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Mama.. I dont know you, but seems to me this guy is not worth your tears.. You're obviously worth more than he could ever appreciate and u deserve someone better.. You'll find someone that will love you and appreciate you for who you are! Dont stay home and dwell and sulk in your sorrows.. U R alive and have Much to offer! Hang out w/ friends.. flirt.. enjoy your youth!
Besos..

LABELLANJ224 said:
Well I Was Dating This Guy For A Few Months. I Really Loved Him Everything Seemed So Perfect Until One Day We Were Supposed To Go Out And He Stood Me Up. He Told Me He Had To Think About Our Relationship And He Just Decided We Can Not Be Together Anymore. (he Told Me He Did Not Want To Be In A Relationship With Anyone But I Found Out He Was Going Out With This New Girl For A While.) The Problem Was That I Already Fell In Love With Him. I Was And Still Am Heartbroken. He Only Calls Me When He Needs Something And I Have Tried So Hard To Try To Get Him Back But Nothing Is Working. He Always Made Sure He Said Thank You To Me For Always Being There For Him And Loving Him For Who He Really Is He Says No One Ever Loved Him Like That. Well I Do Not Understand Why He Would Let Me Go If Thats So True. I Get So Angry Because I Drop So Many Things For Him And He Treats Me So Bad. I Just Want Him To Realize What He Is Losing Here And Im Afraid He Has Too Much Pride To Ever Let Me Know Or To Even Come Back To Me. I Love Him With All My Heart But I Dont Know What Else I Can Do But I Am Sick Of Him Always Taking Advantage Of Me. How Can I Forget About Him? Any Advice?
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ricanlips4u said:
Mama.. I dont know you, but seems to me this guy is not worth your tears.. You're obviously worth more than he could ever appreciate and u deserve someone better.. You'll find someone that will love you and appreciate you for who you are! Dont stay home and dwell and sulk in your sorrows.. U R alive and have Much to offer! Hang out w/ friends.. flirt.. enjoy your youth!
Besos..
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thank you so much. everything you said is so true. although it will be hard im moving on.
 
like so many have said, you must move on, enjoy your life, enjoy your time, but give yourself the time to heal from it too. so that when someone else does come into your llife, you are open to it, and not holding back some past feelings that were buried. Take it easy, one day at a time. it will not be easy, but you are a woman, that means..you give birth, you give life, how much more empowering and beautiful can that be? believe inyourself again, you did nothing wrong, but give someone your love, that truly did not deserve it. Hope everything works out, who knows maybe he will come around, but let him come around to you on your terms😉
 
atx said:
I Went Through That Too, Omg This Man Took Such Advantage Of Me. Then I Thought One Day "do I Want My Future Children To Know That I Put Up With "this" In The Name Of Love? I Don't Think So!" I Cut Him Loose And It Took A While To Get Over Him But I Am A Better Person Today For Doing So. In The End, Just Do What You Feel. You Can't Make Everyone Happy, And If Putting Up With It Makes You Happy Then Go For It; But If It Makes You Sad Mama, Let It Go. Love Ya!
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EXACTLY... YOU SHOULD NEVER JUST DROP EVERYTHING TO PLEASE A MAN. 🙂
 
LABELLANJ224 said:
THANK YOU SO MUCH SWEETHEART THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED TO KNOW RIGHT NOW. YOU ARE HELPING ME SOOOOO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA. ITS JUST SO HARD BECAUSE I LOVE HIM BUT I CAN NOT KEEP LETTING HIM TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME. IM GOING TO START IGNORING HIM AND MAYBE HE WILL REALIZE. MY FRIENDS ALSO TELL ME HE TAKES ADVANTAGE AND TREATS ME THE WAY HE DOES BECAUSE HE KNOWS I TRULY LOVE HIM AND WOULD DO ANYTHING. HE KNOWS THAT TOO BUT IM GOING TO TRY MY BEST TO LET HIM GO.
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Your welcome :yeey
I'm glad I could help.
I hope that you have taken charge now and be strong, there are better men out there and they'll come to you without you moving a finger. Believe me.
 
G_I_JOE_EMR said:
Your welcome :yeey
I'm glad I could help.
I hope that you have taken charge now and be strong, there are better men out there and they'll come to you without you moving a finger. Believe me.
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yeah your right but sometimes i feel like i will never find that certain someone
 
JOEDOCPA said:
i know what you mean bella. about findin that certain someone.
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i know it is just so hard. a lot of people are all about games nowadays. i feel like giving up on love.
 
JOEDOCPA said:
i hear ya i did give up i have more to worry about now i will let love find me . good luck i hope u meet someone who dose not play games .
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thats true u did give up because i am so tired os giving up my heart to the ones i think are the ones just for me to be broken hearted at the end. i dont think its worth it. just like they say love can be the best feeling in the world but also the worst.
 
I know how you feel!!!! But you shouldn't give up on love. Everyone's been hurt in their lives and it feels like shiiiii***tttt, eventually everyone gets over it. The process is not easy.

My advice, just take time out to heal. The heart is exactly as any part of our body, if we fall down and scrape our knees, when we get up the wound takes time to heal and get better. Now we know better when we pass by the same place we fell down, we'll be careful.

These things makes us stronger and makes us recognize how people truly are inside. Don't give up on love, just give it time to heal.

No matter what, always take charge of your life, never let anyone else manage your life. Love is about sharing also if the person that chooses to share your life with does not share his life with you then he doesn't really love you.
 
i don't even know where to start, but i can give u some great advice! give him some of his own medicine because it really works, u may not feel that but it really does, and lil by lil u will start realizing that u don't need him no more. as u can tell i've bin through this, if u only knew my story about this guy that i did EVERYTHING for and all i did was got s**ted on, all the time. trust me if anyone's bin there it's bin me and your so much better that that. don't do it for anyone else but for yourself. trust me he may not know right now ehat he's losing but one day he will kick himself in the ass, because it will happen. go do things with your friends, i'm talking from experience, if you need more advice i'm here. just remember one thing, don't drop anything for him no more, because he's not worth it!!!!!!!!!!be strong, trust me it will get better!!
 
butterfly54 said:
i don't even know where to start, but i can give u some great advice! give him some of his own medicine because it really works, u may not feel that but it really does, and lil by lil u will start realizing that u don't need him no more. as u can tell i've bin through this, if u only knew my story about this guy that i did EVERYTHING for and all i did was got s**ted on, all the time. trust me if anyone's bin there it's bin me and your so much better that that. don't do it for anyone else but for yourself. trust me he may not know right now ehat he's losing but one day he will kick himself in the ass, because it will happen. go do things with your friends, i'm talking from experience, if you need more advice i'm here. just remember one thing, don't drop anything for him no more, because he's not worth it!!!!!!!!!!be strong, trust me it will get better!!
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thanks a lot for the advice butterfly54 i really appreciate it. yeah i always do drop everything and anything for him as soon as he needs something and he knows it but i am putting an end to that because i even put him before myself but no more. if you ever need to talk im here. muahz
 
No one has control over your emotions but yourself. If I were you, I would walk away from that situation that YOU are putting yourself into. He is obviously feeding off of you because you are allowing it. Move on girl and find yourself a good man who is deserving of your love. Don't allow yourself to be abused.
 
well guys my ex called me after 3 weeks and i did not answer but its killing me because i am dying to call him back. im scared to call because i already know he wants something and did not just call me to say hello. should i return his call or wait longer? and how much longer?
 
how many days has it been since he called?? call back but keep it breif, act like you r going out and only have a 1 or 2 mins to talk. dont let him pressure you. these r your terms now.
 
aim4night said:
how many days has it been since he called?? call back but keep it breif, act like you r going out and only have a 1 or 2 mins to talk. dont let him pressure you. these r your terms now.
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the last time he called me was october 16th until yesterday
 
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