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Hey I just need some advice on a situation.
A few months ago I went through a rough time. It was an Emotional hell!! I was in love with the wrong girl. It was very bad for me. It changed me. I felt like a piece of me died because of the situation. Like I had a black spot or hole in my soul is the only way I can describe it.
Well Time went by. It's been a few months since the back stabbing and the using and the drama. A small part of me is still affected. I was willing to be alone for awhile and focus on me. I was willing to accept that.
Well A girl started visiting me and talking to me at work. It's been a few weeks now and we started hanging out. I enjoy my time with her. I care about her. She definately likes me. I don't know if I really want to date her. I'm really confused. I wasn't looking for a relationship. I'm not sure I'm ready after the emotional hell I went through. I also don't want to hurt her feelings because she is a really good person.
What should I do???
 
My opinion is to communicate. I think you should talk to her and tell her how it is feel, basically what you just told us. Tell her that you like her, but that you got hurt recently and you don't want to jump back into a relationship right away. If she does care for you and like you, then she will give you the time you need. Besides, if you don't want a relationship, there is absolutely nothing wrong with friendship. And hey, sometimes the best friendships can lead to something more. Basically, take it slow and talk to her. Just cause you got hurt by one girl, not everyone you meet is going to be like that.

~Meg~
 
DreamGirl said:
My opinion is to communicate. I think you should talk to her and tell her how it is feel, basically what you just told us. Tell her that you like her, but that you got hurt recently and you don't want to jump back into a relationship right away. If she does care for you and like you, then she will give you the time you need. Besides, if you don't want a relationship, there is absolutely nothing wrong with friendship. And hey, sometimes the best friendships can lead to something more. Basically, take it slow and talk to her. Just cause you got hurt by one girl, not everyone you meet is going to be like that.

~Meg~
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I totally agreee😀
 
Yeah I hear ya Meg!! I did tell her already about what I went through. She says she understands. I told her I wanted to take things slow. I know she likes me alot and I like her. I'm just not sure about dating though. I guess my biggest fear is my not being ready and hurting her feelings. Like I said she's a great girl! I'm just not feeling all the chemistry right now. Just some. I just needed some opinions from my peep's. Thanks alot and much nub!!😉
 
Believe m, I can relate. It is going to take time to get over the hurt and pain you went through, and there's no way to make it happen any faster. Time does heal all wounds. By telling her what happened, and where you stand, that will save in hurting her feelings. This way she knows what you're dealing with and also she won't push you into something you don't want or aren't ready for. My best advice is just take it slow, as you said you are, and if anything, start with a friendship basis and see what happens. Best of luck to you hun. *mwuahs* {{{hugs}}}

~Meg~
 
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