Need help with a lil' situation

[Payback]

Hello I'm new to this board, but, I'd really appreciate any advice from someone.... Well see I kinda have this thing called social anxiety it's got a lot worse over the years, I use to be able to express my feelings towards a girl I like and i've been able to be myself you know your typical party animal/sweet talker. I'm a real gentleman when it comes to treating women correctly.. But the social anxiety kinda sorta got worse due to certain reasons i sort of closed myself off from everyone friends and all, but recently i was surfing the web online and i ran into this adorable woman. So far her personality's everything I've been searching for if she acts the same way in real life. But well here's my situation, I like this woman but I don't know how to go out and tell her that i'm interested in her. I get so shy around her and my mind goes completely blank. But I have no clue if she's interested in me at all either i know she's always complimenting me on how sweet I am, how I'm fun to talk to, how easy it is to get along with me. She's even made comments like you're a one in a million kind of guy, the world needs to clone guys like you so women like me can go out with them. She's constantly asking me out to lunch but being shy i turn her down in a polite and honest answer such as I'd love to go out to eat with you but I'm just too shy at the moment and so forth yet she says she's going to keep trying no matter how many times the answers no until i get over my shyness, she's constantly asking me to call her, and recently she asked me how i'd feel if she moved to chicago next year. I don't know what to do or assume She tells me she wants a nice man in her life for a change. Any ideas on what i should do or assume?


P.S. We've seen pics of one another and she is really who she says she is due to the fact that live webcams don't lie we're both in the same city and just 2 yrs apart in age differences

 

[Geonitacka]

DUDE! she totally likes you, but the problem is gttin a way 4 ya ta get over ur shyness and stuff so......hmmmmmm(come cfers help me out)
I'd say 4 u to say yes to her idk but I do know she likes u.

 

[JackG]

Dudeeeeeeeeee

 

[Coro'sGirl]

heeellllllloooooooo go out to lunch with her maybe its fate! :hearton

 

[Payback]

I will, I think I figured it out already. I think she likes me she kept on telling me how she'd like to hold my hand no matter how shy I'd get and so forth because normally due to my shyness whenever i'm around a girl i like i completely freeze up now i dont know why my mind goes blank, i can't look at them eye to eye i kick the ground like a lil 2nd grader who meets his first crush, and i get all nervous. i sometimes start to stutter a bit. i wasn't always this bad with the shyness but it just keeps getting worse and worse... heh i need to find a way to get over it but i will go out to lunch with her. she has such an adorable smile!

 

[CHALU136]

GO OUT FOR LUNCH!!

 

[Geonitacka]

i know thts wht I told him but nooooooo

 

[CHALU136]

I'M ALSO A REALLY SHY PERSON AND I THINK YOU JUST NEED TO FORCE YOURSELF.

 

[sExXxe]

BOYY U BETTER ACT RIGHT AND SNAG HER OR SHE WILL BE GONE! DONT MAKE ME COME GET U AND SLAP THE SHYNESS OUT OF U..LOLZ MUAHZ GOODLUCK BEBE!

 

[mellow729]

dude this chick digs u man...if she lives by u its pefect..just ask her to get together man...just like that ask her to get together...i mean what do u got to lose thats how i been thinking lately..if u like her and im sure she likes you...just go for it. if u seen each other on cam abd she still tlking to u then its all good.....u bettr do this tonight dude and let us know what happens...lol....good luck man..im counting on u!!!!

 

[Payback]

well we're finally going to meet this upcomming weekend i'm not really too sure if she's interested in me though she's talking to this guy named Joey but she says she likes the both of us so =/ i don't know. I'm not ready to compete really i'm still too shy lol

 

[1sxychica]

be urself and try not to hide ur feelings for her... basically show her the time of her life on this date and give her something to remember 😉 so when she's with "Joey" all she'll be thinking about is u.

 

[Payback]

I dunno if that would be possible while she's with me she's thinking about Joey... I don't really get it he's all ghetto, she says she wants someone nice, he treats her the exact opposite of nice, I treat her nice I'm polite, I'm never rude with her. And I always do whatever i say it is i'll do, i'm never late on my phonecalls when i'd tell her i'll call and so forth.

 

[1sxychica]

hmm... i dunno then hunny... take ur time then abd be urself.