I saw my ex-boyfriend

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Hey guys from my last forum we finally talked again, well I just want you guys to know that me and a couple of girlfriends went out last night and after the club I called my ex love and he had also been out so he invited us to go back to his apartment ,(nothing happened I might add) anyways we meet up with him and went back to his apartment, i was so nervous and when I saw him I did not know how to react, he was not the same person that I remembered. He was different in looks anyway. He was much thinner and I felt like I was too much woman for him and he would not know what to do with me. We talked a little but I was not feeling it anymore. Things have changed and I see him and know that I could not leave my baby daddy for him. He really would not have any thing to offer me or my daughter. He is still the same shy, funny guy but he was always a mammas boy and he is thinking about moving to California. Well we talked when we left and he said that I still looked the same , he was checking me out and just smiling, I asked him if he was nervous and he said no. Well guys I really am glad that I saw him again because I had been wanting this for 8 yrs now and I thought that I was still in love with him. Well I had not truely let him go because I was still holding on to the memories of him and the way he use to be. I would like to be just his friend. But he will always be my first love.
 
Still think you should let go of your current,sees inevitable...Good Luck
 
Did you have butterflies ?

Give it time and if the feeeling remains go with it ...

Good luck !
 
Marilisa... well, I'm glad you were disappointed because I'm afraid for your baby's daddy if you felt differently.

As far as you keeping him as a friend... Why? He is an old love, not an old friend. Why make trouble in your relationship.

What are you going to do about your baby's daddy? You mentioned the feelings weren't there or was that just me assuming they weren't?

I hope it works out for your family, I really do.

Gina
 
good questions gina. and i wonder if i would feel that way if i saw my lost love? i am not in a serious rel. so i could get involved.
 
Isn't nice to have that off your chest.
What you really needed was closure from that particular relationship. If you felt that you were too much woman for him, that's it, THE END. 😀

Hope this has clarified how you feel about your son's dad. If not, really think about your current relationship with him, do you see a future and how far do you see it??
 
Well, Im really happy for you ma...its great when you can truly find out if you were in love and also its great to look back to your past and realize that its the past...make sense?
 
I disagree with you shorty. It was not puppy love. I felt love and It was real. I think that some people might mistake puppy love from first love but you know when it's real.. Yeah It felt good seeing him though, but my baby's daddy is a great man and I don't want to hurt him. I guess I needed to hear that he missed me too.
 
But am saying when is love you always love that person and is like you saw him and didnt feel as much as before .. YOu are feeling more your baby daddy then him you feel me what am saying ...Thats why I say that ... Am not saying that you didnt love that person at one time ... Am just saying they why you talk it seem like you wouldn't change what you have now for him ...So for me it was like puppy love the one that you never get over it just something that you could look back on and always remeber ..
 
Well I said that I was too much woman for him and I was not feeling it because he was much thinner then when he was with me, don't get wrong I am always going to love him no matter what and he is just thin because he does not have a good woman to feed his ass (lol) and we have changed in some ways but I was so nervous when I saw him and I felt like I still wanted him in some way, this sounds funny but I honestly thought me and him were meant for each other. I was still carrying conversation with him and was just happy to hear his voice and have him call me after all this time. Shorty I loved him sooo much and he was always in my heart and everyday I prayed for this day. I so messed up in my head right now.
 
Mama just take things day by day dont stress to much ... Put your kid first and everything else will fall into place in time ... But don't rush into anything ...

Talk to your man tell him that you been feeling out of place you know maybe ya could do something together and you feel better you know he make you feel want it .... you feel me ... keep your head up mama ...
 
Yeah that is what I am doing taking it day by day. I am lucky to have someone who loves me now , I just wished I loved him like he loved me.
 
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