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Ok scenarios:

You're dating a guy a lil younger than u, he keeps in touch w/ his ex...
You: don't keep in touch w/ YOUR ex, however there are people interested in dating YOU.

The Ex all of a sudden starts callin him up- cuz they found he's happy w/ YOU. HOwever- even though u found an email from a few months ago- while the both of you were seeing eachother...it mentions things like
"wanting to hold you (ex)lay down n chill, rent a DVD, and each fried chicken"
So if you ask what's up with that email and he states it's during an old arguement, and that he's not looking for her-
What do u think? U figure u trust him somewhat right?

Then he finds out about those people interested in dating YOU, yet you have no interest- and have not made any reservations about even considering it.

Are YOU wrong? HOw would u feel if he expressed HIS anger towards it- and wouldn't let you at least explain how u felt about that email and the situation at hand.....

****give it to me- I can take it!****
 
It sounds like he's reacting angrily because he knows what he's been doing was wrong & is probably suspecting you doing what he's been doing
 
my ? is...why would u say "wanting to hold you (ex)lay down n chill, rent a DVD, and each fried chicken" while ur having an argument with someone ? And are you wrong about what ? Your not doing n e thing wrong!

if he can express his feelings about other ppl wanting to date you, y cant u express your feelings about that email ? You have to trust the man if your in a relationship with him... other wise whats the point ? but, something doesnt sound right. If it was me... i would ask him about the email, whether he gets mad or not. and if there is nothing to hide... y get mad about it ?
 
Girl sometimes love is not easy…. I think you should talk to him there is no reason for him to get mad that alone is a sing that he is not mature like you are. Communication and Trust is a must in a relationship. Just keep your eyes open and if you think he still has something going on with his ex question her if you have too. Sometimes I think is best to go the root of the problem and get it over with so you can either stay with him or move on. Remember a relationship is about the two of you spending time together getting to know each other not about him and the two of you, if he doesn’t put up with that why should you. Good luck girl.
 
well thing is- like i said he emailed her- and yet I'm not doing anything wrong, he knows where i can reached @ all times-

I haven't done anything wrong, or anything at all......just that I did confront him about that email. he's like I'm not persuing her/it

and I'm like I"M not persuing anyone- so we go with the flow of things, yet i don't want to stir the pot again- i'm just madd that I didn't get my piece in it
 
It seems like she's got some sort of influence on him- in a sense where she's always asking him for advice, help etc. but yet if she hate him shes' always looking for him- and then when that happend I keep my distance, I don't argue, I just walk away. ( he hates that) so it seems to get thru his head that I don't like it when she's around (mentally-)....I think she's bad news- from the things he's told me bout her HOWEVER he choooses to keep her around- so I drift........
 
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