I think I know why I can't get dates.

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Once again thanks. I always had this problem where if I see a girl I like , I choke, and lose thought of what to say.

For the record guys, those who think I whine because I can find a relationship, that was not the case. I'm upset for the fact that during an 8 year period, I could not find a causal date. I'm not worried about relationships now. Those you have to build. That you start with casual dating. My deal was, I could not get a date for a nice dinner, movie or out on the town for a friday, saturday night. I'm not talking about a relationship, those I know you have to wait for. But a causal date, you should be able to have much better succes with those. And me living in DC, #5 market in America and I can't find a date. Come on!!! And Valendooms day is coming up.

That's all guys, I'm just looking for a DATE!! I can wait for relationships, those you have to build.
 
damn man sry for what happen but do u have any friends that r grls? then talk to grls like their one of ur friends or somethin that help for me sometime
 
Just be yourself. Just have a general conversation. Small talk instead of a pick up line leave that out.
 
I got good advice for you bro.

I was just like you.

Here are some rules. Dont try to get into a girls mind. In your case, you are doing this by being the perfect man for her. Women dont find this attracting. Women don't find men who are 100% goody, goody to be attracting. Just be yourself. Dont over do it but be yourself. Rule no. 2......you need to make a girl feel comfortable with you. You dont want to frighten her off with your insecurities which may come off a different attitude to her. Make her feel warm. Make her laugh. Use your natural abilities in order to seduce her. DONT BE AFRAID OF WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY. After you make her feel comfortable with you....you can move on to the next step. Rule 3 never be her therapist. Chicks that come to you telling you shit about her life and stuff....just hear her out but never comment anything comforting to her. Because she will only see you as a friend and nothing else. Rule no. 4.....When she is comfortable with you.....show her your interests in her. Flirt with her a little. Be coqueto. That way you wont come off as someone just interested in chat. Then take it from there bro.

That's the whole thing bro. Mainly just be yourself. Let that shit that happened to you in the past.....stay in the past. Good luck. You can PM me if you need more advice.

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I'm going to do that. I want want those to think I'm just whinning about this.

Lets look at this. It was the summer of 1995 the last time I had a date.

The last time I had a date;

Chevy was still selling the giant Rear Drive Caprice

The Wizards was still THe Bullets

Melrose Place was the highest rated Drama on TV

Friends was starting it's second season

The East vs West hip hop wars was begining

WCW Nitro was just begining.

But, I'm ready to put that drought to an end.
 
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