Hubby problems

[heavenelise]

Need to vent..My hubby is always hanging out with his boys...We got married this past March and we have 2 lil girls..I think that itz time to be a family man and stay home with the kids..He just wants to chill w/his friends. And when he is home, his friends are too! Should I be a Bytch and kick them all out! Im not the bytchy type. Sorry if itz long..just needed to vent.

 

[EZE_2K3]

YO TELL HIM HOW U FEEL ABOUT EVERYTHING HIS DOING!! TALK IT OUT DONT GET INTO NO ARGUEMENT ABOUT IT!! THEN IF NOTHING CHANGES THEN HMMM I DUNNO THEN U STARTTT GOING OUT N LEAVE HIM AT HOME TO SEE HOW HE LIKES IT!!?

 

[pinostyle]

YES AND NO EZE - I AGREE THAT COMMUNICATION IZ THE KEY HERE!!! I AM 100% BELIEVER THAT YOU GOTTA TALK....BUT...

I DON'T THINK 2 WRONGS WOULD MAKE A RIGHT.

REMEMBER HTE GOLDEN RULE ...DO UNTO OTHERS AS IF YOU WERE "OTHERS"

HANG IN THERE GURL....WE'VE ALL SAID IT BEFORE...
IF YOU GOTTA VENT...THIS IS THE PLACE....WE ALL NEED TO DO IT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER AND WE ALL DO....WE'RE LUCKY TO HAVE A FREESTYLE FAMILY @ CF->DOT!

 

[1sxychica]

girl... i seem to have the same problem with my hun... his friends don't leave his side... i don't have children and neither do we live together... but whenever i call he's not home but with his friends... the only thing i told him was... when it's MY time with him.. i don't expect them to be around or it's not gonna be pretty.. i told him i was fed up how those guys join us at our romantic dinners and movie nights... it annoyed the SHHHHT outta me... but we talked and i said that i am not about to share him with anyone... i won't mind him spending time with them when we have nothing planned... otherwise, it's just plain rude. So step by step we did it... so those two schedules never overlap.

as for ur case.... talk to him... calmlyyyyy... explain whats up, how u feel ( do NOT tell him HOW it's gotta be, they hhhhhhhate it!!) just, u know, say that u need him in the house more often... that kids miss him... c'mon girl, u have those little feminine things that guys can't resist.

good luck.

 

[Lamatrix]

I agree with sexychica but if it don't work you know those rollin pins to make bread knock him over the head. J/K LMAOOOO.
Talk to him mama.

 

[Putana]

He's hanging out wit' his boys instead of his own children?!?!?

Sorry to be blunt, but that sh*t is FOUL!!! These are the old fogies of the future that wonder why their nursing home a$$e$ don't get visited by their children anymore! He needs to chill wit' dat sh*t NOW & U best let him know up front and ASAP!

I will say that once in a while is...HEALTHY at best! But not every f*ckin' day! I'm a single father & my son takes precedence over any of my boyz ANY GIVEN DAY!!!!

 

[mzcrazybtch]

I AGREE...I DON'T FIND ANYTHING WRONG WITH HANGING WITH THE FRIENDS ONCE IN A WHILE BECAUSE EVERYONE NEEDS A BREAK HERE AND THERE BUT HE MUST ALSO MAKE TIME FOR YOU AND THE FAMILY....LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BECAUSE IT ALWAYS PAYS TO TALK ABOUT IT AND TAKE IT FROM THERE. HOPE IT WORKS OUT...BUT IN THIS HOUSE COMMUNICATIONS IS THE KEY.

 

[heavenelise]

What makes me mad is that there is one friend that is ALWAYS hanging out with...hez always in my house playin madden or drink beer, whenever we go vist his momz he has to look for him (his friend lives in his momz building) my hubby is always callin him out the window. Whats soo weird is that my husbands mother is with his best friends father (they all live in the same building, with the ex wife and all!) so they call each other brothers. The best friend is a nice guy but has no job so he always lookin for him..I think the only way to separate them is to move far far away!