how do u stop missing someone?

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how do u stop missing someone...love sucks...especially when you cant be together because of responsibilities you both have to other situations🙁

so there is still a hope of coming together in a little while, but STILL ITS NOT ENOUGH...UGH!!!!

life is a bad freestyle song :sosad
 
Toni if I knew that answer I would be a MUCH happier person.....I miss someone who I hold VERY close to my heart. No matter if we are not together he will always remain close to me. Lately all I have been doing is WRITING alot, be with friends, try not to think of him, work my ass off, and talk to someone else (homey dude...damn I don't know what I would have done without him).

Sorry ma I hope it will get better for you 🙂
 
Very true Only time can help ......lots of time out there

GOOD LUCK!
 
time doesnt do sh*t...i can tell you that much...but i mean we arent not together because of fighting and stuff, just cause of a situation

i have my daughter and he has his brother he takes care of...his mom recently passed so he takes care of his little brother...we were fine!!!! but then we started coming home late...his roommate like when off on him, so my man and his machismo had to leave the house and now he is living at a friends basement...and he is always scared to leave his brother ( i dont blame him)...so we decided to cut it off till he gets his sh*t in order...sooooooooooooo i really really miss him!!!!!! and dont know if it will get better before one of us moves on... i am trying not to look else where, however i am not the type to be lonely at night...so its sooooooooohard!!!
*sigh* thanks for letting me vent!!!
 
ok thanks you guys!!!!

i wanted him for like a year!!!! i worked so hard to get him!!! then i finally got him!!!! he is so hot 6'3 280 pounds!!! a huge teddy bear!!!! i miss him!!!!!

it was perfect times...we were always together on our days off...and on the phone when we couldnt be together...on the phone for hours!!!
my name is toni, his name is tony...so it was set!!!

but now it went sour...OH GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Hey mama ...I hear you I know how it feel .. But hey just give it ya all you know am saying you live alone or what you know ?

I realy don't know was going on with ya for the little that you just talk about but I understand what you talking about thou.. Yeah is hard to miss someone ..
 
Toni....I hate to do this, but I think you should move on.....I talk from experience, and when you hook up with someone who has "issues", and then you part ways while he gets himself in check, you may be waiting forever....for absolutely nothing. I honestly hope it does work out between you, cuz I know what you are going thru, and to say that it hurts like hell would be an understatement.:sosad
 
Toni,

I don't know how to answer this, but it seems to me that having to take of his brother is a huge responsibility for him , especially since his mom passed, he must be going through it very hard, dont' give up, if it doens't work out between you guys at least he can say you were the best friend to him in his time of need, and that sometimes leaves a better impression than anything else in life.
 
Mama I don' think there is answer for this one as long as you guys feel the way you do about each other you are going to continue missing him every time you think of the time you have shared you will miss him I know when I dont see my boo for a few days I miss him sometimes even when I have him right next to me I miss him because I wonder when I will see him again lov eis like that mama what I can say is that look to the time you will be together, the time in the near future where you will have him close and it will keep you going and strong. Missing him is not going to go away not when your heart is in it and not when you waited so long to have him hope everything works out for you 🙂
 
i dont think there is a way to stop missing someone.....in my case...i try to keep myself as occupied as much as possible...i like to be bz doing something....cuz wen im alone and have nothing to do.....thats wen i start to think and all those thoughts can add up to something very nasty....u never stop missing someone....especially if they have a piece of your heart.......the best thing u can do is try not to think about it too much.....or u land up insane
 
i know how you feel and let me tell you the only way to cope with situations like these are to remember we werent born with anybody but alone you will get through it no matter what always remind yourself your worth more than that and nobody should make you feel less or hurt because of there problems. and its true what they say if you love something let it go and if it comes back to, it was always yours and if doenst than it wasn't meant to be. believe me i learned that from experience. cuidate
 
I dunno what to say- he's not even gone yet and I miss him....


not to mention my boo in Port St. Lucie.:hearton
 
wow thanks you guys!!!

i can see that you all know what you are talking about...i am going to try and take a little piece of all your advices...nena however i love how u laid it out for me, it really put sh*t into perspective!!!

no idea how i am still going to play this thing out, but i think its better off moving on, and using my freestyle cds to get me through it!!!!
 
Toni:

b4 I said I couldn't say cuz he hadn't left me yet- but now he's gone and I ache, I ache gurll

My chest hurts, I feel a lil depressed- I'm sad now ( I'm ususally a HAPPY person) it affects my work, and the way I am at home...

Only I still don't know how to stop missing him- when you find out, plz tell me.
 
awwww i feel ya liz!!!

i know that heart ache!!! your chest hurts, your throat gets this pain because u are holding back tears, LOVE SUCKS!!!!
 
Toni,I'm gonna be straight up and forward with my answer.
You don't stop missing someone.Especially if this someone really meant alot.
The best thing to do is always remember the good times and move forward and oh let me not forget this,you find a better someone.



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