Goodbye Lil Mickey!

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Cheree

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My best friend and I were pregnant at the same time, and of course I was a few months more than her. Well I gave birth to this healthy beautiful little girl and my best friend would came and visit me almost everyday at the hospital and then later at home. She was always by my side. She loves my daughter and of course she couldn't wait for the birth of her son. We both made plans on outings we would have with our kids and how they were going to grow up really close because her first son and my second daughter are just three weeks apart. Those two are really close so naturally we imagine that her second son and my third daughter would be the same. Well now Mickey is here and unfortunately he was born a vegetable. He will never be able to do anything, Not walk or talk or even breathe for himself. :sosad Well to make matters now worse, I just received a call from my best friend that he is dying and my day today, a day before he turns a month. I’m so sad for her and yet I now sit here and look at my daughter and question why? Why do some people, good people with good hearts have to suffer this way! I know she loves my daughter but it’s going to be hard seeing her and bring my daughter to her. What am I going to do if she wants me to take my daughter over or she wants to baby sit the baby for a day? I know she wont hurt her but my god she’s losing her son. I don’t want any advice, I just needed to vent on this situation. She’s my best friend and I really love her, but it hurts so much seeing what she is going through. Life is just so unfair.
 
that is so unfortunate..many blessings
to her & her family, cheree. may god
bless the lil angel.
 
I'm sorry to hear that too Cheree. That is so sad. 🙁 God Bless his little heart.
 
OMG that is horrible, I am so sorry to hear about your friends pain it has to be so painfu for her. Why didn't the doctors catch this while he was still in the womb. It is so sad. I pray every night for the safe and healthy delivery of my son and I talk to him as well. I feel so sad now 🙁
 
wow stuff like this really gets u emotional :sosad im sorry about ur best friend cheree, i pray to god that right now she receives the strength and comfort that she needs for this tuff time shes goin thru i know that only god knows why he does this we may not know the reason why but this is his will and we must accept it
 
I am so sorry to hear that Cheree....I don't why horrible things like this happen to good people...it is very unfair. My thoughts are with you & your best friend.
 
angie...something like this gives anyone mixed feelings..worried feelings..when i
read this all i can think is of everyone right now who just had babies.and yourself who will see yr angel's face ya mismo, but maa, ya can't let these things stay on your mind, don't let them make you sad, because those
feelings go straight to yr lil one..all u should think right now is that everything will be fine & beautiful & full of love & happiness for his arrival!
 
Cheree may god bless that baby. And try to be strong. For your little one. I know it hurts. I don't know your friend or her baby and just because I'm a mom, I feel it.
 
Aye Heidee thank u ma,it s a scary thought that is why I am such a pain when I see the doctor and I pray to God to deliver my Tiny healthy and strong, reading this did make me cry and as I am typing this my Tiny is moving around. thanks again mama.
 
Sexyangel329 said:
OMG that is horrible, I am so sorry to hear about your friends pain it has to be so painfu for her. Why didn't the doctors catch this while he was still in the womb. It is so sad. I pray every night for the safe and healthy delivery of my son and I talk to him as well. I feel so sad now 🙁
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Angie when she was 5 months pregnant the doctors did find something. What happen was that when she was pregnant with her first son, they had told her that her son would be born sick because he had a small head. The kid is as healthy as hell. But with this baby, it had to do with his spine and they told her from the begining how he was going to be born (mentally retard and never being able to walk). But as a mother to be, she had hopes that they would be wrong just as they were with her first. But it didn't turn out that way, from the moment he was born (10/1/03) he couldn't breath on his own, he didn't know how to swollow. They diagnosis (sp) him with dandy walker and then they told her that he is a vegtable. Now today, they called her to tell her that he's been having cegers (sp) since last night. So they think he may not make it past today. She never believe in abortion, she was willing to accept him however he came because that is her son and she loves him. The hospital keep insisting on abortion but she didn't want to live with the thought what if they were wrong.

Your baby will be fine angie, I pray you have a quick and safe delivery!!!
 
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heidee14 said:
angie...something like this gives anyone mixed feelings..worried feelings..when i
read this all i can think is of everyone right now who just had babies.and yourself who will see yr angel's face ya mismo, but maa, ya can't let these things stay on your mind, don't let them make you sad, because those
feelings go straight to yr lil one..all u should think right now is that everything will be fine & beautiful & full of love & happiness for his arrival!
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heidee, I pmed angie telling her the same thing. she shouldn't have read this. it's very heartbreaking.
 
That is so sad and so unfair he didn't even get a chance. Your friend is truly a beautiful person for hanging on to that hope and having her baby no matter what. Her heart must be breaking and i am so sorry for what she s going through and for the chance hewasnt given 🙁
 
God Bless Mickey and his family....They're lucky to have caring friends like you
 
Lil Mickey Is In A Better Place Now....my Thoughts And PRAyers Are With Him And His Family..que Descanse En Paz
 
Sexyangel329 said:
That is so sad and so unfair he didn't even get a chance. Your friend is truly a beautiful person for hanging on to that hope and having her baby no matter what. Her heart must be breaking and i am so sorry for what she s going through and for the chance hewasnt given 🙁
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Yes she is a beautiful person inside and out. We all have been preparing her for the worst because eventually it will have to come whether now or later. Today she was suppose to speak with the hospital regarding taking him off the respirator and letting god take him before she got the call. So she too was prepare to let him go. Like she says, she prefers to have him with god then to keep him here and watch him suffer. And like I told her too, it's better that god takes him now than later because later too many people will suffer because we will all become attached. She will make it through, this is the worst part right now, the waiting and wanting it to be over with and at the same time not wanting to let go!
 
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