Love On The Net???

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OK EVERYONE I GOT A QUESTION FOR U ALL....

DO U REALLY THINK U CAN FIND LOVE ON THE INTERNET???..I WANT TO HEAR FORM EVERYONE CAUSE I GOT A HUGEEEEE DEALO GOING OVER HERE ...CUASE LIKE 4 MONTHS AGO I MET MY BEST FRIENDS COUSIN OVER THE NET AND HE WAS SOOO SWEEET AND EVERYTHING HE TOLD ME HE FELL IN LOVE ME THE FIRST TIME HE SAW MY PIC WE STARTED TO TALK MORE AND THEN I JUST FOUND MYSELF THINKING OF HIM ALLLL THE TIME AND THEN THATS WHEN I REALIZED THAT I WAS FALLING FOR HIM BUT I DIDN'T WANT TO ADMIT IT B/C I MEAN FALLING IN LOVE OVER THE NET?? I FELT STUPID CAUSE I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS GUY...WELL AFTER A FEW MONTHS WE TALKED AND HE WOULD ALWAYS TELL ME HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME AND HOW HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME SOOO MUCH AND ALL THAT STUFF...OK I LIVE IN BC AND HE LIVES IN TORONTO! SOO WE LIVE SOO FAR AWAY SO PRETTY MUCH IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE FOR US? BUT WE KEPT GOING AND AS MONTHS PAST I FELL SO IN LOVE WITH HIM CAUSE OF THE THINGS HE PROMISED ME?? THEN IT ALL CHANGED..HE WENT TO JERSEY FOR LIKE 4 DAYS AND WHEN HE CAME BACK HE JUST STOPED TALKING TO ME! I WAS SOO HEART BROKEN! HE TOLD ME THAT HE STILL LOVED ME AND THAT ALL HE WANTS IS ME BUT HE WOULD BARELY TALK TO ME..WE FOUGHT A LOT AND HE JUST TURNED INTO A TOTAL PRICK AND I COULDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY... I TRYED TO FORGET ABOUT HIM BUT I CAN'T..I NEVER FELT THIS WAY ABOUT A GUY BEFORE AND A GUY I HAVEN'T EVEN MET?? WELL ME AND THIS GUY HAVEN'T TALKED FOR A GOOD WEEK AND I MISS HIM SOOO MUCH! BUT I WANT TO GET OVER HIM CAUSE I JUST THINK ITS RIDICULUS TO LOVE SOMEONE U HARDLY KNOW....BUT HE PROMSED ME THAT HE WOULD NEVER STOP LOVING ME AND I WAS JUST THINKING THAT HE COULD HAVE PLAYED ME FROM THE START BUT SOMETHING KEEPS TELLING ME THAT HE WAS FOR REAL..BUT I DUNNO WHAT ELSE TO DO GET OVER IT...SOO I NEED SUM ADVICE FROM YOU GUYS CAUSE I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE ..I FEEL REALLY REALLY DUMB ABOUT THIS WHOLE STIUATION SOO IF YA COULD GIVE ME SUM ADVICE IT WOULD BE GREAT THANKS! 😉
 
We live in an age of technology where the world seems to be gettin smaller & smaller. The internet does have its pros/cons. Yes I've also heard stories of people meeting over the net and yes it did work out, but just with that, the coin also does have another side. There are also the horror stories we've heard in the tabloids, newspapers and even on t.v where people meet, some for the wrong reasons and one of the 2 parties ends up in a traumatic experience. Throw caution to the wind when "establishing" a "friendship". The results may or may not be in your (not necesarily you) favour!

The internet is a "tool" for millions and millions (why do I sound like WWF's Rock right now hahaha!) of people to communicate with each other , expressing their views, opinions , just like we are right now with the Club Freestyle forum. It may not be love that your feeling ( I dont personally know so I can't really explain your situation) it could be just that of "infatuation". Again please to not get offended with this reply, I am just pointing out that there are dangers involved when using a "tool" like the internet, and I would hate to see another victim of it!!

Take care!😎


SPYBOY 😀
 
goes both ways

I have also fallen in love for someone off the web - actually someone from this club!!! But I also keep it to myself. There is no use in hurting both people, since you don't really know what the person is like in person. Be thankful that you saved yourself the grief of having to actually meet this person AND THEN find that it was not meant to be - also happened to me!!

I think part of why we fall on the net is because it is so mysterious, it is different than what we find near us. You are used to the men around you, and they get boring. But here is this perfect person from so far away that will someday make everything right. What we fail to realize is that they only tell us what they want us to know, what is good for us to know. We don't know what they do when they are not on the phone with us, who else they are seeing, if they really work where they say they work. We need to think with our heads also, mija, and that is where as a woman we fail. We are so caught up in our emotions and the fantasias that these men create that we forget how smart we really are.

It is time to pick up the pieces and move on. Meet people on the web, no prob with that, just remember that unless you meet this person & you spend time with them - by yourselves but also with others - please think before you say those precious words. You are still young enough to find a real man!!😉
 
RicanPrincess~ who it be? hmmm? hehe j/k

I think that its really more simple then we make it out to be. It got a bad rap cause morons used the net for the wrong reasons right off the bat. I mean all the psychos jumped out of the woodwork... But, its just as bad as meeting someone at the bar. I mean... without being drunk and having sex with them right away... its the same thing... lol.... see my point...? it could be the better way to meet people, and all the non-literate computer peopleput it down cause they dont know about it.

The net is a fine way to get to know someone... I mean, they could be lying... anyone coule be lying... i could be... you could be... but that guy/girl you meet at the bar could be lying too....

i have met someone from this club that i like... but distance seperates us... seperates me from telling her and letting her know i like her... i have no problem getting to know someone over the net...

AND YES, I THINK IT IS VERY POSSIBLE TO FALL FOR SOMEONE OVER THE NET....

peace.. one luv... much luv...
wurd
~Desejo
 
THANKS!

HEY GUYS! THANKS FOR THE ADVICE!!..I KNOW NOW NOT TO JUST GET ALL INVOVLED WITH SOMEONE I BARELY KNOW JUST CAUSE THEY CAN SWEET TALK GOOD 😉 HAHA ME AND THE GUY ARE FRIENDS AND WE TALK STILL WHICH IS GOOD..BUT I'M GETTING ON WITH MY OWN LIFE HERE...I STILL WOULD LIKE TO MEET HIM ONE DAY AND I JUST MIGHT NEXT YEAR WHEN I GO VISIT ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS WHO JUST HAPPENS TO LIVE WHERE HE DOES..SO THAT SHOULD BE INTRESTING! BUT ANYWAYS THANKS FOR U HELP GUYS **muwah**
 
Miss Bella, you can fall in love with someone anywhere, wether on the net or in person .. Distance does take a toll in whatever type of friendship/relationship you have ..
I myself have met over 20 people on the net and yet to this day havent found that right click, call me picky ?? maybe , but if youre gonna fall in love once in your life, then might as well do it right ?? your soulmate is out there somewhere, but take your time and try not to fall in love with someone without meeting them .. I never take anyone serious til i actually meet them in person .. You are very beautiful and have alot going for you, so take your time cause the right ones closer than u think ..
always, randy taylor-weber 🙂
 
thanks randy! ur such a sweet heart...actully when i was reading ur post it really hit me...ur right how i shouldn't fall for someone until i meet them cause they could be hiding a part of them from u when ur talking with them right? i'm kidna gald this happened to me cause now i can learn from this experiance and its only made me wiser and stronger as a person 😉...cause now i think i know what i want in my life...and i know its harsh but up going to be pick about it..but why should i settle for anything less?? why should anyone? i got my whole life ahead of me...and i'm going to college next year to who knows how many ppl i'll meet there! well..thanks for ur advise cause it really touched me! and everyones advice was great!...well gtg talk to ya later...
 
see how positive youre attitude is now getting ?? do you notice that sweetheart ?? listen to the tone of your words now .. taking your time will bring you the person of your dreams ... its good to go through bad things, cause if we didnt, then we wouldnt know what to do .. you have alot going for you, and i love seeing you happy angel. .. take care, randy
 
haha yea rand y i can see that i am!..but thats just me being me!..when a bad situation comes i'll be down for a bit but i HATEE being sad or mad so i like to just stay postive and be HAPPY!!!!! and i don't think i would have done it with out sum suport! *LOL* thanks a lot hun 😉..*LOL* i love seeing myself happy! cause then i can make everyone else happy too!!! 😉 hahahaha
 
Action speaks louder than words!!! Sounds to me you both enjoyed each others company. But since you really only know him from conversations over the internet, you never really know who they are. Like what is really going on in their life and so forth. It's unfortunate that you fell so hard and he ceased contact with you. But I see that you keep saying that "he keeps saying that he still loves me" but those are just words. Pay no mind to the sweet talk and get down to what he's really all about. Make a double date or meet somewhere in public, get to know each other in person to see if that chemistry is there. Goodluck!
 
well kerri if i could meet him i would but he lives in ontario and i live in b.c so we can't really do that..but i might be going there spring break to visit my friends who go to skool there 😉 but ur right those are just words and sweet talk but i'm ok now..and i know better not to get all wraped up in someone i barely know 😉
 
i dunno how it happens it just did...i guess its one of those things u just don't understand why they happen but just know they do ...oh well 😉
 
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