i have a problem

[ROXYGURL]

ok, i have this jealousy problem that i cant get rid of. my man of 7 years just bought a new truck-dodge ram 1500-2003. its beatiful!ok well heres my thing-he has always drove my car and now he gets this nice car that is all suped up, and i found my self calling him 24-7 on the celly!even when he is running errands. im always "where are you at and who's with you?" he is getting pissed. and now we are fighting. hes says im too jealous and if i cant trust him, why am i with him?i love him and some what trust him, but am i over reacting?
we have 2 kids and live togther, but we work two different shifts-i am 9-5 and he is graveyard..is it because we dont see each other often????:confused someone please help!!!:hearton

 

[1sxychica]

roxy.. i had the same problem.. i used to freak out when my man would be out with his boys.. it would kill me not to know who he's with exactly and where he is exactly.
but he told me once, 'i have ur ring on my finger, ur picture in my wallet, ur scent on my passenger seat, u in my heart... why would i ever do anything stupid?' and it came to me that it's true... he needs some ME time with the guys, even though he drives a seksi car and girls look.. he's got MY ring on his finger... and I backed off 🙂 because put yourself in his shoes, if you were grocery shopping or out with your girls and he would be calling u every 5 minutes and asking when you're coming home.. you'd get irritated too, but you're not doing anything wrong right? so trust him... stop calling so often.. let him tell you that it's only you and nothing/noone else... and him saying that should let you feel better.

if not then you should really consider the trust issue, cos if there is no trust, there is never peace..

goodluck

 

[ROXYGURL]

thanks for the advise sxy! he keeps telling me i am the only one and there will never be anyone else. he says'i have my family(me and the kiddies) and he does need anything else.i truly believe him, but its those damm hoes out there that dont give a shit. i love too much and he knows that..hes always reassuring me he loves me and he is the"family man":hearton

 

[1sxychica]

then mama u got urself a keeper! hoes will always be hoes... that's nothing u can change.. if they persuade him, then it's how it's gonna be.. if he claims ur the one, u gotta change the course ur mind thinks and trust him.. because with u nagging all the time and calling will make him want another woman...