hmmm?

[FantasyGerl]

well heres the deal.. my b/f is 19, and he's always out clubbin and strollin in at 4,5am. i trust him to the fullest, but im soo scared that anything could happen when he's out that late. plus, he lives in brooklyn, and im worried.. what should i do? am i just over reacting? :crap

 

[Lamatrix]

noooo. you're not sometimes we worry cause there are so many stupid people out there and even though you don't look for trouble trouble will find you. I trust that he doesn't go by himself?

 

[Psycho]

I could be leaving work in a few minutes and something terrible could happen to me. The fact that he hangs out late doesn't increase or decrease his chances of getting into some type of trouble. You'd be surprised how many people are out at that time. Now if he's hangin' in a secluded area than that's on him, he's taking that chance, and if something happens he has to except that too. But as far as you worring, that's absolutely normal. Just don't let your fear or worry get out of hand to the point where it begins to hurt the relationship.

 

[FantasyGerl]

trueeee thank you!!

 

[LocaBoriquaQueen]

no your not over reacting.... we sometimes tend to think the worst... You may trust him but its the other people you have to worry about wether it be him driving home, going clubbin watever it is that is the way life is...