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La Mas Grande

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Last night I watch "Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind" starring Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet. The movie basically is about a couple who had a beautiful love affair but it ended badly, so they decided to completely erase the entire memory from the head. Its a great movie.

Well this movie got me thinking and Im curious to read your responses. Would you prefer to completely erase the memories good and bad or just keep them because in the end that what it sum up too?
 
To erase those memories is to jeopardize yourself even more in the future. Because from your mistakes...you learn...and aquire experience for the next chapter. You can avoid a big mistake learning from your past.

The ONLY way I would say that is good is if a girl got raped. Then it would be cool if such a technology existed. Other than that...no good for use for the human race.

-antonio
 
Ant, Im Not Talking About The Technology Of It, I Talking About The Whole Experience Of It. Does The Bad Always Outweight The Good In A Relationship That You Would Want To Just Forget It All.
So Many Times I Hear People Talking About How They Regret And Wish They Could Forget A Certain Someone In Their Live (i Have Been Guilty Of This Myself) But If Im Honest To Myself That Would Be A Lie.
 
La Mas Grande

Technology aside then 😛 I wouldn't erase anything either. 🙂

No one is perfect. <---That best describes it right there.

-antonio
 
ChuckD said:
I would keep everything.

The expereinces you have shape you into the person you are.
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I AGREE WITH CHUCK ON THIS ONE...I'M THE WAY I AM AND WHO I AM BECAUSE OF MY PAST...I DON'T REGRET ANYTHING BECAUSE I BELIEVE EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON...GOOD OR BAD.
 
Wow! I would have to keep all of my memories. Some have been really good and

some have been really bad. There are a few I wouldn’t mind erasing but then I wouldn’t have the experience that I need to proceed…



Actually, who am I kidding? My next relationship will be whatever it is destined to be.

p.s. I'll have to rent that movie, it does sound interesting.
 
RECS said:
Wow! I would have to keep all of my memories. Some have been really good and

some have been really bad. There are a few I wouldn’t mind erasing but then I wouldn’t have the experience that I need to proceed…



Actually, who am I kidding? My next relationship will be whatever it is destined to be.

p.s. I'll have to rent that movie, it does sound interesting.
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IT'S REALLY A GOOD MOVIE, ONE THAT GETS YOU THINKING. THATS THE TYPE OF MOVIES I LIKE.

I BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING YOU GO THROUGH IT SACRED IN ITS OWN WAY AND SHOULD BE HELD ON TOO.
 
Chuck hit it on the head.

Most people have had beautiful experiences in their lives and at the same time everyone has made mistakes and I'm sure there are things that you wish you wouldn't have done or have done differently, but in the end that is what makes you who you are.

I've never met anyone who wished they were someone else, just people that wish they could do things a little different in order to make things better.
 
I wouldn't cuz those bad memories and experiences are the best reminders and lessons in life which teachs us not to make the same mistakes...
 
I wouldn't change them b/c its the lessons learned that make me who I am today. I know the bad outweighs the good but I have to look at it from the perspective of hey it was good while it lasted the tears were shed now its time to move on
 
nessa's302 said:
I wouldn't change them b/c its the lessons learned that make me who I am today. I know the bad outweighs the good but I have to look at it from the perspective of hey it was good while it lasted the tears were shed now its time to move on
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THATS EXACTLY HOW I SEE IT MAMA....

🙂
 
I would keep them. What don't break you makes you. you learn from these experiences. some mistakes could be very well your own. in the next relationship you know exactly what not to do and what to do.

saw that movie. I thought it was pretty good.
 
I would keep it .... the good times and the bad.... it makes you softer and happier and yet prepares you for anymore bad times can make you stronger withing yourself. Everyone be it male or female who comes into your life will change it .....experiences make you who you are... without them then you just would be .....boring
 
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