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Ok guys, I have this friend, I introduced her to one of my cousins about 2 years ago. Well on there own they startde talking, then I guess he started telling her nice things, so she fell in love with him. Well he keeps on telling her that he is not ready for a relationship but she comes crying to me! telling me "your cousin this your cousin that"! I tell her that he is a dog but she dont care! He calls her when he wants a peice of nalga, and there she goes all giving it to him! Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free right! How can I just tell her to open her eyes!
 
Well all you can do is tell her to open them if she chooses not to then, your hands are tied. As a cousin, tell him how you feel. My bro/cousin know me and know they will get my honest opinion (positive or neg), as a friend be there for her when she finally does opened them.
 
She must have low self esteem about herself that is why?
 
Well I think that he was her first,thats why she is so in love (she is 18, him 21) and believe me I have told him so many times to stop, because I feel like i am as much at fault cuz I introduced them to each other, The other day we went to a party he didnt even go up to her instead she came and told him "dont hurt yurself trying to go say hi" and he just laughed, he dissed her that moment, but then he calls her 2 hrs later and there she goes!for that lil piece of carne!
 
Oh man, she doesn't realize that she is just a piece of ass or she realizes but hasn't come to terms with it. Babygirl, like I stated previiously just be there for her. Your cousin well Karma is a bitch and it always comes knocking.
 
She needs to be stronger 🙁 **** man hes lucky to have her as his first. Its a shame his heart does not want to treasure that. They been together 2 years?
 
On and off 2 years, but not officially "novios" He left to washington for 4 months and she was there when he came back. I dont know waht will happen with them but Im taking your advice la mas grande! thats all I can do.
 
Its hard at a young age...and when one is starting out. Going through the trials and tribulations of life. Us the old crowd and the caring the best thing we can do is giving them a helping hand which is strong advise...being some of us has been through this.

I hope all goes for her. 🙂
 
Us old guys! speak for yourself buddy!! lol yo todavia me siento joven!


tu saves que estoy jugando contigo!
 
from what you said, you already told her that your cuz is a dog. If she keeps going back to him, that's her choice. Not much you can do.

as for him, if he is a dog, he won't stop using her until, in his mind, he finds someone better.

Just be there for her.
 
Well Ma just be real with her and let her know. If she dont listen then, well I hate to say t5his but let her learn from her mistake. But just be a good friend and let her know dont give up trying,everybody learns from their mistakes,maybe its her time to learn.
 
Well 18 so young and with that comes insecuritites, learning about oneself and so on..All you can do is be there for her..What goes around comes around! One day he will fall madly in love with a girl and she will break his heart. As for your friend, she seems like a nice gal and one day when she is secure enough she will walk away from him, hold her head up and realize she does not need his shit and she will find a nice guy that will appreciate her.
 
babygirl559 said:
Ok guys, I have this friend, I introduced her to one of my cousins about 2 years ago. Well on there own they startde talking, then I guess he started telling her nice things, so she fell in love with him. Well he keeps on telling her that he is not ready for a relationship but she comes crying to me! telling me "your cousin this your cousin that"! I tell her that he is a dog but she dont care! He calls her when he wants a peice of nalga, and there she goes all giving it to him! Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free right! How can I just tell her to open her eyes!
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Well from experience No matter what you tell her she will always want to follow him.... cuz that is what her heart tells her she is in love. What you need to do is be there for her.... listen to her, give her advice, and make sure that she knows that you are there for her as a friend no matter if he is your cousin. Believe me in due time she WILL find out what an assclown he is .... but until then you just need to be her friend and nothing else. I know it is hard to watch someone get hurt but sometimes they need to trip and fall in order to get up again ... even if for a few times... cuz LORD KNOWS I've fallen quite a few times myself ... got the bruises to prove it.
 
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