*~*~Our Loved Ones~*~*

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D.J. Paradise said:
Never thought about it, but the 2 people in my life that passed really had a huge inpact on my life. Sometimes, we forget and want to thank La Betty for this great idea..

First, to my brother Fransisco "DJ Frankie" Santiago who was like a father to me and showed me everything I needed to know, especially about the music.

My mom, Hilda Luz Vazquez Santiago.
All these years you told me she wasnt the one, I didnt listen....
I thank you deeply for guiding me to my new life.
We know you are around us all the time.
I know you are happy that I am happy....finally.

Te quiero,
Martin Santiago
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I am so proud of you. that was beautiful.
 
Where to start..


To my mentor (pops) Even though you didnt raise me through out my youth..growing up as a young boy without a father figure was pretty hard, but it made me stronger & through your last days on earth we had the best time that we ever had..i'll cherish those words you whisper to me while the angels was taking you away from me.... I love you pops rest in peace. "coqui"



To my gurl angie...can't forget about you ma....may god bless your soul..i miss those time we had, so much memories... i cant even finish this...
 
DJ_JTEK76 said:
Where to start..


To my mentor (pops) Even though you didnt raise me through out my youth..growing up as a young boy without a father figure was pretty hard, but it made me stronger & through your last days on earth we had the best time that we ever had..i'll cherish those words you whisper to me while the angels was taking you away from me.... I love you pops rest in peace. "coqui"



To my gurl angie...can't forget about you ma....may god bless your soul..i miss those time we had, so much memories... i cant even finish this...
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Awww sweetie, don't finish. Just remember the "good" days. And be happy for those memories today.
 
Thanks so much LaBetty and Nyasia. Dios mio if I would have found CF earlier these last few years would have been so less difficult. Next time I have one of my little breakdowns, now I know I have someone to talk to, that means so much to me.
 
Dianita said:
Thanks so much LaBetty and Nyasia. Dios mio if I would have found CF earlier these last few years would have been so less difficult. Next time I have one of my little breakdowns, now I know I have someone to talk to, that means so much to me.
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well if you live here in the city, maybe one day we can get together.
 
This is such a great thread Betty...In loving memory of my son's father Jose', not a day goes by that I don't think about you & all the wonderful times we shared...not a day goes by that your son doesn't ask for you & we are missing you like crazy. We may not be together physically but you will ALWAYS have my heart and soul. We love you & miss you. Rest in Peace my love :hpound
 
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OMG! Ya'll SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm here at work at my desk in tears!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *huff*


But on the real! What a lovely thread!

In loving memory of my cousin who was like an older brother to me. Today he would have been 38. 🙁 And to my two loving grandmothers who were always there for me when I needed them! RIP and Happy Valentine's! You'll always be in my heart.
 
Jenny thank you. 🙂

Krystal, I'm like you girl over here. :sosad

DJ_JTek, vent anytime. We all need that.

Nyasia, that's a great idea to get together with Dianita. (If you don't mind me coming along) 😉
 
LaBettyBoop said:

Nyasia, that's a great idea to get together with Dianita. (If you don't mind me coming along) 😉
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OF course! I meant the three of us, or which ever other CF ladies wants to join us for dinner and some good conversation😉
 
Aaawww, beautiful memories... (thanx LaBetty)

To my mother, I miss you every day. The more I struggle, the more I respect what you went through.... and I wish I got to tell you that when you were here. I hope you see Louis because you left me 27 days before he was born. He's named after you. Sammy doesn't remember you as much, but I show him the pictures of you and him together so he doesn't forget totally.

My sister, you were only 14 when you died and right now, you'd be 31... wow, I can't believe it's been that long. I miss you. And I have to remember to talk to you more.... I guess forcing myself to not think about you for so many years so the pain wouldn't hurt so bad has made it easier for me not to think about you... but now, I think I can talk to you without me losing breath. I love you.

My father, my aunt, my cousins who are no longer here... I hope you all hear me when I talk to you.

One thing that came out of losing so many people in my life is... I tell my family I love them all the time. Even if when hanging up I say, Love ya.

**wow, this hurts**
 
Nyasia said:
OF course! I meant the three of us, or which ever other CF ladies wants to join us for dinner and some good conversation😉
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Thank you mama. 😉 Let's get through this crappy weather now, like we're having today.
 
4eVerFreeStyle said:
Aaawww, beautiful memories... (thanx LaBetty)

To my mother, I miss you every day. The more I struggle, the more I respect what you went through.... and I wish I got to tell you that when you were here. I hope you see Louis because you left me 27 days before he was born. He's named after you. Sammy doesn't remember you as much, but I show him the pictures of you and him together so he doesn't forget totally.

My sister, you were only 14 when you died and right now, you'd be 31... wow, I can't believe it's been that long. I miss you. And I have to remember to talk to you more.... I guess forcing myself to not think about you for so many years so the pain wouldn't hurt so bad has made it easier for me not to think about you... but now, I think I can talk to you without me losing breath. I love you.

My father, my aunt, my cousins who are no longer here... I hope you all hear me when I talk to you.

One thing that came out of losing so many people in my life is... I tell my family I love them all the time. Even if when hanging up I say, Love ya.

**wow, this hurts**
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Awww mama, yes it hurts because we wish they were still around. But at least we can smile when we think of the "good" memories we were blessed to have with them. Gina, be strong mama.

And for everyone here on CF, I just felt that a dedication day to those we've loved and have passed on would be perfect for today on Valentines day since it is a day of "love". And we loved them all in our own special ways.
 
4eVerFreeStyle said:
Aaawww, beautiful memories... (thanx LaBetty)

To my mother, I miss you every day. The more I struggle, the more I respect what you went through.... and I wish I got to tell you that when you were here. I hope you see Louis because you left me 27 days before he was born. He's named after you. Sammy doesn't remember you as much, but I show him the pictures of you and him together so he doesn't forget totally.

My sister, you were only 14 when you died and right now, you'd be 31... wow, I can't believe it's been that long. I miss you. And I have to remember to talk to you more.... I guess forcing myself to not think about you for so many years so the pain wouldn't hurt so bad has made it easier for me not to think about you... but now, I think I can talk to you without me losing breath. I love you.

My father, my aunt, my cousins who are no longer here... I hope you all hear me when I talk to you.

One thing that came out of losing so many people in my life is... I tell my family I love them all the time. Even if when hanging up I say, Love ya.

**wow, this hurts**
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Hey G,

SOrry to hear you've lost so many people in your life, but you have just as many Angels watching over you as well. and then you have us nuts here on CF.😉 :freek :silly
 
What a great thread LaBetty, but why am I surprised by that? :lol

all your threads are great.


To my Papa (dad's dad): I lost you before I was a teen ager. I am sorry I didn't get to know you better. Even after you lost your legs to diabetes, you kept up your responsibilities around the house with Nana. In your own way, you showed me strength, and responsiblity. Thank you.

To my Nana (dad's mom): You were the only grandparent who I told I was gay. You told me that "you loved me no matter what." I was very afraid at that time in my life, and you made me feel safe. Thank you.

To my Pop (mom's dad): You showed me to have pride in my country, and my nationality. To be strong, and to have pride in myself. I'm only sorry that I learned those lessons after you had gone, and didn't get to see them realized in me. they are here now. Thank you.

To my Gram (mom's mom): Dementia and emphazemia took you from me, but that's not how I remember you. I remember your strength, and how up until the end, you did what you wanted to, when you wanted to, and how you wanted to. You always carried on in some form. You taught me strength. Let me see that no matter how bad things get, there is a need to stand up and carry on. Thank you.


I know you are looking down on me, but I miss you all like you don't know how.
 
ChuckD said:
What a great thread LaBetty, but why am I surprised by that? :lol

all your threads are great.


To my Papa (dad's dad): I lost you before I was a teen ager. I am sorry I didn't get to know you better. Even after you lost your legs to diabetes, you kept up your responsibilities around the house with Nana. In your own way, you showed me strength, and responsiblity. Thank you.

To my Nana (dad's mom): You were the only grandparent who I told I was gay. You told me that "you loved me no matter what." I was very afraid at that time in my life, and you made me feel safe. Thank you.

To my Pop (mom's dad): You showed me to have pride in my country, and my nationality. To be strong, and to have pride in myself. I'm only sorry that I learned those lessons after you had gone, and didn't get to see them realized in me. they are here now. Thank you.

To my Gram (mom's mom): Dementia and emphazemia took you from me, but that's not how I remember you. I remember your strength, and how up until the end, you did what you wanted to, when you wanted to, and how you wanted to. You always carried on in some form. You taught me strength. Let me see that no matter how bad things get, there is a need to stand up and carry on. Thank you.


I know you are looking down on me, but I miss you all like you don't know how.
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How sweet Chuck. Really great. 🙂
 
That's really sweet of you ladies. I rarely get to go to the city though. If anyone's ever on the east of Long Island let me know. If I can, I'll show it off though and show where some off the good beaches are to take the kids in the summer. It's a great day trip from the cuty or northeast Jersey or there's even some ferries in the area from CT. The Hamptons is nothing at all like that ABC special. That's only the really rich people. I myself have just a humble little apartament, but hey mi casa es su casa...
 
I usually go visit my loca DJ SOUL , she llives in Long Island, but not sure if it's anywhere near you. she lives in Oceanside.
 
Ahemmm, I sense some discriminating against the CF guys........a nosotros no nos invitaron !!!!!!

ROFLMAO

Dianita said:
That's really sweet of you ladies. I rarely get to go to the city though. If anyone's ever on the east of Long Island let me know. If I can, I'll show it off though and show where some off the good beaches are to take the kids in the summer. It's a great day trip from the cuty or northeast Jersey or there's even some ferries in the area from CT. The Hamptons is nothing at all like that ABC special. That's only the really rich people. I myself have just a humble little apartament, but hey mi casa es su casa...
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