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She wanted to thank you all for coming up with some great names for her baby... unfortunately..at her appointment yesterday she found out that the baby's heartbeat was no longer beating, for approximetly three weeks already. she was devastated and so was I because she was so happy and we were going through this together.

in her words.. "Please tell your friends on that website, that I said thank you for helping me come up with names for the baby"


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OMG thats horrible how didnt she notice somethign was wrong I know my ass was paranoid when I was pregnant I would check move jump if I aint feel Tavian OMG I feel so bad for her dito 🙁
 
I am so sorry to hear that. I completely understand how she must be feeling now. I hope she still decides to name her baby, that helps so much, there's a few things she can do that helps. Just let her know you're sorry and watch what you say. Some things that sound understanding or helpful don't. How many people told me that "God wanted it this way" or "it's what's for the best." If she becomes uncomfortable around you, don't take it personally. At first it was really hard for me to be around pregnant women. It was partially a reminder of what I had lost and an uncontrollable need to protect them. I researched every aspect of what couldv'e gone wrong. I can still spit out an amazing amount of statistics and knowledge on this. I think she should be comfortable with you, because you seem like a very empathetic person.
If she needs someone who can relate, please feel free to give my yahoo id. It's for both my messenger and my e-mail(dianalaura5@yahoo.com), though my messenger is hardly on. I remember I had no one who understood what I was going though, and I wasn't one to go to group therapy. They say that people who are experiencing grief are sometimes diagnosed with other mental illnesses so I was afraid I'd be locked up. I got so incredibly depressed. Things might get harder for her in a few weeks after the shock has worn off, then she'll really need her friends. I lost a few friends then because they didn't know what to say to me, so they were more comfortable just staying away. All a friend needs to do is listen and to be there. Sometimes the best words are the ones not spoken.
 
OMG I am so sorry to hear of the news...please relay to her my condolences! God Bless her and her family!
 
Definitely sad news.. my prayers go out to her and her family.
 
OMG that's awful and i am sooo sorry to hear that....my prayers go out to her and her family :sosad
 
Wow this made me cry. What a shame so disappointing to hear. :sosad
 
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