Going seperate ways

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For those of you who remember my situation and the last forums I posted about my baby's daddy. Well It turns out that we have come to a mutual agreement and we have decided to go seperate ways. I finally told him that we should not be together because , for one things have not been going so good between us and I am tired of playing wifey. He mentioned that he has also thought about this too. I know that he is and always will be a good father and who knows maybe one day we will marry but right now, I want to be single. So if I do decide to talk to my ex as friends then it will be ok.......

Do you think that I am wrong? Or does this seem like the thing to do?
 
sorry to hear that. if you are not happy together then seperating is best. maybe you can work things out with therapy. if not then live will go on. best of luck to you.
 
I think that if both of you agree on it then there is nothing wrong with it. At least ur doing it right and staying friends instead of mortal enemy. You have a child together so u have a whole life together regardless. Keep it as friends mama and good luck. Its hard work but it something that can be done. My exhusband and I are best friends now, we have three kids together and people are surprise when they see us together. Try to remember that there was somthing about him that at one point you loves so he cant be all that bad.
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You're tired of playing wifey??OMG- Where do I start????

I agree on what LMG said, yes good thing it was mutual agreement, BUT is it becuz You still have your ex in mind?
and if so** who's to say that u won't hook up w/ him???
what happend to tired of playing wifey??

I really do hope that things go well for you and your child- just remember to be civil as far as your child is concerned- we all have our moment's w/ the other parent is concerned. If things have not been so good- than if it has been like that for 6mo to a year or so...then I can understand you really need time and space. But since you've been open with us and told us of your ex and the fact you were talkin to him- and then your man gettng all upset over the phone calls- then I have no reason BUT to believe that you're only doing so for the EX- But u know it's my way of thinkin so don't base your decision on a stranger's words ok?
You're human you have needs and wants.

Be well and God Bless
 
I'm kind of in the same place with my girl. She seems to want to be single again and not feel tied down.

But we are both in our 30's and not getting any younger. I am ready to get settled, but only with someone that wants the same. I don't blame women but the messages that society sends them that it's okay to be without a male companion.

Career and a social life are pushed by our society as the 'ideal' states for womanhood as opposed to family life, loyal wife and strong motherhood. If children are involved, I think that it's better to make an effort to raise them together because that is the ideal environment unlike pop-culture would have us believe.

It's sad that women are disposing of men the way they do because of the feminist driven pop culture we live in. But who really wins? Looks like the guys can have their cake and eat it too. Women gets rid of him and dissolves his obligation to you, and his household. This social dysfunction is at the root of most of our problems these days. The lack of family structure and values.
 
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