ok i like controversy... is it better to wait??

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:lol i want to know from ea. of ya, do you think it's better if a lady makes a guy wait for sex or is it ok to go full force on the first date??

i persoanlly like to get to know the guy but i'm no angel. had my naughty days.

my guy friends tell me if they want to make the lady a girlfriend then she better hold out 4 at least 3 dates.:makeout
 
If you gonna hold out for a few days...for the sake of thinking that you too fast and it's not lady like...whats the point? If you wanna phuck and going to phuck DO IT! Holding off 3 days doesn't make it any better sheeze.

Follow your instincts follow your heart and go with the flow. Don't follow others ways.

-antonio
 
i said 3 dates, meaning 1 date a week= 1 month.

i wasnt asking for me. just asking in general cause so much controversy is on this subject.
 
It's really up to you. Only you know when you're ready.

If you like him a lot and if you are looking to date this guy, lets say, a long-term relationship, then you better wait if you want him to call you the next day.

If you are just horny and want to bang the life out of him or if you wanna get banged, go for it.

However, I'm sure you know the answer to your own question. Do what you feel is right. Or give your body something it needs.
 
Yeah, like Ant said. I like to get to know the person, but sometimes you really feel comfortable with a person right off the bat! I think its what's good for both.
 
It's stupid putting time span on something that essentially is going to happen.

-antonio
 
I wouldn't know....lol I have never really taken the time to date. Once you sleep in my bed you are caught (that's right ball and chained) lol!
 
I thinks it's better to wait but it's really up to your hormones.
 
from my point of view i prefer to take it slow and easy
does not matter if its 3 weeks or 3 months as long as we
know the feelings are mutual
 
I have to agree that it matters what you are looking for. If you are looking for a relationship with the person, I think it is best to wait awhile. I think if you are a woman, the man respects you more. If you are just physically attracted to the person, and dont care where it goes, who cares? Just be prepared that most likely there isnt much future. But then again, it always depends on the people involved and the moment, when you click with someone, I think you just can feel when you know it is right.
 
On the real if you feel comfortable on the first day so be it if you want to wait to see where it goes so be it bottom line is if its meant to go down it will go down the first day the next week wateva sleeping with someone the first day does not make u a bad person I know people who eded up in long term relationships off sexing the first night. Sometimes the physcal attraction is so strong ya cant wait. It is all on the chemistry and where u want to take it if you hooked up with the person you obviously know something about them so its on you. 🙂
 
It all depends on the moment and the chemistry of both people involved.
Sometimes you just click with the person and feel so comfortable that it works right off.
I personally like to wait, but there have been times when you can’t wait because you just know the sex is going to be ph**ing great and it does turn out great.

If you want a serious relationship then you should wait at least on the 3rd date not the fourth. Things will eventually happen anyway, if it works out it works out well. :yeey
 
to me it also is a matter of time before i make that step with someone i need to feel in my heart that we both feel the same about each other
 
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