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Well, here's an update, possibly the last one, not sure if I'll be seeing her again before she leaves.
Well, this is how the night went in short:
We were planning on going to a bar/pub, but there were so many people disagreeing on where, by the time we decided anything it was 1am so we all (8 of us), played Monopoly with a twist, roll certain numbers and you gotta take a shot of Absolut Vodka, boy that stuff tastes nasty, I prefer Smirnoff, even though I kinda hate alcohol. Anyway, my bud, his bro, and both his cousins (the two girls) all pretty much were "drunk", while I was buzzed, the drivers didn't drink, they just played though... I'm rambling... well before we're about to leave, I was in the kitchen with my friend and his cousin, her sister, I asked her what she thinks about what I'm attempting, and she said "why you bothering, you know she lives in England", I explained that it's nothing more than just a friendship I'm seeking, so she said ok, it's fine. My friend called her into the kitchen, and he and her sis left the kitchen so I could speak to her alone. Well, I pretty much just told her, that I know my friend has pretty much told her I like her, and I'd like to keep in touch and all and she said that's fine, I pretty much reasserted my self that I didn't wanna burden her and all, she said why would it burden her, she said she doesn't really check her email much. She was gonna take my addy down and I was gonna give her mine, but we didn't do it at the time as we were supposed to see each other again today, but that didn't happen. I pretty much didn't see any enthusiasm in her at the time, I don't know if it was because of the alcohol, or if she's just not interested as she broke up w/her b/f before visiting. 🙁 So pretty much the night was crap, if I see her tonight, I'm gonna talk to her when we're both sober, but I just have that bad feeling... I guess I should have just never bothered from the start. Time to go back to not bothering with women... I ain't got much luck with em, I'll just stick to cars and hanging out w/my friends. My apologies for the long winded post.
 
WELL YOU KNOW WHAT THEN SHE ISNT WORTH YOUR TIME IF SHE CANT SEE HOW SWEET YOU ARE DONT HAVE THAT ATTITUDE IT SHOULD JUST MAKE YOU STRONGER.....AND LIKE JACK SAID YOU ALWAYS HAVE FREESTYLE AND ALL OF US WE LUV YA😉
 
Well, thanks for the kind words... but I have a new update, this one is actually good! 😀 We all went clubbing tonight, so we split into two cars, and luckily she came along in the car I was in... So I sat in the back w/her and had a nice little talk about the whole thing, why I like her, and would like to keep in touch. Tonight she was understanding and she said she would email me as well, she seemed interested tonight. Now things got much better when we got to the second club (we went to two, first one was dead!). She was a little ill at first as she had a little too much to drink, boy can those British drink though! Anyway, after she had gotten some fresh air she became her usual hyper/fun self and dancing all over the place. Near the end of the night, she succeeded at doing something no friend of mine, nor any female has ever been able to do to me: she got ME to dance! I've been clubbing since I was 15 or 16 (now 21), and I never actually danced at the clubs... but she danced with me and got me to finally move on the dance floor! I guess it's something about her that did it, she's so lively. Anyway, before we leave, said goodbye to some other friends we went with, said goodbye to her cousin, then her, but I got a nice little hug from her, so things seem to be getting a little better... I think tomorrow is the last time I'll be seeing here, so I'll try and make the best of it, I'll hopefully give her a nice big hug as she made me feel good tonight! Thanks for reading my long winded updates, I'm actually feeling happy 'bout things for once! Definitely going to be keeping in touch with her and hopefully develop a long lasting friendship.
 
DANCING ON THE FIRE......HEHE

HEY ELUDER, I AM GLAD TO HEAR THAT EVERYTHING WENT WELL TONITE. SEE, NOW WAS THAT SOOO BAD?? LOL SO SHE GOT YOU TO DANCE HUH!! COOL.....WELL AT LEAST YOU HAD A GOOD TIME. I WILL BE LOOKING FORWARD TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS TOMORROW...(THIS IS LIKE A SOAP OPERA) 😀 BUT A GOOD ONE THO.
 
<-------is about to cry lol i am glad she had a change of heart,and i am glad you let loose and danced and enjoyed yourself,i truly hope things work out for you guys!!!!!! keep us informed!!! Peace,Lisa😀
 
Thanks ladies... 😀 It was a great night, probably one of the best nights, if not the best I've had at a club. I'm not the type to dance usually cause I'm such a shy guy, so believe me this was an accomplishment... all my friends were pushing me to dance, but she's the one that got me moving. 🙂
 
She's leaving today... 🙁 Me gonna feel crappy for a while knowing what a sap I am. Guess I'll have to try and find someone that lives in my Country to try and hook up with. My luck sucks when it comes to women!
 
Well, I couldn't really "hook up" w/her as there wouldn't be much of a point, after all she lives in England and all. I did get her email and all, so I guess we'll keep in touch, but you know, woulda been nice if things were diff. Eh, I guess I'll get over it soon enough.
 
Eluder

i have to say, long distance relationships suck BIGTIME!!! if u can deal wit it, i guess its cool. but i wouldnt recommend starting this type of relationship. u probably cant see it now, but its a lotta work, trouble, & most of all-frustration! trust me! im in one now and its so hard. i mean, does she come back to tha US a lot? there's no local honeys ur feelin'?
 
I understand what all you are saying, and trust me, I know it's a pain. It's just sometimes, the heart controls more than the mind can overcome. It's cool though, I know nothing can come out of this, that's why I'm just gonna stick w/just having a friendship until the distance changes, if ever. Mark, she doesn't come to the US often, even if she did, it wouldn't help me much, I'm in Canada. 😀 There were girls I liked here, but they ended up being shallow and crap... ahh well, back to cars I go. Ooh, can't wait to hit the tracks this Saturday! 😉
 
I'm heading to St. Thomas Drag Way, my bud w/the ~400HP 300zx should be coming w/me, he'll be doing his first ever runs w/his car, we're both pretty anxious to see what kinda times it'll pull. Regarding girls, I generally like Blue Eyed Blondes, but for some reason I end up going for the Brunettes, don't ask me why. 🙂 I hope you can find me one w/a nice personality, and brains, don't want a body only. I'm looking for the "full package". 😉 Height, don't mind any, but sorta prefer the shorter girls, after all, I'm not that tall...
 
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