Edalgiere
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what are the non verbal signs a girl might be interested?
ChuckD
The Gay Lord of Freestyle
I got this info for you from a website on body language.
Can't say how reliable it is, but it may be valid.
Body language consists of two basic types of gestures: open gestures and closed gestures. Open gestures are displayed when the woman is interested in or attracted to the person presented to her, while closed gestures are displayed when she is not.
The Open Gestures
You give me butterflies! - Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For instance, she will play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or fiddle with something in her hands.
"read" her palms - She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying "If you want me, you can have me".
Locked on target - Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction. Her upper body will be facing you if she is interested, in essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants.
The lean - Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it's yours for the taking.
You coming in or what? - When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you.
Eyes are not just decoration - Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person she likes, and will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly effect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present, her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else.
Say "cheese" - This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her.
When did I become funny? - One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny, but your wrong, she just likes you alot, and that's even better!
As good as gold - If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, for instance, tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning.
You must do your duty - She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants 🙂
The flip - If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glaces your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye.
Can't say how reliable it is, but it may be valid.
Body language consists of two basic types of gestures: open gestures and closed gestures. Open gestures are displayed when the woman is interested in or attracted to the person presented to her, while closed gestures are displayed when she is not.
The Open Gestures
You give me butterflies! - Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For instance, she will play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or fiddle with something in her hands.
"read" her palms - She will expose her wrists and palms of her hands only to people she is interested in. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying "If you want me, you can have me".
Locked on target - Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction. Her upper body will be facing you if she is interested, in essence, she points her shoulders at what she wants.
The lean - Leaning foward is also an easy sign to pick up. If her shoulders point at you and she is leaning towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, it's yours for the taking.
You coming in or what? - When her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you.
Eyes are not just decoration - Her pupils will dialate (get bigger) while looking at a person she likes, and will get smaller while looking at a person she does not. Keep in mind that lighting can greatly effect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present, her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and vice versa. The best method to use for testing this is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else.
Say "cheese" - This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her.
When did I become funny? - One of the best signs you can hope for is when she will laugh at just about every slick thing you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny, but your wrong, she just likes you alot, and that's even better!
As good as gold - If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, for instance, tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning.
You must do your duty - She will make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer than usual period of time, almost uncomfortably long. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty as a player to give her what she wants 🙂
The flip - If you notice a woman flip her hair and immediately afterward glaces your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye.
Edalgiere
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chuck maybe be a problem this girl works in a bank. a teller i went to withdraw money this past thurday. now have to figure what to say to her next time i go there
To discover a girl if she is interested there is only one thing. One thing only...and that is eyesight. If you catch her looking at you up and down...you are in...assuming you have the right game to play and lure her in.
-antonio
-antonio
Edalgiere
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ladies what about you any advice.
ChuckD
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rotflmao! :dancingb
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most of the things that chuck d posted are what we women will do. i know if i'm interested, i'll smile and keep looking at him.
Edalgiere
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brklyngrl thank you
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enigma, i do that every now and then when the guys aren't looking. sometimes they don't even know if i look down there but i do
edalgiere, no prob..at least you got some advice
edalgiere, no prob..at least you got some advice
ricanlips4u
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OMG. Ant u r too much.. To be honest, when I was checking guys out (before meeting my husband) the package was the least thing I'd check out. When I was interested, I'd just look right into their eyes and not glance away.
timida83
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You give me butterflies! - Once you make eye contact with a woman, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For instance, she will play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or fiddle with something in her hands.
I definitely do that...and often. But since she is a bank teller, and you really don't have much time to check out her reaction to you, I suggest you cut to the chase and just ask her out. The worst she could say is no. Take a risk and go for it. That way you cut out all the extra time you're spending wondering if she's into you, and if she says yes, then that's more time you have to spend with her.
Either way...good luck with that.
I definitely do that...and often. But since she is a bank teller, and you really don't have much time to check out her reaction to you, I suggest you cut to the chase and just ask her out. The worst she could say is no. Take a risk and go for it. That way you cut out all the extra time you're spending wondering if she's into you, and if she says yes, then that's more time you have to spend with her.
Either way...good luck with that.
ricanlips4u
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Un diablito:dwinkEnigma said: