In Need of Advice

[GrkFS22]

Ok, so I got a boyfriend now.. YAY!! My 1st official one.. lol
Heres where the problem comes in, before we started going out he walked me home from school and my older brother saw this and went home and told my parents.. they went looking for me!! aaaah... now my dad is up my arse cuz he thinks I'm dating a non-greek.. (which I am) and my mom questions my every action... and my brothers dont trust me... OK OK so no biggy right?

I've been having doubts in my mind lately that maybe it wont last. I'm really feeling this guy, he's so sweet & makes me feel special. But the thing is, I feel like I may be restricting him (because I'm on lockdown now. Eversince the former incident.) and that he may be happier with a girl he'll be able to see more often. He told me not to worry about it...but.. I still do. Do you think I should break it off? Or is it too soon to tell? 🙁

 

[Brklyn345]

People who are still with their high school sweethearts are so rare these days, so I do wish you luck....but keep in mind that you are 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you, and chances are you'll be going through this type of situation more than once until you find the one that's right for you. Take it for what it is right now and just take it day by day.

 

[michelle28]

I agree with you Brklyn345. You are only 16 and i'm sure this guy is gonna be one of many guys you find sweet and makes you feel special!! take it one day at a time. i truly believe everything happens for a reason....whether you like it or not. so just see what happens, but don't sweat it. You're too young for the drama!! Good luck! 🙂

 

[Adriana]

Ok, so I got a boyfriend now.. YAY!! My 1st official one.. lol
Heres where the problem comes in, before we started going out he walked me home from school and my older brother saw this and went home and told my parents.. they went looking for me!! aaaah... now my dad is up my arse cuz he thinks I'm dating a non-greek.. (which I am) and my mom questions my every action... and my brothers dont trust me... OK OK so no biggy right?

I've been having doubts in my mind lately that maybe it wont last. I'm really feeling this guy, he's so sweet & makes me feel special. But the thing is, I feel like I may be restricting him (because I'm on lockdown now. Eversince the former incident.) and that he may be happier with a girl he'll be able to see more often. He told me not to worry about it...but.. I still do. Do you think I should break it off? Or is it too soon to tell? 🙁

GGGiiirrrrlll you are just a baby....AAAWWWhhhh J/k anyway my best advise is you do what you gotta do but do the right thing. you make what's of your life not your parents. although it pays to think wise. so many little boys at your age will make you feel special girl we have all been there done that... aaawwwhhhh your such a baby.... i feel bad cuz i went through stuff like that... but i'm mexican so my situation was maybe a little different. sorry i'm going off the subject he he... well like the girlz told you to take it one day at a time... don't rush into things and try not to loose any sleep over it.... it's really not that serious... we are all people no matter what color race or religion you are... if you think he's worth the drama then go for it. but don't take it the wrong way with your parents they just love you. and are trying to protect you...at the end it's your decision who YOU wanna see. good luck. i feel for you.

 

[GrkFS22]

thanx everyone. I know its not that serious. It jsut bothers me cuz my parents and bros dont trust me anymore!!! ahhh!! they're gunna have to get used to it.. and yes I know im jus a baby....lol well ya... I'll jus have to let it go.. thanx again