i know i am late on this but, what it sounds like to me is that he has you on hold while he is doin his thing.4 months is a long enough time to decide what you want to do with the person you "claim" to love.and you guys have a child??? that should be more reason for him to know what he wants to do.i would take the time like tita said and really get the time for yourself and find what you really want and need.i am goin through something not as bad but bad enough cuz i am the one who knows what they want and she doesn't after 3 months away.so time is on your side girl use it wisely...
Yes am taken my time to think ...But anyways is over with he broke it off he said he don't want to be with no one right now ... Also no my daughter is from my exhubby not from him.... But he treats it his cuz she was only 3 months when he walked into are life ...
But he is someone from my pass now ... God knows what he does with this love that I losted....