I Really Need Advice

[G_I_JOE_EMR]

well guys my ex called me after 3 weeks and i did not answer but its killing me because i am dying to call him back. im scared to call because i already know he wants something and did not just call me to say hello. should i return his call or wait longer? and how much longer?

Remember this is just my advice, but I’ve been there too and I’ve done it before.
First of all, don’t be scared you’re 10 times better than him—you just proved it by not calling him back so quickly. DON’T for the life of God- DON’T CALL HIM BACK.
Wait ‘till he calls you again. When you do get to talk to him, don’t jump at him like a crazy cat. Just make him believe you’re too busy to go after him, suggest to him when you can and let him do the walking. If he says he can’t, then just as nice you tell him, “well baby sorry I can’t. Let me know when you can come over and IF I’m not too busy I’ll take care of you.”

Remember he’s the one that needs to prove to you if he really cares. You can easily suggest to him: “it’s been 3 weeks since you haven’t called so I thought you forgot about me”, believe me he’ll catch the drift. They all do and it’s fun when they go out of their way to get you. If he doesn’t do anything, just forget about him. You’re much better than him and “the sea is full of fish”.

Hope this helps!!!

 

[Melly22]

girl let him call you back and if all he wants is some favor then hang up and go on with your life

 

[ricanlips4u]

Hmmm.. not sure I would agree w/ this statement fully tho..Im about to change my whole life for someone. Im leaving the State of Florida that I LOVE, My family.. friends.. job..even gave up my Mustang & bought a 4WD to move up to UPSTATE NY w/ someone that has promised to make me happy for the rest of our lives. Its great to take risks..without them U'd be like that salsa song from Victor Manuelle - El TREN-- where u dont do it.. then yrs later you have the "WHAT IF's"! Im living one day @ a time..Today I feel loved and wanted and therefore am making changes..Who knows WHAT tomorrow brings..But IF you KNOW from the getgo its an IFFY situation, then u dont do it, cuz let me tell you.. Nothing like a Woman's 6th SENSE!! Believe it!! Besos!!

EXACTLY... YOU SHOULD NEVER JUST DROP EVERYTHING TO PLEASE A MAN. 🙂

 

[LABELLANJ224]

Remember this is just my advice, but I’ve been there too and I’ve done it before.
First of all, don’t be scared you’re 10 times better than him—you just proved it by not calling him back so quickly. DON’T for the life of God- DON’T CALL HIM BACK.
Wait ‘till he calls you again. When you do get to talk to him, don’t jump at him like a crazy cat. Just make him believe you’re too busy to go after him, suggest to him when you can and let him do the walking. If he says he can’t, then just as nice you tell him, “well baby sorry I can’t. Let me know when you can come over and IF I’m not too busy I’ll take care of you.”

Remember he’s the one that needs to prove to you if he really cares. You can easily suggest to him: “it’s been 3 weeks since you haven’t called so I thought you forgot about me”, believe me he’ll catch the drift. They all do and it’s fun when they go out of their way to get you. If he doesn’t do anything, just forget about him. You’re much better than him and “the sea is full of fish”.

Hope this helps!!!

thanks i did try calling today but he did not answer but its ok because i wont call again and if he calls me i'll answer and speak my mind.

 

[JOEDOCPA]

good luck i hope you find someone better that will treat you good.

 

[G_I_JOE_EMR]

Hope everything turns out ok on this.

 

[canesfan3369]

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[canesfan3369]

Well I Was Dating This Guy For A Few Months. I Really Loved Him Everything Seemed So Perfect Until One Day We Were Supposed To Go Out And He Stood Me Up. He Told Me He Had To Think About Our Relationship And He Just Decided We Can Not Be Together Anymore. (he Told Me He Did Not Want To Be In A Relationship With Anyone But I Found Out He Was Going Out With This New Girl For A While.) The Problem Was That I Already Fell In Love With Him. I Was And Still Am Heartbroken. He Only Calls Me When He Needs Something And I Have Tried So Hard To Try To Get Him Back But Nothing Is Working. He Always Made Sure He Said Thank You To Me For Always Being There For Him And Loving Him For Who He Really Is He Says No One Ever Loved Him Like That. Well I Do Not Understand Why He Would Let Me Go If Thats So True. I Get So Angry Because I Drop So Many Things For Him And He Treats Me So Bad. I Just Want Him To Realize What He Is Losing Here And Im Afraid He Has Too Much Pride To Ever Let Me Know Or To Even Come Back To Me. I Love Him With All My Heart But I Dont Know What Else I Can Do But I Am Sick Of Him Always Taking Advantage Of Me. How Can I Forget About Him? Any Advice?

Pride always hurts... It never helps!!!! You can't change him. You can only change you. Pick yourself up luv and dust off your heart so that it will shine like a lighthouse for all the good guys out there lost in the storm looking for love!!!

 

[G_I_JOE_EMR]

Pride always hurts... It never helps!!!! You can't change him. You can only change you. Pick yourself up luv and dust off your heart so that it will shine like a lighthouse for all the good guys out there lost in the storm looking for love!!!

:fkinaman Those are nice words :hpound
I think I just fell for you :hpound :lol

 

[LABELLANJ224]

Pride always hurts... It never helps!!!! You can't change him. You can only change you. Pick yourself up luv and dust off your heart so that it will shine like a lighthouse for all the good guys out there lost in the storm looking for love!!!

thank you sweetheart that was perfect. i needed to hear that.

 

[LocaBoriquaQueen]

You just need to not even bother with him at all.... I know its hard..... im on the same boat with an ex, as you already know.. and its hard not to call him if he hasnt called u in a while... When he calls dont pick up at first...let it ring.... But try to forget about him... get over him.... find another guy you can appreciate us women more.... youll be fine.... Love ya chickadee.