Need Advice...

🤖 AI Summary

No AI summary has been generated for this thread yet.
E

Eluder

New member
Joined
Mar 25, 2001
Messages
1,758
Reaction score
0
Points
0
Location
Toronto, Ontario
There's this girl that I've quickly become attracted to. She's one of my good friend's cousins from England which makes distance and time left w/her a pain. Now, I have virtually no time to do much w/her; I've been talking to some friends about this, and all of em have told me to just let her know what I'm feeling. Now I'm wondering, what sorta approach do you people think I should take? I wanna let her know b4 she takes off, and I wanna keep in touch via email, but I'm wondering how I should go about this. Mind you, the friend, who's her cousin is all for it, he's even trying to help me, but honestly, what's the best approach?! I'm confused! 🙁 Oh, I've pretty much got this weekend left w/her, so the sooner you gimme some advice, the better. 😉

Thanks!
 
Hi Eluder, well i would suggest the honest an blunt approach i would just go up to her and say
Look we dont have much time left with eachother and i really like you and i want to know you better and keep in touch,what do you think and if she honestly feels the same way then you can come up with a communication issue and swap emails and im's and phone calls!!Women like men who are not afraid to show emotion and say what they feel just do it right remember honest and blunt and perhaps a little sweet romantic thing like flowers or a date to the movies or out to eat will top it off and leave a lasting impression on her!!!Hope it works out let me know what happens!!!Peace,Lisa😉
 
Hmm, so far what you said is pretty much what I was planning, but the flowers or the date are too much for me, I'm extremely shy, and I'd be seriously embarassed by doing either as there's a little group of us that have been good friends for a while and they all know me, her cousin, and now know her, and when they see the flowers or even hear about the date, they'll just go buck on me. That's not something I can handle, I'd explode cause of how nervous I would be. Trust me, getting the guts to say how I feel is going to be hard enough for me, let alone asking her out or getting her flowers. I may think of the flower(s) (single red rose?)... I don't know, this is freakin' me out! Thanks again.
 
ummm that sounds a littletoo aggressive you might scare her lol but dont be shy maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move,and if someone says something to you just ignore them they are supposed to be supporting you not making fun and if she cares she will ignore them too but you should do this by yourself with her its a private thing so you wont have to worry who s around to make fun try it eluder and tell me what happens!!!!!!!! ok now do it.........😎
 
Well, I don't really plan on going deep into it, just plan on telling her why I am attracted to her and that I'd like to stay in touch. Getting her alone is going to be tough, as I said, it's a group of HS friends that I'm always with (she's one of their cousins), so it doesn't give me much of a chance, but I guess I'll let my bud know when I'm going to talk to her so he can "clear the way" for me. I already having a feeling she doesn't really mind as I've gotten "news" that she was blushing when talking about me to her cousin (he told me)... 🙂 So I guess that's a good sign? Thank you again.
 
HEY ELUDER. YOU CAN TRY JUST LETTING HER KNOW THAT YOU HAVE REALLY ENJOYED SPENDING TIME WITH HER, AND THAT YOU WANNA KEEP IN TOUCH. 🙂 GOOD LUCK!!
 
ELUDER I WOULD SAY FOR YOU TO LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, HOW SHE HAS MADE YOU FEEL. JUST BE HONEST. IF THEY ATTRACTION IS THERE THE BEST THING TO DO IS LET HER KNOW. ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO LET THAT PERSON HOW YOU FEEL AND HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL EVEN WHEN YOU ARE UNSURE OF THE OUTCOME. I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU 🙂
 
Thanks a lot for the advice ladies... I think I will go ahead and let her know how I feel about her. I just have to muster up the courage to do. 🙁
 
I know, I've done it once before, around Christmas time w/a friend at school... boy it took me some time to get the courage, but I finally let her know what I felt about her and it really made me more relaxed and able to concentrate on my exams.
 
Thanks, you wouldn't think someone of my age would really be this shy! Sheesh, I really gotta stop being like this...
 
Damn, the man himself wishes me good luck! That's a good thing! 😉 I think Saturday might be the time I do it, we might be hittin' Niagra Falls and all, so hopefully on the ride down there she'll come in the same car as me, and we'll talk, that or at the falls I'll open up to her. Must do it soon though, not much time left.
 
LOL, ya it prob will happen b4 the chat, but the thing is, Sunday would be the last night I may see her, so who knows if I'll be around the chat... 😀
 
Do what you got to do - we have faith in you. Whatever happens - good or bad, you will always have Freestyle!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top