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Nyasia

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Did you have a friend when you were growing up that you felt would always be there, you guys were going to grow up and be the same thing and be each others kids Godmothers?..lol I had a friend like that in high school though. We met on the first day of high school and became friends very quickly. Then we met 5 other girls that completed the circle. we had all of our classes together, we hung out with the security guards from the school (Ms. Brown) I still remember that lady, she used to have our backs)..lol we had a friend who went out with Hector Camacho(who I thought was so cocky) and when one of us got into a fight it was our fight..anyway after eneida and I were kicked out of our high school (for said fight) we went together to another high school LESP down in alphabet city. We were best friends, then we got pregnant and I was too sick to continue going, we both got married the same month, but she moved to PA, and we lost contact after a few years. well a few weeks ago she leaves me a message in my website! she looked me up again after all these years and found my website, we have started reminicing all over again, and OMG! I haven't laughed so damn hard in so long!, sometimes shit you did back then seemed cool, but when you think about it now!..lolol She is planning a trip with her family down here to see me! I am so excited! she reminds me alot of my flaca Angie, maybe that's why I feel a strong connection with Angie cause they have the same soul.
Anyway have you guys lost a friends cause of distance? and wish you can find them again? I also found family members from my fathers side that I never met in my life through the internet.
 
Yeah Naya, I feel you. I had a crime mate whom I miss dearly. Don't know where she's at since she got married. Her family moved to PR and I don't know where. But we did some crazy sh*t in the past during our freestyle hang out days! We went to all the clubs together and had so much fun. I think about her a lot and wish I could see her again. Maybe one day.

As for you, I'm happy that you and your friend have reconnected again. And you will have a blast when she does go to Florida to see you. I'm sure. Good luck.
 
By the way, I know Hector Camacho, his brother, his sisters and mother. Was raised with them. He's always been cocky. :lol Lost contact with all of them too. I spent a summer in his mom's house in PR about 18 yrs ago when Tito (Hector) bought his mom the house. But no more.
 
Yeah I can say that as well there were five of us as well we were as tight as tight can be friends since 4th grade we all grew up together did everything together shares everything together throught the years we remaained friends just lost each other in the sense that each of us was doing our own thing one though none of us know anything about one has had her battle with drugs and in and out of jails three of us tried living together and it ended the friendship temporarly and I say temp because we are now friends again I reached out to her and slowly and with the birth of my son we have gotten the friendship back we went dancing Friday with two friends and we had a great time. Friends had heard we were no longer frinds and couldn't believe irt it hurt them but I knew some day we would come together again its how life hass played with us through out the years. I think we are seperated so that we may grow as individuals to better help each other when we most need it. As I said one is still missing, one I speak to every now and then, my sister I got here and the one who no matter what God brings back is now right here again. It is so crazy we would say how we were all gonna live in a house one girl on each floor and do this and that we all took different paths and yet those paths remained the same othhers got lost on theres and have fought and are still fighting with there demons. So now I got my Naya who will always be my partnah in xrime cause she has been there in ways no one else ever has, was there for me from the minute I learned I was going to have my son and till this day is ther at the drop of a dime my older sister luv ya mama, and I have my friend who lived and learned about life with life is beautiful. New year new beginnings.
 
There is one friend that i havent seen since we were 19. We met working for the summer youth and that same year he moved to Atlanta. We manage to keep in touch and when he will come to NY we will alway get together.Unfortunatly with me moving and so forth we lost contact with eachother. I would love to find him and see whats up with him.

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isn't it a beautiful thing Ang? I always say us meeting was a way of enlarging my circle of lifelong friends.
Lamas, maybe one day you guys will find each other.

Labetty, I guess some peeps are born that way yo!..lol que baboso..lol
 
It truly is he gave us the locas who are in a class by themselves luv ya ladies lets make this year our year. 😉
 
I can say that's happened to me. My best friend that I have known since I was 4 years old lost touch for awhile, and we were inseperable growing up. We lived next door to one another, went to the same school and everything. Then I transferred to a different school and then a few years later I moved and we lost touch. But I always thought of her and a few years after we had lost touch, she contacted me for my birthday and when we started talking again I remembered all the old times and realized why this girl is my best friend. We have been through soooooo much with each other over the years, and neither of us can imagine our lives without the other.

Then in high school, I was really close with 2 girls, and we were always together, and sometimes so would this other girl, but I didn't become close with her till senior year. After high school, we kept in touch for a little bit, but then one had a baby, the other had some family stuff and we were just doing our own thing. But about 4 years back, something happened that brought us all together again. I practically owe my life to the three of them because I got involved with some crazy shiat, and while people who claimed to be my "friends" pretty much sat back and kept their mouths shut about what I was doing, but when these 3 found out what was going on, they called me on it and talked some sense into me about what kind of path I was headed on. They were the reality check I needed, and I truly believe without them there's a very real possibility I wouldn't be here today.

Friends come into our lives for a reason, and I guess loosing touch makes one realize how important they are and that friendships shouldn't be taken for granted. I treasure the friendships I have and without them, I wouldn't be the person I am today.
 
Hell yeah, he gave us the locas!! my favorite freestyle group!..LMAO "LAS LOCAS"..😉 MUAH!
 
Hmmmmm well there were 4 of us back in the day. I've only lost contact with one for the most part. I see her every now and then but it's good riddance. She took a different path then the rest of us and it's not something I need to deal with in my life.

As for the other 2...I speak to them on a daily basis. Was ready to kill one of them last night at the club for acting stupid but it's all love! 😀 And the other one just started working with me at my job last week. 😀 I'm the godmother of her oldest. 🙂
 
DreamGirl said:
LMFAO! The beauty of friends! I know I've felt that way at times, and others have felt that about me! LOL
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I know right Meggie?..lolol Sometimes you want to smack them, but you love them to death..lolol
 
5 seems like the averge cliq LOL that was our number. We did some sick stuff ranging from filling these automated water machine guns filled with paint and attacking one girls ex's car to speeding on the inteboro trying to catch up with some cuties we saw to many ludicrus adventures that really could've gotten us killed half the time but we didnt see that then. But the last chick anyone thought would settle down was the first one. Me. So when that happened its wierd instead of having the girls over for brunch & shat.. every body disapeared. now two are married and live in Jersey one left to Fla another in Bklyn me in LI. But to get them to call or visit is like pulling teeth. everybody got thier own lives now.Its funny we used to say our kids would hang together and rule the new roost. But my son dont really know or have played with them. Maybe one or two once or twice. I aint angry. Maybe disapointed. I do miss them dearly. But its all good. I meet new people everday and a few through CF Thanks Jack for such a kewl site 😉
 
I know what you mean Naya. I keep in touch with my best friend Jason back in Jersey. He's always telling me to move back so we can hang some more. We would do anything for each other. We always talk about the good old high school days. I met him in 7th grade and we've been tight ever since.
 
Aaaww, Naya, I'm so happy for you.

I haven't seen my best friend since 1988... She was my life... my sister. (next to my real sister).

We made a mutual friend and then, we let her come between us. I realized what she was doing and told my best friend, but she thought it was because I was jealous.

Anyway, when we were friends, I did take her for granted... her and my sister did everything for me... did it my way... spoiled me basically. I knew I took her for granted and I always regreted not ever telling her.

Well, about a year ago, I came across her address and wrote her a letter. I'm a very mushy person and I try to speak and act from my heart (which back then, not sure I did so). I spoke to her and OMG... what a different person she was and for the negative.

Look, I have no problem with blacks/whites dating, but why is it when a white person dates a black person, they act that way (not to sound racist!). You know.. She is this white/very polish girl.. whose mother always hated me because I was being raised by a single mother and my family always lived in apartment buildings and not to mention... I always hung out with all races... where as my then best friend was sheltered.

It's funny how her mom always judged me... because I dated black men in high school and now look at her daughter.. (AND HE'S A CRIMINAL AT THAT).

Anyway, I felt so much better telling her I was sorry for taking her for granted. Even though I had wished we were going to hit it off like we use too and I'd have my best friend back in my life... I have no more regrets now.

Good for you Naya!!!
 
4eVerFreeStyle said:
Aaaww, Naya, I'm so happy for you.

I haven't seen my best friend since 1988... She was my life... my sister. (next to my real sister).

We made a mutual friend and then, we let her come between us. I realized what she was doing and told my best friend, but she thought it was because I was jealous.

Anyway, when we were friends, I did take her for granted... her and my sister did everything for me... did it my way... spoiled me basically. I knew I took her for granted and I always regreted not ever telling her.

Well, about a year ago, I came across her address and wrote her a letter. I'm a very mushy person and I try to speak and act from my heart (which back then, not sure I did so). I spoke to her and OMG... what a different person she was and for the negative.

Look, I have no problem with blacks/whites dating, but why is it when a white person dates a black person, they act that way (not to sound racist!). You know.. She is this white/very polish girl.. whose mother always hated me because I was being raised by a single mother and my family always lived in apartment buildings and not to mention... I always hung out with all races... where as my then best friend was sheltered.

It's funny how her mom always judged me... because I dated black men in high school and now look at her daughter.. (AND HE'S A CRIMINAL AT THAT).

Anyway, I felt so much better telling her I was sorry for taking her for granted. Even though I had wished we were going to hit it off like we use too and I'd have my best friend back in my life... I have no more regrets now.

Good for you Naya!!!
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Aww sorry to hear that G. That lady is very ignorant, and being of a minority in this country she had alot of nerve..lol anyway, glad you cleared the air, you were the better person. 😉
 
Hey..Naya..I know what you mean. I had a Best friend in highschool. Lost contact with her. Eight years later I bumped into her grandmother and she gave me their new number. I called her and we automatically were unseperable again. But due to my tragic loss, I don't speak to her or her famliy.

Every week I'm bumping into people I havent seen for more than 10 years. And it feels good when they remember you. It makes me feel great.
 
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