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Hi yall as many of you know I getting married in June, well I have a situation and I need advice and suggestions. Well I have been contemplating about inviting my father to the wedding. Well I know he is my father, but he has not been there for me in and out like a ghost my mom actually told me to invite him to see if he shows up and give him a taste of his own medicine, my uncle is walking me down the aisle, but then I dont want to do that it is not me and I dont know how prepared I will be emotionally, he has through out the years bought my hopes down when he has said something and dont do it. I feel that I shouldnot invite him and that is my personal feeling, but I am inviting some of my aunts and uncles is that wrong. What do u guys think??
 
If your father has not had a positive influence on you, there is no reason to invite him.

Do what you want for your special day, and don't let anyone guilt you into anything that you don't want to do.
 
i agree with Chuck, Jazzy. this is YOUR DAY, girl. you do what YOU want to do....no explanations necessary. this is gonna be a day you'll never forget and you want it to be happy and beautiful with no regrets. he may be your father, but it doesn't sound like he was much of a daddy. so to avoid any drama on your day, i would not invite him. good luck!! 🙂
 
i disagree. i did not invite my sister to my wedding in 1996 because she was just not a nice person and other reasons that i will not go in to. to this day, i do not regret my decision. i know if i would have invited her, i would have been distracted.
i think jazzy doesn't want to invite him but feels "obligated" to. so my advice to her to do what she wants to do and not be swayed by what others want her to do. she should go with her gut feeling.
 
Thanks guys. I dont feel obligated, but I am confused and to be honest I dont think Ill miss him there I have my uncle who has been my father figure. It is that his brother and sisters will be there and I know he will be an a*****e about it, but guess what that is what happens whe u are not in ur childs life. But there are other reasons taht I dont want to get into that makes me not want him there, he hurt me and when I needed him there he wasnt
 
Jazzy, whatever you decide to do, just make sure its what YOU want. i'm sure you're wedding is going to be beautiful!! can't wait to see the pics! 🙂
 
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