I hate games and i need to vent right now. Why is it that you stay single and mind your own business and when you do decide to give someone your heart they turn out to be a combulsive liar. Everything they say is a lie. They pull disappearing acts and act like they are depressed and want to be alone. However I find out later, (while i am having a miscarriage from the jerk), he is f****** the next one in her apartment and tells me he has to dj in a club. He also tells the girl that he had not had sex in 6 months. I was going to have his child and I lost it because of all the stress I was put through during the relationship. I was having unprotected sex with him and so was every other woman, I am very thankful to the almighty God that I did not contract the monster becuase this man was out there, unprotected sex with everyone. He was just about using women for money and that is it. He is a grown man that has his cell cut off evry month because he is not secure in his life. Sorry for getting so personal but I had to let this out, I treated him so good I would bring him food at the station when he got out of the clubs and chill with him while he worked. I went all out when he did not even deserve a minute of my time. I guess the moral of this story is be cautious and do not overlook the early signs that show you that your mate is all about GAMES.
MyriamCruz1977
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NayNay,
No need to apologize. You have undergone an experience that so many of us have also experienced. I hope and pray you look at this as a lesson, something that will or has taught you something about yourself and others. God loves you no matter what baby, don't ignore his love!!!!
God is amazing mama, and I am grateful that you didn't get the "big monster".
I am sorry you have gone through this, but remember that ur not alone.
Feel free to vent whenever mama!!!
No need to apologize. You have undergone an experience that so many of us have also experienced. I hope and pray you look at this as a lesson, something that will or has taught you something about yourself and others. God loves you no matter what baby, don't ignore his love!!!!
God is amazing mama, and I am grateful that you didn't get the "big monster".
I am sorry you have gone through this, but remember that ur not alone.
Feel free to vent whenever mama!!!
Melly22
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naynay102 said:
girl i went thru the same thing but the only thing is im still pregnant but the positive thing is that he has stood out of my life untill recently its like he is trying to worm his way back in for some money im guessing :rolleyes ill say this to you keep your head up and dont let this guy get the best of you 🙂
Thank you I feel so much better now that I wrote this. I know God loves all of us and that is why we must always remember what ever we go through in life it's because God knows we can handle it. I do feel bad becuase I took situations into my own hands and went down to the club he was working at with a girl he cheated on me with. I drank a little too much and I smacked the shit out of him because he said I deserved it. The girl and I are cool, however in the midst of the fight he walks into the dj booth and I throw him with my apple martini and I ruin one of the promoters fur coats which cost me $311.75 to clean, and me being the responsible person that I am offered to pay her for the damages. It was the best money I ever spent in the relationship. It was also the first time I ever hit a man and threw them with a drink I guess he deserved it, not me.
Wow, Melly God bless you and the baby I wish you well and I know everything will work out. I wish I still had my baby.That was my second pregnancy and I feel so down about it. I even gave the fool my only sonogram picture and I wish I could get it back. Losing a child is very difficult especially when you were looking forward to having it. I named her Jada Lopez and I pray for her all the time.
pHiLLyGurL25
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Damn girl I feel for you ma & I also cannot stand men who play some childish corny games. Ughhhh that shyt pisses me off just thinkin about it
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females play games to . not all men are the same .
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yeah and the females end up stayin with the playa i must be missin something oh well just so they dont come cryin to me .
I know they are not all the same. but if you are going to play games, play them right. don't get caught dead in your tracks, because hurting people is a horrible thing to do, especially when you go out of your way to make the other person happy. I guess the moral is get to know the person really well before you extend your trust. and don't lie like you are trying to build a future and a family when in turn you are sleeping with everyone and their mother without protection.JOEDOCPA said:
Melly22
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naynay102 said:
thanks girl i feel for you so bad and i hope things will look up in the future for you :angel
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heres another example nice guys like joe and myself cant get a break when it comes to women but some ahole who treats women badly gets gets the chances probly he showed cash a smooth talker and real slick looking. what is it that we are doing wrong can someone explain this
Actually he was a smooth talker. He tells you everything that you want to hear and since you as a female think to your self wow he is sweet and so what if he is not that cute, he makes me laugh and he seems honest. That is the catch he seems honest but really he was saying the same exact thing to all the girls and him being a dj helps because they think he is worth something, but lo and behold you are about to be taken for the ride of your life because the man is always broke, lives with momma dukes, and has issue about everything, and at close to fourty if you have not made anything of your self by now guess what i don't think he is going to make it. So don't think you are doing anything wrong because he gets caught and ends up looking real stupid and in turn that gets around and your reputation get messd up. So stay sweet and be honest and she will come along and it is not about looks it is about how you guys click in the long run... i thought we clicked but he was just a very good at the GAME. He is known for using woman for cash or their apartments and that is why he will never have anything of his own because all his energy is focussed on negative bad things and don't think he only uses woman, he does it to everybody friends, promoters he just got fired from where he was working for pulling the same thing on a promoter. I always said God does not like ugly, when you do ugly, you get ugly 10x worse.Edalgiere said:
Yes I know. But it almost happened its really crazy how the truth came out right before I moved into my new place. I was in this relationship totally blinded thinking wow I am so happy, and really everyone Who knew him was probably saying, poor girl she is the next victim. His mother was so disappointed because she knew he found a good woman in me and he messed up, or maybe she just wanted to get him out of the house. LOLOLOLOLaim4night said:
Girl I did take a break. B4 I got with this fool I was single since Sept 2001, that is when I broke up with my daughter's father and I decided to stay single. When this happened I took it as a learning experience. He made it seem like he was with his mom helping her out but it was his mom who was helping him out, but I have been single since we broke up, and now I will be more cautious and look out for all of the signs of a loser. What is funny about this is that if he would not have been the loser that he is, I was going to overlook the not having steady income, I was going to hold him down until he got his life together, I was really a supportive woman, I even enrolled him in school, to go to college and get his GED becuase I thought his self confidence was low because he was not educated, I was overlooking the important things because I was blinded by the GAMES. He bragged to the world about how great I was and how we were getting married and one day without me wanting, I find out all this crazy information, and I make my move, but it was hard becuase I did not want to believe the truth, they say us women have a sixth sense called intuition and if you feel something it's because it is, so don't deny what your feeling because your heart never lies to you. I will follow what I feel from this experience forward.aim4night said: