes Joy and my son is named after my mother.

A woman once said to me during my first pregnancy, "this will be the worst pain that will be the easiest to forget". It is so true. Even though I remember at that time it hurt "like hell", I don't remember how bad it hurt. Does that make sense? lol
 
My 1st son Daniel Armando who is now 15 I went in labor at 8:30am and he was born at 9:45 that night at 7lbs 9 oz... I was a bit scared since I was 16 at the time, but it went real well for my first child birth. My second son Matthew Fabricio who is now 13 went really quick I went in at 1:30am and he was born at 5:45am at 9lbs 11oz. THe pain was a bit more intense since I didnt have time for an epidural, My 3rd son Edward Xavier who is now 11 was a bit stubborn... He was 1 week overdue so i was enduced whoever has been nduced knows he pain... Anyways I went in at 12:00am and he was born at 6:30am at 7lbs 11oz ...He decided to come while i was in the middle of an epidural.. Good timing... needless to say I spent the next entire day in bed....LOLERIN
 
WOW!!! IT'S GREAT WHEN YOU CAN REMEMBER EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED BEFORE AND AFTER YOU GAVE BIRTH. WITH MY FIRST DAUGHTER I REMEMBER EATTING DINNER AND THEN TAKING A SHOWER AFTERWARDS. WHILE SHOWERING A FELT SOMETHING DRIPPING FROM ME. (HAD NO IDEA MY WATER BROKE)🙂
THEN WENT TO THE BEDROOM AND LAYED DOWN TO WATCH TV. I DIDN'T THINK I WAS GOING TO GIVE BIRTH. I WAS ONLY 34 WEEKS. BUT THEN I CAUGHT A SHARP PAIN IN MY STOMACH. I THOUGHT A WAS CONSTIPATED. :lol WENT TO THE BATHROOM. IT WENT AWAY, BUT SUDDENLY IT HAPPENED AGAIN. IT WAS AROUND 10PM. FINALLY AT 10:30PM THE PAINS GOT WORSE. WE LEFT TO THE HOSPITAL AT 10:40PM AND I WAS ADMITTED AT 11 PM. WHEN THE MIDWIFE CHECKED ME, I WAS ALREADY 4 CM OPEN. SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID "MAYBE YOU ALREADY KNOW THIS, BUT YOUR GOING TO GIVE BIRTH TONIGHT". I WAS LIKE DUH...THAT'S HOW I FELT. ANYWAY I WAITED FOR LIKE AN HOUR FOR MY DOCTOR TO COME. SHE ARRIVED AT 12:10 AM. WHEN SHE CHECKED ME I WAS ALREADY FULLY DIALATED. SHE TOLD ME WHENEVER I WAS READY TO PUSH JUST GO AHEAD. MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN AT 12:25AM. SHE WAS A PREEMIE. SHE WEIGHT 4LBS 14 OZS. I NAMED HER AMANDA JOY.

FOR MY SECOND PREGNANCY, THIS WAS JUST LAST YEAR SO I REMEMBER IT CLEARLY. AT ABOUT 5:30PM I WAS GETTING SLIGHT CONTRACTIONS. TO ME IT WAS NOTHING. IT WAS COMING LIKE EVERY 45 MINUTES. AT ABOUT 8PM IT STARTED EVERY 10 MINUTES. FINALLY AT 8:20PM I CALLED THE DOCTOR, SHE WAS LIKE WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR...GO TO THE HOSPITAL. I SWEAR MY HUBBY DIDIN'T KNOW HOW TO ACT. HE WAS RUNNING AROUND LIKE A CHICKEN WITHOUT A HEAD. WE LEFT FOR THE HOSPITAL AT 8:40 PM. I WAS ADMITTED AT 9PM. THE NURSE ASKED FOR A URINE SAMPLE. WHEN I WENT TO THE BATHROOM. MY WATER BROKE AS I WAS ABOUT TO USE THE TOILET. I GUESS THEY DIDN'T HAVE TO CLEAN UP AFTERWARDS. LOL ANYWAY THAT WAS ABOUT 9:10PM. MY CONTRACTIONS WERE ALREADY 2MINUTES APART. FINALLY AT 9:30 THEY MOVED ME TO ANOTHER ROOM. I WALKED TO THE NEXT ROOM WHICH WAS 3 DOORS DOWN. BY THE TIME I GOT THERE I WAS ALREADY 9 CM. I WANTED TO PUSH BUT MY DOCTOR WASN'T THERE. THEY ASKED IF I WANTED AN EPIDURAL. I WAS LIKE NO WAY. I DIDN'T GET IT FOR MY FIRST ONE. SO I DIDN'T WANT IT NOW. MY DOCTOR FINALLY ARRIVED AT 10PM. SHE HAD TO CUT ME BECAUSE THE BABY WAS TOO BIG FOR ME. FINALLY SHE SAID PUSH. I REMEMBER THE IV POPPING OUT OF MY HAND. BLOOD SCATTERED EVERYWHERE. I GUESS IT WAS EVERYWHERE BECAUSE IT GOT ALL OVER MY HUBBY'S CLOTHES. I FELT EVERYTHING. FINALLY SHE WAS BORN AT 10:19 PM. SHE WAS 7 LBS AND 13 OZS. HER NAME IS MELANIE JOY.
NOW I WAS THINKING OF HAVING ANOTHER CHILD...BUT I THINK I'LL HOLD OFF UNTIL SHE GETS A LITTLE BIGGER. ( I THINK )
 
let me tell ya mine:

i was 15 years old when i had my 1st son. the dad didnt even know i went into labor(he wasnt around much anyways)my mom was there with me. i was in labor for 26 hours.i had to use forcepts and all. he weighted 8 pds 9 ounces. he actually ripped me from my tush to the "whoo-hoo"!!! 27 stiches, back to front-ouch!he was born with a heart murmor and a tempature of 103. he is my little angel! at 3 years he was diagnosed with ADHD. yes it is hard!!!
 
My first- had a doctors appointment went to take the train and my water broke. No pain so I proceeded in the train. Got to the hospital and they made me walk cause I wasn't open nada. The Doctor was lookin at me and said how come you are smiling I was like I dunno I was excited I guess. She was like you won't be smiling for long. That Biotch! She jinxed me I started to get pains right after she said that. I got the epidoral but they only numbed half of me so I had to get another and then it felt like I had to doo doo. Finally my daughter was born 18 hours in labor.
my second- in Pain went with the hubby they broke my water and as soon as the hubby saw his son coming out he turns to the doctor and tells him help her he's fukin up my shit! lmaoo too funny 21 hours of labor.
my third- the usual pain and stuff his god mommy was there and she saw the whole thing,(La Mas Grande), after she saw that she made up her mind that she would have a cesearian. She refused to got thru what I did. not sure of how many hours long though.
my fourth and last-Her daddy was with me in the labor room i had pain but i was really stickin to the breathing exercises. they Did work. My hubby was too busy crackin jokes at every contraction. 6 hours.

all in all they weighed in at 7.1 -first
8.11-second
7.11 third
9.14 fourth

girl boy boy girl in that order. ahhh and now the baby is 4 yrs old. ready for school. I am such a happy chic!!!
 
Damn....I got a hang nail...🙁 just kidding ladies...I'm sure every man admires the strength you have to endure that pain....And any man who watches their child be born also is afraid of where it just came from....
 
Lamtrix

I remember when you went into labor for the third one. Vic took you and Grande to the hospital. Awww and then "Chucky" was born. LOL I don't even remember you having a 4th child until after she was born. I lost track. :lol
 
Lala! How in the world did lil you have a baby that weighed 9.14 ...... omg my vagina hurts now! My babies were 8.11 8.1 and 8.6 noway in hell could i imagine a big baby like that. God Bless you!
 
BennyBlanxXx [/i]
See...he always told me when I were to give birth he would not be there to see the baby comes out. Many of his co-workers and male friends had told him that sex will never be the same after you see the baby come out. They said it's disgusting. One person said he had to leave the room.
So for awhile he had that stuck in his head. But when that time came. He was there. He saw everything. He told me it wasn't nasty. If anything it was beautiful to see a new life being born. So the question is has sex changed? Hell yeah...he's hornier as ever. :lol
 
CHINITASENSATION said:
BennyBlanxXx [/i]
See...he always told me when I were to give birth he would not be there to see the baby comes out. Many of his co-workers and male friends had told him that sex will never be the same after you see the baby come out. They said it's disgusting. One person said he had to leave the room.
So for awhile he had that stuck in his head. But when that time came. He was there. He saw everything. He told me it wasn't nasty. If anything it was beautiful to see a new life being born. So the question is has sex changed? Hell yeah...he's hornier as ever. :lol
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It is always a tale guys tell each other but given the opportunity to see your child born and actually seeing it , no man would pass it up..... Nothing else is going through the mind while you see this miracle happening except the fact of how you beautiful the whole expierience is....
 
Chinita... my boys were small too... 7 lbs and 7.9 lbs.

My ex saw EVVVVVERYTHING!!!

He didn't even leave when they gave me the epidural (my 1st pregnancy). He said that was horrible, the needle was huge, then the tube that they leave in the back released all this blood so that freaked him out a little.

The only other thing that got to him was when the baby's head was crowning (just poking through). He said there was this clear colored skin or something covering his head.

Nice right. lol

(God only knows that his sex drive didn't slow down after that) (still hasn't looked at me different now and we're not even together any more).

lol
 
Mona ma my baby was a big mama. When I held her she seemed like she was three months old. But even though she was that big she didn't rip me like my second son did. They had to sew me up for him. amazingly she didn't do me nothing except that I was sore for 4 months after. She on the other hand had a fractured collarbone. Which healed on it's own. The Doctor explained that even though I have big hips she was too big to fit through my pelvic bone. So she got hurt. but she fine she was all better by 6 months.

Chinita dag I haven't heard anyone call gabriel chucky in a long time lmaoooo I almost forgot about that.
 
shit when my daughter was pulled out..i was so overwhelmed with emotion that i had passed out..scaring the shit out of my man cause he thought something bad happened...and i was so tired too...i'm just glad i was ok
 
LaNenaDeOro said:
its good to hear that im not the only one who gave birth @15 it is soooo hard my oldest is 8 and her is diag. with ADD
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I FEEL YA ON THAT GIRL.. ITS SO HARD! DO YOU MEDICATE HER??? IM IN THE PROCESS OF TAKING HIM TO THE THERIPST FOR MEDICATION... CAN YOU GIVE ME ANY IDEAS ON MEDS???
 
MY SECOND:

ELIAS CAME FAST... WAS ADMITTED AT 11:00PM AND HAD HIM AT 5:45AM.HE HAD TO BE HOSPITLIZED FOR 4 DAYS BECAUSE HE DIDNT KNOW HOW TO DRINK A BOTTLE.HE WEIGHTED 8PDS 11 OUNCES.I DIDNT RIP WITH THIS ONE!!!!
BUT I HAD A EPIDURAL AND I SWEAR THAT SHIT DIDNT WORK.. I HAD A EPIDURAL WITH THE FIRST ONE AND THAT WORKED WONDERS, BUT THIS ONE HURT LIKE HELL!!!I FELT EVERYTHING!!!
 
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