Married & Flirting

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u are right on that one...once a player always a player!!! but i would still have the fling!!! 🙂

its good to see under is a good guy...around here cops have the bad reputation for being the biggest players...i guess it is just the way thier bootie looks in that uniform
 
Toni

You are right on that one.......cops have the highest rate of divorces next to doctors......I see alot of affairs going on in my precinct......I have never even thought about it......I have been with Lil since I was 18....I am now 30.....we have struggled and shit, but it was worth it to be where we are now.

I wouldn't mess with a married woman if I was single.....I have arrested plenty of angry husbands and found dead bodies or beat down bodies in a bed.......not a pretty sight. If they did it before you, they'll do it with you and after you.
 
Its true do u find cause ur a cop woman throw themselves at you??? i bet so...i see these girls do it all time!!!
 
Toni

They do and I hate it it. I am happily married and sport my wedding band......Lil bought one that's loud enough for all women in Europe to see!!!!!! They see a badge and gun hanging from your jeans and they wanna talk.......not interested. My partner has his black book with him whenever we go out......he gets at least 30-35 numbers a night.......and he's married. I love wifey too much to f*** it up for a one night stand.
 
u hate it??? come on??? not that u are going to do anything, but dont u love the attetion!!! tell the truth
 
Any man loves the attention he gets from the hunnies.......I admit I do at times, but the only attention I need is from the Italian brat I married!!!! I hate tryin to explain I'm married 80 times to a woman who just wants to play with a cop. I get a kick outta the women who make fools out of themselves over cops or any man in general......the best is "what she doesn't know won't hurt her.....we'll keep it on the DL".......no woman can keep anything on the DL......and Lil ain't one to f*** with either when it comes to me. She'll go to jail for me.
 
Unda, Unda, Unda!!!!!!!

Look wha that attention got you, fool........a broken hand!!!!!! LMAO at you........lots of love to you!!!!!!!
 
I totally disagree with Toni on having the fling anyway. For one thing, it's bad karma, and for another it's about having respect for yourself. How would YOU feel if some girl had a fling with your man? She'd be a ho right? So why would you want to be that ho to some guy's wife?

Cheating is the one thing that scares me about commitment. I am not a cheater and just talking to 2 guys at once is enough to make me fell guilty for a month even if all we did is talk on the phone. If I am with someone I have mad respect for them and for myself, I wouldn't tolerate it from him nor should he have to from me. My attitude in a relationship is "do unto others..." I would NEVER forbid my man from doing anything or going anywhere because I would never accept being forbidden to do or go anywhere by him. And if I don't want it to happen to me then who the hell am I to do it to him? Make sense?😛
 
To Jade

Jade...you are right. Once I found out that the guy I like is married, I had to back off no matter how much I still liked him. It really hurt me a lot because he led me on for so long and I had developed strong feelings for him...feelings that are still there. After he told me, he tried to kiss me and I told him that he shouldnt be doing things like that if he's married. And his response was basically that he didnt care. But I do care. There are times now that I see him and for a second, I forget that he's married. But once I get past that, I have to realize that I need to be with someone who is really free to love me.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
come on now thats such a bad way to do it...if a girl was doing my husband and she didnt know me at all why does that make her a ho??? it makes him the damn ho!!! but if she knows me then shes a bitch!!! see thats whats wrong with society, we blame it on the woman!!! and u know what i bet if one of the husbands cheated on u guys u would take him back!!!

you cant say u do it for a lack of respect for urself...u do it cause ur bored, cause u want to, or cause ur just horny and hey he was around...i dont believe in this true love crap...cause u know why all most everybody cheats...everyone can say not me not me, but u know what given the right circumstances its going to happen.

now talkinga bout keeping ur man in check!!! hell yeah u have to cause girl it takes 2 mintues to cheat!!! u need to know where hes at and u need to know with who at all times...be it at work school or wherever!!! i mean u maybe never got into a situation where a man has cheated on u, but it will happen...and i hope ur eyes are open and u take the right course of action.

the first thing u got to learn is u dont really love or trust someone until u are with them for years!!! not months...i hear all my friends talking how they love thier boyfriends...but i can bet my next 4 paychecks that in 6 months time the reletionship is over!!!

but oh well i am just blabbering...u just have to be careful...i say dont deny yourself pleasure cause some dumb girl chose to marry a guy who wants to have his cake and eat it to!!!
 
i agree

Toni I agree with you 100%! I feel sorry for these women that go after the other woman like it was HER fault or something. Its the man. Always the man! Now if the other woman comes up to your face talking crap then you have no choice but to beat her down LOL ...
and as far as "married and flirting" I say shame on you guys! Some people think flirting online is a harmless thing, but its just as bad. And to those posting "I would never cheat" cuz they know their woman is a member of this board and would open up a can of whoop ass if you said anything different - we know better!
 
WOW

Toni...love your comments.

I've realized long ago what people SAY and what they DO are usually 2 totally different things. So, on that note, I'll keep my comments to myself....LMAO!!!!😀
 
I have to disagree with the last comment you made Maria......Just cuz Lil posts up here doesn't mean shit to me......I have been with her for 11 and 1/2 years and NEVER cheated.....I have had a million chances to do it, but I am secure in my marriage and know that everything I need and want I can find in my wife......I don't need to cheat on her to feel like a man.......men who cheat are insecure and unhappy with themselves.....it has nothing to do with the woman in their life.....I'd give my life for Lil.....we have a strong marriage and we are the best of friends......no need for me to cheat and I'm sure as hell not gonna lie up in here cuz she posts......F*** that shit......she knows I'm hers....wifey doesn't have to whup this PR's ass......🙂
 
Question

Hey are you and Lilitaliana one person? Alot of people have asked themselves that question.
 
things that make you go hmmmmmm!!! LOL




and maria where did u get all those posts from??? last time i looked u had like 12!!!

u guys acted well to my comments i thought people were going ot come in here liek blah blah blah
 
Awwww...Unda, you're one of those rare guys a girl dreams of finding & keeping. Lil you're a lucky girl. He's a keeper.*LOL*
Here's to you & Lil having a lifetime of happiness together!!!😛
 
sometimes 'tha truth hurts!

wassup to all that replied,

look at what a little truth can get started.
first of all to anyone who says they would never cheat, I have another question. Has anyone ever cheated on you?
I been married twice!! And my first love cheated on me like a Mo Fo! I used to be the type of guy that was blinded by love, but now I know better! While I was out working hard, she was "working it" hard whenever she could. That is the sex on the side, know what I mean. When I found out I couldn't believe it, or maybe I just wouldn't let myself believe it. Until the day I saw it with my own eyes. You wanna talk about feeling pain. Mayn!!!! I still feel it!
Anyways, enough crying! After that I was never the same. I went from being blinded by love to being buck f**king wild. "Sex" was my drug of choice. It became an addiction for me. I treated all women like they were worthless peices of nothing just there for my sexual pleasure. When I was done using them they would cry, I would just laugh and walk away! And it was on to my next victim.
Yeah, yeah, I know all the women hate me right about now. But, what about the woman that gave me the wings to get to this point. The truth is I can't blame her. I made the choice to react the way I did. But, what I want some women to realize is that some of us men out here are the way we are because of the way we have been dissed by other women.
But there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It took me years to recover, but I did. It was the hardest thing I have had to overcome in my life. To be with just one woman. To TRUST her! But I did. I got married again and now I have a big beautiful family. But, just in case I come home to find my wifey doing the "not so nicey" with the neighbor, I keep flirting to keep my skills intact. That's probably why I'll never get the flirting outta my system.
 
BIG RAUL:

That's a really great thing u did, to 'trust' again, u go boy!, not every woman will do u the same......but u go on doing your flirting on the D-L as long as it's not hurting anyone....like I said before, EVERYBODY does it, some may admit it, MOST will not.

I have to agree with MARIAsdf also, it would be hard to post your honest feelings it u knew your better half was also posting in here and reading your EVERY post, each and every word u post....(there are a few couples in here in CF so this is not posted towards anyone in particular).

About the online Flirting; it's the same as 'real life' flirting, a little MUAHHH or HUGGGG online is ok, but if u go on and 'cyber' with someone that's a no-no, we're all adults we all know whats right and wrong.






~GND
 
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