For Ladies Only!!!

[ninadodat]

HOW MANY LADIES OUT THERE ARE SECURE IN THEIR SPOT TO DATE OR REMAIN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A DJ OR AN ARTIST?
(you don't have to reveal names)

IF YOU GUYS ARE STILL TOGETHER TODAY WE WANT TO HEAR THE RECIPE FOR YOUR SUCCESS.

IF IT FAILED, TELL US WHY?

 

[marlene]

i used to be real secure in my relationship with him.

the secret: spend as much time as you can afford to. if too much time goes by, sacrifice to make time to see each other. put each other in the mix. if you have a performance or show to do, let them be involved in any way. hahaha and always tell the one ur with that they're better than all dem sexy groupy guys/hoochie groupy girls that jock them...LOL! don't give the one your with a reason to get jealous, cuz i think they get more jealous/insecure because they have fans.

well my relationship failed because of a couple of reasons:
couldn't spend enough time with him, work and relationship priorities were off balance (spent more time with work and none with me), and he didn't want to help calm down my insecurities, which made me even more insecure and i eventually left him. which is all really lame...but anyways.🙄

 

[Sexyangel329]

WELL I PERSONALLY HAVE NOT DATED ANYONE IN THE INDUSTRY AS FAR AS AN ARTIST OR DJ, BUT IF THE TIME CAME I WOULD HAVE TO SAY THAT IF I GOT INVOLVED WITH THEM KNOWING WHO THEY WERE AND WHAT THEY DID I WOULD HAVE TO BE A VERY SECURE WOMAN AND PERSONALLY I AM A VERY SECURE WOMAN, BUT KNOWING WHAT AND WHOM I WAS INVOLVING MYSELF WITH I WOULD HAVE TO TRUST THEM, KNOW THAT THAT IS THE BUSINESS THAT THERE IN AND YEAH THEY GOT TO SHOW LOVE TO THERE FANS BE IT FEMALES ETC. AS LONG AS I KNOW THE LOVE IS FOR ME AND COMING HOME TO ME THERE ISNT ANYTHING FOR ME TO DOUBT. IF I STEPPED INTO THE RELATIONSHIP I KNEW HOW THINGS WOULD BE AND IF I THOUGHT I COULD HANDLE IT THEN, THEN I HAVE NOTHING TO QUESTION. IT TAKES A REAL SECURE WOMAN UNDERSTANDING WOMAN TO GET INVOLVED WITH AN ARTIST DJ WHOMEVER IT MAYBE IN THE INDUSTRY I GIVE MUCH PROPS TO THE WOMAN HOLDING THERE MEN DOWN, BECAUSE I KKNOW SHIT CAN GET THICK REGARDLESS OF HOW SECURE A WOMAN IS WITH HERS. ME PERSONALLY IM SECURE WITH ME AND MINES BUT I DONT KNOW IF I COULD HANDLE ALL THAT I WOULD HAVE TO REALLY THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE I PUT MYSELF OUT THERE. LIKE I SAID MUCH PROPS TO THE LADIES AND WIVES OF THESE MEN 🙂

 

[Martini]

i would go for it. if i feel that he's abusing my love, then i'm out! he's no different than any other man who is not in the industry. what kind of relationship is it if u have a fear that the other person may cheat? that's always a recipe for failure. if i was really feelin him, and felt that there was some kind of potential, i would go with it and not let his career get in the way. and hey, who's to say he doesnt have any fears when i'm in the club with my girls? u know? eventhough the opportunities for him to stray are greater since he's always on the scene and cuz of who he is, he could just as well cheat in the supermarket. lol... 😉

 

[ninadodat]

I'M FEELING WHAT ALL OF YOU ARE SAYING SO FAR....PERSONALLY I'VE BEEN WITH A DJ FOR 6 YEARS....YEAH I DID NOT STUTTER..

IT HAS NOT BEEN SO DIFFICULT BECAUSE WE HAVE NO SECRETS BETWEEN US AND COMMUNICATION IS OF MOST IMPORTANCE.

I GO JUST ABOUT EVERYWHERE WITH HIM AND NEVER HAD AN INCIDENT BECAUSE HE AVOIDS THE TRAPS SET UP BY WOMEN (TRUST ME I KNOW) SO THANKS FOR THE PROPS....I JUST WANTED TO HEAR OTHER PEOPLE'S VIEWS.