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and after years, you kissed and felt a vibe???

I have a friend, weve been friends for 3 years now, he always liked me, I did not, cause he is married, I dont get with married men and hes really not my type, but hes such a doll with me, he is still married, been seperated for five years, he was dating some chick, and she kept him from me for about six months or so, cause shes jelous of our friendship, well they broke up and hes back in my life, he came to see me, but the strangest thing happen, he kissed me, well we kissed, just a tap, but it felt different, was it that I missed him for such a long time away, or am I starting to feel something for him???? :nutz :whateva

Hes been in contact with me, like wanting to make it grow, not like the friendship contact we had...hes contacting me everyday, he did not do this b4, but we did keep in touch often.....Im just like confused...... 😱

Whats happening???
 
Wow mama, that all depends on how strong this friendship is. I believe that if it a strong and good friendship you should leave it at that because if things dont work out you might end up losing a friend. Just be cautious mama.

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So Liz you think is nothing, next time I see him, it will be the same??

Grande, that what I dont want. Hes like my older brother that I dont have.
 
Go for it are you crazy woman? 😱 Don't you know best friends are the best lovers? He knows you inside! Why not go for a man that knows you really well? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that friendship bullshit.

-antonio
 
BabyBeTTYBooP said:
So Liz you think is nothing, next time I see him, it will be the same??

Grande, that what I dont want. Hes like my older brother that I dont have.
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Thats what I mean sweety, men are a dime a dozen but true friends are not. So just be careful sweety, take really slow.

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Enigma said:
Go for it are you crazy woman? 😱 Don't you know best friends are the best lovers? He knows you inside! Why not go for a man that knows you really well? !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that friendship bullshit.

-antonio
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You don't have many friends do you Ant. J/K

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Ant? Not true...I lost a friend that way. I still miss him some days! :shrug:

Baby? Nothing in life is guaranteed. Just take it one day at a time and see where it goes. If you feel that it's not gonna grow anymore than remain friends...but don't shut him down now without even trying. You may miss out on the opportunity of a lifetime. 🙂
 
becareful. i wrote about a friend of mine who i kissed at a party he had. i thought he was interested but then he stopped calling and made excuses again. he called me the other week so i said i was busy. dont need a wishy washy guy.
i hope it works out, whatever u choose.
 
Hola Baby...Friends turn into trhe Best Lovers!@!! GO FOR IT!!
 
diablo mari that must of have been some kiss then :biggrin u got the poor guy wantin u more and more lol i say dont be confuse ma just got for it u got nothin to lose if it doesnt work out then hey atleast u can say u try ju kno 😉
 
tell me about it Krissy

hi scottie 🙂

lol Al, it was just a hello tap kiss when he arrived and it was a good bye tap kiss....but im confuse to think it was just a miiss you moment, and not actual feelings...but he has me ticking....but i can tell you a missed him alot.....and I do know he truly cares for me. The reason he seeking me more now, is cause I responded to the kiss, I went straight to the lips too....we never did that.....and he held, me and hugged me, and I felt it was sincere, he said I missed you so much, and hugged me tight and so did I. He always said, Im worth waiting for, Ill be by your side, whaever you want.!!
 
maybe it was just kinda a spurr of the moment peck? dont mind it too much, dont take it into ur head as anything more.. if you have such a close friendship with this man, you should talk to him and see what HE had tos ay about it... I dont remember which sitcom it was but two friends kissed and felt something there, but then it just dindt feel right, so they kissed again for the sake of finding out if anything was really there.. and there was nothing 🙂

maybe a second kiss? lol
 
Sxy, I may consider that, or a day out wth him...we spoke about it, like I said before he says Im worth waiting for, hes sure I will be his. LOL thats freaky, and to be honest he always said that.

Scott thatnks, but he is not who I was interested in, or wanted, I have a long term challenge I been trying to conquer but hes been hard to get, not budging. His loss right?
 
From the looks of you, and how sweet you seem, definately his loss..But don't make the same mistake that I did, miss great opportunities with people that really appreciate you trying to get someone who doesn't!
 
Life is full of surprises! So if you felt something that something you felt might've been because it was always there. You just didn't know it. And it took his absence and return for you to "feel it". Absence makes the heart grow fonder and yours had its time! :hpound
 
BabyBeTTYBooP said:
I dont get with married men
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as tempting and different that may seem, don't read more into it mama. It's no different than if he were married and hitting on you. only this time your the one that is married. I know how nice something different and new can be, it's so exciting, but then it fades.

Well I gotta get to work, hope you can work this out mamadukes😉 I have faith in you!!!😉 🙂
 
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