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lil_reeses said:
What scares me ( i think thats the word), is that he was really good with the few exceptions that i couldnt live with. And although they didnt involve cheating or anything like that, they were things that i couldnt handle living with. Its scary because what he was good at, many guys are lacking. I'm scared im not going to find that again. Maybe thats why i kept gettiing back with him.

Where are the guys with complete morals and compassion and understanding and all that stuff? i certainly havent seen one lately
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Ok.. im reading this and am thinking.. wow..So glad im not 17 anymore! You are so young.. YOU HAVE the rest of your life ahead of you and trust me when I tell you that when u r this young and you fall in love you feel like your whole world is collapsing and u will NEVER find anyone good enuff for you..I thought that way and was married at 19. 14 yrs Later I was divorced cuz WE GREW apart. What I thought was LOVE and couldnt be w/out.. wasn't. You are YOUNG.. go out.. date.. don't take this guy back because he doesnt know WHAT he wants.. so.. you move on.. and YOU will find someone down the road that IS the one and u'll Know.. 🙂 LOVE is PATIENT!
 
LilReeses, sounds like he is not sure what he wants, but he wants to take you on the roller coaster ride with him.

If you don't feel the same for him like you used to, then be fair to him, and yourself, and let him go.
 
thanks to Rican lips and Chuck and the rest of u once again, you guys have been really helpful.
 
Aaaww, honey, you are so young... and yes, there are very few good men out there, but at your age, you have so much time to finally find the right one. If you ever have yourself in a situation again where you are thinking to yourself... well, he's good to me and all, but I'm most afraid that I won't find someone better... then you know right off the bat, the one you're with or contemplating on being with is NOT THE ONE for you.

It's not easy, and please do not take it like I think this is an easy decision for you.

I know too well myself how hard it recognizing just because you love someone doesn't mean you ARE IN LOVE with them.

He said/acts the way he does because he knows what he had and yet he knows that it's over and it's hard for some people to let go.

Rican, I so agree with you, thank god I'm not that young any more.... (the only thing is, I'm still single with two kids and to find a good man is SOOOO HARD)...


Sorry lil reeses, didn't mean to turn this into my problem. lol

Good Luck.
 
4eVerFreeStyle said:
Aaaww, honey, you are so young... and yes, there are very few good men out there, but at your age, you have so much time to finally find the right one. If you ever have yourself in a situation again where you are thinking to yourself... well, he's good to me and all, but I'm most afraid that I won't find someone better... then you know right off the bat, the one you're with or contemplating on being with is NOT THE ONE for you.

It's not easy, and please do not take it like I think this is an easy decision for you.

I know too well myself how hard it recognizing just because you love someone doesn't mean you ARE IN LOVE with them.

He said/acts the way he does because he knows what he had and yet he knows that it's over and it's hard for some people to let go.

Rican, I so agree with you, thank god I'm not that young any more.... (the only thing is, I'm still single with two kids and to find a good man is SOOOO HARD)...


Sorry lil reeses, didn't mean to turn this into my problem. lol

Good Luck.
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LOL u nut! but yes Reeses u r very young. live ur life and enjoy it while u can. Take it from me, I'm only 23 already been married divorced and have 2 kids.
 
nessa's302 said:
LOL u nut! but yes Reeses u r very young. live ur life and enjoy it while u can. Take it from me, I'm only 23 already been married divorced and have 2 kids.
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I'm a nut and you are _______ ???? j/k Love you too!

😉
 
nessa's302 said:
IHA DIABLO!!!!!!!!!! so not kewl Gina :nah :dancepuff MUA
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you and gina are too much lol...thanks por sus opiniones..they are greatly appreciated
 
there are many phazes of love,there is the in love,then the love,then graduates to the friend love.you have to recognize that the fireworks,will end eventually,when they go,the next phaze of love enters,it may not feel right at first,but in time it will make your bond stronger.the main thing is to recognize it,though.if you dont,you will think the love is over.as far as the marriage thing goes,dont think it,let it happen.take it from someone who knows.i am divorced from a woman i spent 10 years with.from when i was 17.this is why it didnt last.......a woman matures faster than a man does.when we started,we had the sparks.when we settled into each other,she began to mature,and i was a kid still.some time later,i caught up,and we were fine for awhile,then she matured even more.i caught up agin.after all this catching up with each other put a toll on the both of us.it got to the point where when we finally met each other in maturity level,we realized it wouldnt work.i hung in for my children,i didnt want them to come from a broken home.unfortunately she decided to bolt,and now im a single father.what im trying to say in my rambling is give it time,you might love each other,but alot of maturing has to be done with the both of you.just sit back,and ride the lightning,and if its meant to be,it will be.
 
lol...we've been split. I just wanted to know what he meant by that because it hurts you know.
As far as getting back with him ( i wont say never b/c you can never say never) but its really unlikely. I've decided to go my own way and he finally realized that this is what i wanted..its just that it pissed him off, so now hes also realized that hes got to do the same. Its hard but its happening and im proud to say that i've had the courage to stop visiting his live journal (which used to get me down) and i've deleted his emails and his phone number from my cell and i've also blocked him from my messenger.

Its time to start over 🙂
 
lil_reeses said:
lol...we've been split. I just wanted to know what he meant by that because it hurts you know.
As far as getting back with him ( i wont say never b/c you can never say never) but its really unlikely. I've decided to go my own way and he finally realized that this is what i wanted..its just that it pissed him off, so now hes also realized that hes got to do the same. Its hard but its happening and im proud to say that i've had the courage to stop visiting his live journal (which used to get me down) and i've deleted his emails and his phone number from my cell and i've also blocked him from my messenger.

Its time to start over 🙂
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yes it is... 🙂...
 
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