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Nyasia said:
as tempting and different that may seem, don't read more into it mama. It's no different than if he were married and hitting on you. only this time your the one that is married. I know how nice something different and new can be, it's so exciting, but then it fades.

Well I gotta get to work, hope you can work this out mamadukes😉 I have faith in you!!!😉 🙂
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i totally agree with you naya
 
OH damn Mari! see I went and confused you with LABETTYBOOP! que mierda!..LOLOL see I posted this early!..LOL my bad!
 
OHHH Dammm........GUilty........ 😱 :sosad

:shakinboo Stop Confusing us. :sleep

Im like huh???????? LOL


Make sure you have your coffee b4 you come to CF.
 
Mari i think you sould do it. but sit down and talk to him about it ... it not going to hurt to talk about it....you have to get open and honest with him becuase if he is a true friend he will listen and understand whatever is going to so on.......
 
The update.....hmmmmm, we still talking, well meet next weekend to spend a day together, christmas shopping, and well see how things go. No further details right now. Just that he is so happy, and Im :huh
 
I Would Say Take The Chance, But Know The Consequences. If Things Go Wrong In The Relationship As B/f And G/f The Freindship Usually Will Fade. None Of Us Can Tell Ur Heart What To Do Only U Can. U Know Everything That Goes On Between U Two We Just Hear It So This Is For U To Judge. Ur A Big Girl Mama Do What You Think Is Right. Follow Ur Heart, But We Are Still Here For U. Muahzzz Good Luck Keep Us Updated. But Naya Is Right Too About The Excitment Part This Is For Everyone It Fades Away Once Reality Hits!
 
Thanks Sexxxe, just keep im mind, Naya confused me wiht LaBetty, I am not married, believe you me, I understand that so well, If Im a married woman, that it would just be a moment, and I would not intend to destroy something its going so well.
 
*F it go for yours if your really friends you'll still be friends just the sexual tension will be gone and if I remember correctly that was exciting sex..... or is that angry sex... no .....well... angry sex is fun but sexual tension relief that was good too yes LOL
 
It’s true friends make the best lovers. God that is soooo true BUT then the friendship ends always. So be careful because it really hurts :sosad I still miss my best friend so much. We still would’ve been good friends. But I don’t regret it ‘cause I enjoyed it (but I wont do it ever again with any friend). And sometimes it’s better to say oooppss I’m sorry than to go a whole lifetime wondering What if....

Just take things at a time, ‘cause you never know if that’s the opportunity of your lifetime.
 
Update.....I went for it......

I accepted and OMG, its like I accepted to marry, this guy is really in Love with me, he is really a gentleman. Thing are going so great, hes so sweet, he was sweet before but now hes been more, I get to see more than a friend, I see the lover part in him, he's really trying to make this work, he says Ive waited three years for you, I need to make this work.

He spent the holidays with me, he said he would spend it with his fam, and decided to route back at me....anyways, hes great with the kids, he brought his family to meet my mother, yeah hes no joke. They got along well. His family always loved me, they were always like, whats up with you and Mari?, hes like nothing, a friend, they roll out the red carpet for me and they treat me like a queen, wow....what do you want?, and this and that, special dinner immediatly made for me, geesh, Im like no, no...lol, thats the beginning right fokes, lol, nahh really they always treated me nice, but they also know that he always wanted me in his life. Hes talking about the whole nine yard, marriage, a baby, a home, its really been a nice month. I get a rose for each month we are together now. I got 1 already ..... lol

I dont see him often cause he is a Soldier, yeah hes one of those serious men. I see him on weekends for now, he lives in base, but hes making arrangement to move to NY, he need to take care of matters first, hes is just in Jersey now. 18 years in the Air Force, ready to retire, so he wont be going to War no more 😉. Thank You Lord.

...and we living happily ever after....lol

:inlove
 
wow- COngrats on your new found love.

I wish and hope nothing but the best Mari.....

and Happy New Year. lol
 
Hi Baby.. First, I am very happy for you, but I do have one question that concerns me.

I don't want to throw a wrench in the works here, but he's been separated for a long time... why isn't he divorced yet?

You see, when you've been through all the bullsh*t you can stand, you look at EVERYTHING that comes along.

Be careful.

I'm sorry, because you sound so very happy... but I just had to ask.

Gina
 
4Ever I spoke to him about that already, and that was one of the reasons I never pay him no mind, I saw him go through two relationship and they allowed it, I told him, if you want to make this work, you need to be divorced like yesterday. Well he said he will, and today he called me to tell me he spoke to his wife and will start the process next week. 🙂

I dont want to say the reason why he has not gotten divorced, but there is a reason, I told him to answer that, he will in a bit.
 
Buenas CF....

OK...I feel like i am in a spot here. Yes I have known Babybettyboop for a few years now. I have told her my feelings and well we seem to be getting along GREAT now.

I know some of you are thinking wow but you are still married and so on. Reason being, well not to be spilling my business on here cuz it is my business, I have not gotten divorced becuz my wife has no family here and basically no where to go. We have been living like roommates for a while now and when I went to Korea for a year we were suppose to get divorced. She changed her mind and next thing I know she is driving from California to NJ and moving in and well being in the miltiary it is kinda hard to just leave a wife or husband out in the cold. THey will make you support them no matter what. So the first year or so here we were cool, just living our own lives while still living under the same roof.

Like Mari said, I have had two relationships that ended well rather wildly and I sort of brushed them off. Now I am with her and I haven't been this happy since well damn I am going to be 36 on the 30th and well damn lets just say A LONG TIME!!!!!

The times I was happiest was when me and mari just hhung out together as friends. My family loves her. I think her mom loves me (atleast that is the feeling I get when I go visit over there). And well I am just comfortable with her. So that is a big thing with me. Comfort is a hard thing for someone who has been alone for so long even if I have had relationships before.


I am now in the process of doing this and make Mari a serious woman now. No more parandiando con nadie but me :smirk. We have discussed many dreams we would like to make true and well I am sure as hell gonna try to make them all come true, or atleast die trying...

So gracias for the warm welcome and hopefully I won't have to be explaining any of this any time soon...
 
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