My Son The Bully

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Sexyangel329

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Lol I was just telling Nessa that I called my mom as I do every day to see how my son is and how he behaved in daycare well a new little boy started he is 3yrs old and they told my mom my son was hitting on the new little boy all day and when my mom came to pick Tavian up the other little boy wanted to leae with my mom cause he wanted to leave with Tavian since they had been playing all day together. Now Tavian will be 2 in November so he hasnt yet grasped the no hitting people rule he is very agressive and heavy handed so even when he doesnt mean too he is rough he lvoes other kids and can sometimes show it by pulling grabbing you know the usuall. He does it to me he gets so angry he will hit me or when I hit him he will swing his hand at me this child got a temper on him like whoah. As a mom raising a boy what are some effective ways to teach him not to hit for sport?
 
You tell them not to hit others unless they need to defend themselves...with my nephew I've hit him (not hard obviously) just to show him how it hurts and isn't nice...he seemed to grasp it when he was on the receiving end lol

Try dif things to see what works...just make sure you get him to understand fast
 
He still doesnt understand the no hitting he gets so angry he just swings after 2 swings and getting his hand hit he gets it but doesnt like it my son is stubborn and think he grown and he aint even 2 yet.
 
Angie...you gotta be firm...and have patience cuz it ain't gonna happen over night
 
That I know and believe me I am firm but its hard wearing two hats I am just beginning to get the hang of it lol
 
Just tell him that's the only thing he's allowed to hit...
 
Oh HELL NO you sure are lookin for an ass kickin there buddy lol I amthe gentlest soul .......with my son lol seriously neither myself or his Father are aggressive liek that it boggles my mind where he gets it from lol . Yesterday I had a little talk with him and I read him some books which he enjoyed a lot .
 
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Oh HELL NO you sure are lookin for an ass kickin there buddy lol I amthe gentlest soul .......with my son lol seriously neither myself or his Father are aggressive liek that it boggles my mind where he gets it from lol . Yesterday I had a little talk with him and I read him some books which he enjoyed a lot .
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I never said you was aggresive with him, pero en la calle...pobre gente !!! LOL
 
Anyone who knows me knows I am as sweet as candy I dotn start no drama out in the street im a lady lol Henny want to get jumped im sure nessa got my back lol
 
Sexyangel329 said:
Anyone who knows me knows I am as sweet as candy I dotn start no drama out in the street im a lady lol Henny want to get jumped im sure nessa got my back lol
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of course I do ma! tu dime a q hora y cuando?! ya me han puesto el titulo de problematica asi q mas bien live up to my name right!
 
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Anyone who knows me knows I am as sweet as candy I dotn start no drama out in the street im a lady lol Henny want to get jumped im sure nessa got my back lol
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Sure you are limon.....

of course I do ma! tu dime a q hora y cuando?! ya me han puesto el titulo de problematica asi q mas bien live up to my name right!

Hasme el favor Nessa, no jodas....lol
 
Ok thats it you said limonsita those are fighting words ya carajo lol lets go Nessa lemme see who else I can get naya is prego count her out lol
 
Wow, ma you gotta nip that in the bud right now because you don't want him to meet up with the wrong lil kid and he gets hurts. There was a little boy who use to hit Amy all the time and his parents were nochalant about it talking about he'll out grow it. Well he did when Amy told Matt, and Matt kick his butt. There is always a bigger brother or sister and you don't want him to get hurt. I know that he is young, but you have to put a stop to it. Defending himself is one thing, but hitting for no reason is another. Good Luck ma...........
 
He did it again today but today he was scariing the kid the thing with my son is that nothing scares him and thats why he hits he gets it at home from me but I know I have to keep on top of it. Another thign he isnt use to be around other kids so he gets excited and is rough , he loves kids though why he acting up I dont know but I am gonna take care of that.
 
Angie, maybe you can try this... when he is quiet, you know, relaxing with you, like when you read him stories.. very calmly talk to him about what he did that wasn't right.. we'll go with the hitting kids in school.. Have him look you in the eyes when you speak to him. Make sure your voice is even toned and talk like you're just matter of factly bringing it up in conversation. If you continue to do this the message will get thru, and it will also give him the confidence to come to talk to you calmly when something is bothering him.. that he has you on his side.. even though that's a given.. Tavi is just being his age.. all kids his age do these things... so it's how you handle it now that will pave the way for future situations... also.. just something to think about... he has just been moved from what he knew as HOME. Just because he can't express it to you doesn't mean your move hasn't affected him in some way. Perhaps he is taking out his aggression over this on his school mates out of frustration. Just a thought ma...
 
I am gonna try that generally when I talk to him its in teh midst of him having done soemthing he wasnt suppose too and he wont give me eye contact. You are right because so much has changed for him in such a short amount of time I think these are his ways of acting out I mean he has always been a little rough but he knew his boundaries and the dicipline he was getitng was daily and routinly now I feel guilt over everything he is going through so its harder for em to discipline him pero I am going to try that tonight when we are reading. Thanks everyone.
 
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