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JACK this didnt go through centered like i had it!!!! can u post it for me then ill give u the original This was supposed to be a heart shaped poem 🙁 NOWW IT WONT DELETE how embarrasssin I try to delete it and it says im not signed in but i signed in like 7 times already ::sigh:: nuthin ever works 4 me
JACK this didnt go through centered like i had it!!!! can u post it for me then ill give u the original This was supposed to be a heart shaped poem 🙁 NOWW IT WONT DELETE how embarrasssin I try to delete it and it says im not signed in but i signed in like 7 times already ::sigh:: nuthin ever works 4 me
Harv Roman
Radio Personality : WCEV 1450 AM Chicago
Emotional pain...things will get better!
Mandy...
I normally don't check out the "Love@Clubfreestyle" Forum, but for some reason, your subject line captured me.
Years ago, I met the mother of my son. This was someone who I had no idea was interested in me, so I kept it at a friendship level. Eventually, a mutual friend told me that this woman liked me-which of course I didn't believe, so I preceded to try to talk her out of liking me. It didn't work, and we agreed to start dating. She was my first-and believe it or not, I was already in my 20s!
Things went well for several years, and then about 9 years ago, she gave me the Jerry Springer speech and told me that she didn't love me anymore. I accepted the newsflash and continued to have a good friendship with her and have continued to see my son on a regular basis, pay his ransom, etc.
Of course, as the years went by, I swore off love, I felt that never again would I allow myself to enter into the emotional frenzy known as the "L" word...
About three years ago, I met someone who blew me away. Her personality and her passion for life amazed me. Even more amazing was the fact that apparently she flirted with me, and though I didn't respond (I didn't realize that she was flirting), she did pursue a friendship. And pursue we did...
Initially, I was afraid to let her into that part of my life, but the more time that I spent with her, the more comfortable I felt. She accepted all aspects of my life. She wasn't jealous of my ex, and she was excited to see me in action as a father, for as someone who wasn't raised by her natural father, she realized the value of that type of figure. As a matter of fact, when my son sees her, he runs to her for a hello hug. She gives him one right back, asks him how he's doing and how his mother is...No Latina Tempered Jealousy! Could this be?...Might there be someone else who I could commit myself to?
I didn't think so...I was wrong. The past 2 and a half years have blessed me with a new found friend. Someone who I wouldn't mind making happy. Someone who I can trust to have a positive impact on my son. Someone who isn't ready to settle down and make family.............yet. Things are great. Firstly, I'm glad I waited so long for the first one. Secondly, I'm happy that I decided to "move on". Sometimes people just don't feel the same way about you, as you feel for them. It's okay. Better happy alone than miserable with another. If I had decided that "there would never be another", who knows what would have happened...
Bottom line, we deserve to be happy. We deserve the opportunity to spend quality time without guilt. We deserve to be treated with respect and of course, we maintain the right to help make another happy.
If we limit our options, we limit our opportunities for growth. Someone else had a chance to make you happy. They blew it...their loss. In the long run, you'll gain the affections of someone who genuinely cares for and deserves you.
Like a sprained ankle, it'll hurt for a while, but before you know it, you'll running, jumping and dancing...with a partner!
WOW...a little deep for Clubfreestyle.com, no?
Your happiness is just around the corner...don't miss your turn!
Harv Roman
Mandy...
I normally don't check out the "Love@Clubfreestyle" Forum, but for some reason, your subject line captured me.
Years ago, I met the mother of my son. This was someone who I had no idea was interested in me, so I kept it at a friendship level. Eventually, a mutual friend told me that this woman liked me-which of course I didn't believe, so I preceded to try to talk her out of liking me. It didn't work, and we agreed to start dating. She was my first-and believe it or not, I was already in my 20s!
Things went well for several years, and then about 9 years ago, she gave me the Jerry Springer speech and told me that she didn't love me anymore. I accepted the newsflash and continued to have a good friendship with her and have continued to see my son on a regular basis, pay his ransom, etc.
Of course, as the years went by, I swore off love, I felt that never again would I allow myself to enter into the emotional frenzy known as the "L" word...
About three years ago, I met someone who blew me away. Her personality and her passion for life amazed me. Even more amazing was the fact that apparently she flirted with me, and though I didn't respond (I didn't realize that she was flirting), she did pursue a friendship. And pursue we did...
Initially, I was afraid to let her into that part of my life, but the more time that I spent with her, the more comfortable I felt. She accepted all aspects of my life. She wasn't jealous of my ex, and she was excited to see me in action as a father, for as someone who wasn't raised by her natural father, she realized the value of that type of figure. As a matter of fact, when my son sees her, he runs to her for a hello hug. She gives him one right back, asks him how he's doing and how his mother is...No Latina Tempered Jealousy! Could this be?...Might there be someone else who I could commit myself to?
I didn't think so...I was wrong. The past 2 and a half years have blessed me with a new found friend. Someone who I wouldn't mind making happy. Someone who I can trust to have a positive impact on my son. Someone who isn't ready to settle down and make family.............yet. Things are great. Firstly, I'm glad I waited so long for the first one. Secondly, I'm happy that I decided to "move on". Sometimes people just don't feel the same way about you, as you feel for them. It's okay. Better happy alone than miserable with another. If I had decided that "there would never be another", who knows what would have happened...
Bottom line, we deserve to be happy. We deserve the opportunity to spend quality time without guilt. We deserve to be treated with respect and of course, we maintain the right to help make another happy.
If we limit our options, we limit our opportunities for growth. Someone else had a chance to make you happy. They blew it...their loss. In the long run, you'll gain the affections of someone who genuinely cares for and deserves you.
Like a sprained ankle, it'll hurt for a while, but before you know it, you'll running, jumping and dancing...with a partner!
WOW...a little deep for Clubfreestyle.com, no?
Your happiness is just around the corner...don't miss your turn!
Harv Roman
Harv Roman....
Wow, that post was something. I normally don't read looong posts like that. But I couldn't have said it any better. I agree with you totally. I been there. I need to print that and give that to a friend who is thick-headed and has been with the wrong guy for the past 5 years now and misereable.
Wow, that post was something. I normally don't read looong posts like that. But I couldn't have said it any better. I agree with you totally. I been there. I need to print that and give that to a friend who is thick-headed and has been with the wrong guy for the past 5 years now and misereable.
Harv Roman
Radio Personality : WCEV 1450 AM Chicago
Hey, Mandy!
Hey, Mandy!
Earlier today, I responded to a poem that you had written with some words of encouragement of my own. However, as soon as I finished posting, your passionate poetry was gone!
Please re-submit your poetry so that everyone can grasp the entire scope of the message. Don't worry about whether or not your words come out in the shape of a heart. If I read your words correctly, he wouldn't appreciate the extra effort anyway.
Ask yourself this, "How many times did he make an extra effort for you?
Writing is an excellent outlet...use it!
We're all looking forward to hearing from you, best of luck...
Harv Roman
Hey, Mandy!
Earlier today, I responded to a poem that you had written with some words of encouragement of my own. However, as soon as I finished posting, your passionate poetry was gone!
Please re-submit your poetry so that everyone can grasp the entire scope of the message. Don't worry about whether or not your words come out in the shape of a heart. If I read your words correctly, he wouldn't appreciate the extra effort anyway.
Ask yourself this, "How many times did he make an extra effort for you?
Writing is an excellent outlet...use it!
We're all looking forward to hearing from you, best of luck...
Harv Roman
ekin got rice
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hey harv .. that was nice!!!
u sure you're not a writer?????? u got writing skills hehe 😀
u sure you're not a writer?????? u got writing skills hehe 😀
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Love hurts. Guilty or be Innocent. It don't make no difference!!!
My Heart Needs Mending
My
Heart needs
Mending, after
All the lies and
Pretending, to be
The Perfect match
For me, no longer
Defending the
Cruel ways
I've been treated
Hoping for brighter
Days, looking through
The rain and haze
For a love that
Is not just a
phase But a love
who will Love Me always (first half of the heart)
My
Heart needs
Mending I know
If I wait God will
Be sending me
A love so precious
And great until
Then I will be
Spending my time
Searching my
Soul warming
My heart
Exposed to the
Cold yearning
To hold my
True Love
I've been
Dreaming of (2nd half of the heart)
My heart needs mending
One day I will find
Myself surrendering
My heart never
Again will
It Fall
Apart (bottom)
Written by Mandy aka ReaL Love 5/5/01
My
Heart needs
Mending, after
All the lies and
Pretending, to be
The Perfect match
For me, no longer
Defending the
Cruel ways
I've been treated
Hoping for brighter
Days, looking through
The rain and haze
For a love that
Is not just a
phase But a love
who will Love Me always (first half of the heart)
My
Heart needs
Mending I know
If I wait God will
Be sending me
A love so precious
And great until
Then I will be
Spending my time
Searching my
Soul warming
My heart
Exposed to the
Cold yearning
To hold my
True Love
I've been
Dreaming of (2nd half of the heart)
My heart needs mending
One day I will find
Myself surrendering
My heart never
Again will
It Fall
Apart (bottom)
Written by Mandy aka ReaL Love 5/5/01
Freestygal
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Hey Man 🙂 What you wrote was so nice. I know you are going through a tough time right now and u know Im always here for ya!! We both need more luck in love...lol I have been thinking all day about what happened with u-know-who last night. It's so hard to be in love with someone when you know it could never be. But I think that 1 day we will both look back and laugh because we will have found our true loves!!!! I will tlak to ya soon...hugssssss
Randi (FreestyleGal)
Randi (FreestyleGal)
Harv Roman
Radio Personality : WCEV 1450 AM Chicago
Hi, Mandy!
Hi, Mandy!
Thanks for re-posting your poem. It makes for a more complete picture of the situation. Thanks also for your e-mail. I don't have all of the answers, but I have experienced many of the questions. I'm glad that my words are able to play a small role in your coping with this "problem". Who knows what is going to happen next-the key is for you to regain control of your life-one step at a time.
Yours truly,
Oprah & Dr. Phil...
I mean,
Harv Roman
Hi, Mandy!
Thanks for re-posting your poem. It makes for a more complete picture of the situation. Thanks also for your e-mail. I don't have all of the answers, but I have experienced many of the questions. I'm glad that my words are able to play a small role in your coping with this "problem". Who knows what is going to happen next-the key is for you to regain control of your life-one step at a time.
Yours truly,
Oprah & Dr. Phil...
I mean,
Harv Roman
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Nice Poem. But I sure hate it for the sucker that thatever happens to.
CuervoBrother
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Please stop !!!!!!!!!!!
What a wonderful story!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless everybody
What a wonderful story!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God Bless everybody