Well you have not ment the right girls then ... Sorry to say we are not all like that .... I know alot of nice girls and am one of them ...
But you have to not just give your self to any girls also some time you have to put your foot down so they know you for real ....
For me I know my man when he put his foot down come on he lets me do just about everything but some time you need your man to let you know he watchin what is his you feel me .