Need advice for my Homegirl

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Liz_Torres

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Recently someone confessed thier feelings for my best friend and although we don't see eachother much we talk on the phone alot- (TY SprintPCS) so she tells me how they plan on meeting up sometime next week and wanted me to give her adivce on thier meetin mind u we're all of age and consenting adults....

um how do I do this- I always try to give the best adivce, but I told her I DIDN'T have advice to tell her cuz I personally need to be in that position to know how to react or know what to say- I ususally go with the flow on things, but it's Her we're talkin about.

the person interested knows me but not very well and is worried that I'll spill the beans- I won't cuz I don't care, but it turns out he USED to confess his feeling about her to my b/f!!! He no longer works with our CO. and they've decided to make something of thier friendship...
ugh...

I'm saying: I didn't know what to tell her what to say to him if he wants to kiss her.... cuz I'm not there- (in a way that's eww)

a lil help plz.....
 
You just confused the hell out of me Liz! :lol

Is this guy a convicted murderer or something? Spill the beans about what?

If he's basically a good person...tell her to go for it. He may be the one for her. 🙂 She'll never know until she tries.
 
No- he's not like that BUY he used to work w/ my b/f and her- and she's shy go figure....I'm the outgoing one.

she wants to do something with him- but how can I tell her what to say.. I told her to go with the flow.
He's afraid I'm goin to my b/f a gossip about him and her being together- but i don't care really, only if it gets to a point where he (IF) disrespects her...then I'll care.

I don't see him as her type- but I know not to talk too loud cuz if u see my b/f and me- u can tell we're not meant to be together but he keeps me grounded ( when I want to be)
so anyways.....I hope that didn't make it MORE comfusing
 
i just got asked my advice from a friend to tell her friend that for some reason feels that an ex convict who just got out of jail after eight years for dealing drugs is the best thing for her hes got no place really to go so shes gonna let him move in my advice was to "tell her to stop smoking crack!!" they hooked up online its amazing to me that doing hard time allows one to get online and pick up women!!! i wonder what the profile said?? "down to earth fun loving guy whos on lock down 22 hours a day..looking for a dumb ass girl who will ignore the fact that i probably wont have a job when i get out and more then likely commit another crime within weeks of my release.. but im just a puppy dog the prosecutor just misunderstood me when i was caught with a brick of coke..bad boys need love too!! please IM me dontdropthesoap@yahoo.com
 
Liz_Torres said:

yes funny liz that "lack of oxygen to the brain" girl actually has to ask her friends "do you think im wrong??" im so confused in my feelings"
 
lol, taezee babe, i thought you were giving us her email so we can tell her to stop smoking crack....shes sicko. I started to see convict, someone who also served 7 years in prison, hes on parole, when he told me that shyt, I ran the other way, no f*&( way Im getting involved with such man. They show the nice s ide, but addition is addiction and Im not gonna live with the fear.

Liz, if she wants to check him out, let her, but she is grown to make her own decisions, i dont understand why he need to worry about your ex, its his life. Some people just worry abotu what others have to say and dont do what they want, you can get advise but its up to you to make the decision. Its ok to hear, hes not your type, but then he may be who she likes, know what I mean.
 
Yeah I hear ya- I also got lost for a second. I thought I had Mentioned "EX" thatn I had to read my last post.

yeah I told her - do whatever and go with the flow, if she's not feeling it to let it go- don't keep on becuz she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, he's not all that (fk'in gringos) heh- I'll keep you posted.
 
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