okay..the 'atrraction is there" in order for that to be possible then shes out shopping.she sees something she likes and is pulling her credit card out looking to take it home!!!in order for that to even be a possible "transaction' then her "man" is lacking somewhere..if im with a woman I want to know im the only thing she wants at the end of the day..that shes not" shopping around"..looking for the next bargain!!lets be blunt as I always am...if shes even remotely involved in the posiblity of another jockey riding😉 then true love is out of the question..what advice does your friend want?? can i Phuck this new guy then decide if i really want to stay with my current man??.please!!! you know by now I dont sugarcoat nothing!! she needs to decide am I in or out..with her current love..im sure she hasnt given him any hint of this "online" friend...me personally you either give me 100% or get out of my life..i wont take nothing less...I dont share and I dont wait..niether should he..you word it like shes the victim....boo hoo hoo poor girl..give her some advice!!please!!!you want your current love /or do you want to explore.?? there no such thing as a gray area in love!!! the only reason i really react to this post is because if it was the other way around then I would be a dog!!!another man phucking around on his girl!!shes playing and is asking if its okay..either love the one your with or let him go.then go out and see wassup dam do i really need to spell this out??poor girl..what a dilema!!boo hoo hoo...thats just my opinion.OF COURSE I could be wrong!!
LOL Taezee I love your bluntness and I didn't have for you to sugarcoat it. I agree with you in some aspect. I told her she had to choose between the two....make a decision and stick with it. But like I said she is very much in love with her man and also comfortable (this is me talking). She loves the idea that he will always be there and she can count on him. I've never met him, so I don't know if he treats her right I can only go what she is telling me. On the other hand, there's another who seems to be there, he's new, he has the right things to say, and a mystery I can see why she is attractive. AGAIN I stress that I don't believe she was looking. Sometimes people come into your life unexpectly. I think she is afraid to choose from one.....the new, well he's new....he isn't that comfy blanket....who knows he may just want some butthang, or just that fact to win her love and then leave just for the fun of it....and then there's her man.....comfortable, always there, and loves her. How can she choose the other when she has it all with her man. Basically she is still young....all she knows is her man (Mainly) maybe she does need to move on, but I'm not saying this is the one she should move on too.....but this one may have opened her eyes that there COULD be another.