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ok, me and my girl had an argument tonight, i had called her cell and got no answer, but less than 5 minutes later i tried from my sisters line which is a blocked line and she picked up on the first ring, that got my mind thinking. when i asked her what is goin on and she changed the subject. then we talked later on in the evening and something just wasn't right. does anyone make anything out of this?????
 
thanx enigma, i knew that already........ you think i was wrong for asking her anything
 
ENIGMA SAID IT ALL SHE JUST MAD AT YOU.
DO NOT THINK BEYOND THE OBVIOUS YOUR MIND MAY LEAD
TO A CONCLUSION THAT YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE.
GIVE IT TIME!

JAY 🙂
 
Yeah...she might be mad at you but that doesn't explain why she didn't answer the phone when you called. Seems to me something else might be going on. Try talking to her about it. Don't just jump to conclusions. Good luck! 🙂
 
JAY91 said:
ENIGMA SAID IT ALL SHE JUST MAD AT YOU.
DO NOT THINK BEYOND THE OBVIOUS YOUR MIND MAY LEAD
TO A CONCLUSION THAT YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE.
GIVE IT TIME!

JAY 🙂
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And its also THE ONLY WAY. 🙂 Not that im assuming nor giving you an impression...time is in control here.

-ant
 
Jay you are right my mind did jump to a conclusion, and even though i know she is not that kind of girl, it still does bother me that she decided to get pissed at me and change the subject. yes krystal was the first thing that popped in my mind, i just realy don't know what to think, but it was good hearing from a girl that something could be goin on.... thanx
 
Ahhhhhh don't forget though...don't jump to conclusions...could be something as simple as she was not by the phone when it rang when you called the first time or maybe she was in the middle of doing something and couldn't answer it right away. 🙂

I'm famous for that. Call me one minute and I may not answer. Call back the very next minute and I'm answerin on the first ring! 😉
 
well if im mad at my bf or ne one else for that matter if they call me i wont pick up or return their calls till im ready...cuz i dont want to say something i'll regret afterwards...so i just call when im calm and collected....but guys do the same cuz my bfs doing the samething to me now so its not only the bellas that do this lol
 
I been there before and I'm not saying she's doing anything wrong but that seems kind of strange that she would not pick up your call but would be willing 2 pick up a call from an unknown number. If I was u I would try and talk 2 her.She avoided your question about your relationship by changing the subject and 2 me that is not a very good sign and in the end I bet u that she is confused between u and another guy or she is thinking about ending it as I said i've been in that situation before so just be careful......
 
i think shes just mad at u. dont go thinkin about other stuff like y she picked the phone up like that. cause that will just make more n more problems
 
OK BEFORE I STICK MY SPOON IN THIS POT...I WOULD NEED TO KNOW DOES SHE KNOW YOUR SISTER'S NUMBER? BECAUSE AS A WOMAN IF I WERE MAD AND DIDN'T WANT TO SPEAK TO YOU I WOULD'VE RATHER SPOKEN TO MY SIS-IN-LAW FIRST JUST TO SIMMER DOWN (THAT'S FOR EXAMPLE)...(BUT I DON'T HAVE ONE) SO YES SHE WAS MAD AT YOU AND ALL U NEED TO DO IS TAKE IT LIKE A MAN AND DISCUSS THE PROBLEM WHEN SHE IS COLLECTED.
 
No she doesn't know my sisters number, it is blocked...and i really doubt it is another guy, though i could be wrong.i am just upset at the fact that she tried to change the subject when i asked her about it. and another thing is no she wasn't mad at me before that we actually had a good night the night before.
 
WELL I WOULD SUGGEST THAT WHEN YOU SEE HER FACE TO FACE YOU GUYS SIT AND DISCUSS IT...START BY TELLING HER CALMLY WHAT DISTURBED YOU AND THAT YOU GUYS NEED TO CLEAR THE AIR...I CALL THOSE "POWER TALKS" ONCE IN A WHILE THEY ARE GOOD TO HAVE...I SAY SO FROM EXPERIENCE..JUST MAKE SURE THAT YOU HEAR EACH OTHER OUT WITHOUT INTERRUPTIONS AND GIVE EACH OTHER A CHANCE TO ANSWER WHATEVER QUESTIONS YOU BOTH MIGHT HAVE.
 
That is good advice mzcrazybtch, i don't think she was mad at me before that and i doubt highly it's another guy, maybe i just jumped at it to soon. i dunno
 
I ONLY SAY IT BECAUSE I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE...IT HAPPENS TO THE BEST OF US...GOD BLESS! THINGS WILL WORK OUT.
 
sExXxe said:
I THINK UR HIGHLY OVER EXAGERATING SWEETIE!
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I don't think so.it was disrespectful and knowing that my mind will start to wonder she should have known better than to do that.it upset me a great deal cuz i didn't know what was goin on.

but thank god she listened today and we worked it all out.

Thanx for the advice guys...
 
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