More than just friend????

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La Mas Grande said:
I Was Listening To This Song, A Salsa One. There Is A Line In It That Goes
~rought Translation~ You Want To Remain Friend,for What? Hell A Friend I Can Forgive You I Love.
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Your gonna have to give the title and the artists name of that song. So, I can check it out! But friends then lovers or something more seems to never work out. Once you cross the line it's hard to come back if ever. Because once you realize it's not gonna workout or the other person tells you that they can't handle the pressure it tough. Then you make a deal to be friends again like if nothing never happened but that never works out. Especially, when the other person goes on as if nothing really happened. Feeling were involved. You find out your friend found someone else then jealousy comes in to play. Then self doubt (what that biatch or bastard got that I don't). Then if there relationship blossoms your start to feel anger towards that person for not giving you the opportunity they gave to there new partner. It can get ugly.
 
The Name Of The Song Is "historia Entres Tus Dedos" By Mickey Taveras.
I Just Decided That I Dont Want To Be Friends, Its Too Painful So With That I Just Bid A Farewell And I Hope He Has A Wonderful Life. I Love Him But I Just Cant Do It.
 
Well in my opinion, I say that if you had a love relationship that started in it's foundation of friendship only to go back to being just friends that you can probably overcome most things. That's when a person is ready to actually love someone in life because you are showing that you're not a weak-minded person and ready to move on. I've rarely seen this but it's definitely possible.

"Friends can be lovers. Lovers can be friends."
 
ChuckD said:
OMG! That is sooo funny......I was lying in bed last night, and was kinda "inbetween" awake and asleep.....and my mind was wandering....not really a dream, but somehow, I started thinking/dreaming of spending Christmas with him, and how it would be my first holiday season with someone.......:lol
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I wish you luck Chuck. 😉

One question. Is the guy you're with bi or gay also??
 
Been there done that- I really liked a guy in HS he knew- but we remained friends...I told him how I felt and yes felt some of it yet we remained friends......we messed around - we remained friends.....I love him to this day... and he recently asked what would've happend if we had dated- I told him we'd been together for a few years. 15 yrs later...we're still great friends.....we love eachother dearly but I could never be involved with him inthat way NOW.....
 
i tried it, and was happie with him then we ended it a few months ago, and the friendship was still there even though i was sad to not be with him anymore,
but as of last week we are trying it one more time, to see if it works out this time..
but if it doesn't i know the friend ship will still be there between the 2...
 
I've tried it and to this day we are still friends. I guess it all depends on how you end things.


Chuck which you the best of luck. If it's not him you'll find someone who deserves your love and IT WONT BE A WOMAN 🙂
 
wHATS NOT RIGHT TO YOU MIGHT BE PERFECT FOR THE NEXT ONE EL CAPTAIN, JUST LET IT GO. I HOPE EVERYONE FINDS SOMEONE TO SHARE THEIR LIFE WITH BECAUSE TO LIVE YOU LIFE ALONE SUCKS.
 
i know i will be livin alone for the rest of my life but oh well only plus side is there will be more money to spend for myself . but i know it will suck wakin up everyday alone but that happens when i have the bad looks that i do have .
 
el capitan said:
Try Finding a Woman not a Man. A Woman would do you much better!
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rotflmao!

El capitan, with all due respect, why don't you give it up??

We had a good convo through our Private Messages. I understand where you are coming from. Now respect me as the person that I am, and that you say you can.

I'm gay, and not gonna change. A woman can do nothing for me.

I'm waiting for the day when I get that hug from a guy. 😉
 
el capitan said:
I know what you mean LMG. I was engaged for 5 years and ready to marry when everything fell apart over 1 year ago. yeah it sucks somewhat to be alone but im going to play it safe this time around.
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I'm sorry that happened to you El Capitan. It must have been rough. Unfortunately, when it comes to love, it's hard to play it safe. If you are too safe, you end up keeping yourself away from the happiness.
 
el capitan said:
LOL...................Im just busting your chops man.....Relax dude.........Maybe if you meet the right girl one day and she sweeps you off your feet "You gonna be like damn this is what i have been missing" That guy Capitan was right.
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Sorry Capitan....it's not gonna happen.

I have dated women before. There were no sparks, no emotion, no nothing.......I only ended up feeling like I made some girls/women waste their time when they could've been searching for someone who was gonna truly love them, instead of pretending.

Imagine how you feel with the woman you love, that is how I feel when I am with a man I care about.

That is the only way I can explain how it is to be gay.

The "rush" or excitement you feel, when you smell her perfume, or feel her long hair with your fingers......that is what I get when I feel his strong arms around me, or when his "scruff" brushes my face......
 
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