Fake Friends ~ Let's See Who You Having Left Standing By Your Side!

[Company B]

I'm the same. I don't trust anyone.
But it is sad, enraging, & sometimes heartbreaking, when u find out someone you truly thought high of, turns out to be phony or acts shady towards you.

LOL- I also thought of Jody Watley Tank! (That is actually one of my fav songs by her).
It's soo truee.

God knows I've had my share of backstabbing so-called phony-azz friends, but in the end, ...the ones who are true, are the ones that are always there ...FOR ANYTHING.
My parents would always tell me "friends are just a dollar in the pocket," or, "You are lucky if you end up with at least ONE true friend in life".
Well I must say I feel blessed to have have a handful of TRUE friends who have been with me through everything since childhood, (even have fought with them), & we still remain tighter than ever, & nothing, or no one, can come for our bonds.

Tank, I may be late, but If this is really bugging you, & you truly feel like confronting this person & getting it off your chest, then do so.

If it's not that serious, then just erase them out da picture, & move on.

If it's worth whoppin' their azz, ...then do so - (LOL!)
🙂

 

[Brklyn345]

Most ppl trust others because they think they wont get down dirty (wrong) by that person... ME on da other hand, dont trust n e one until they give me a reason to trust them. Just thought i'd throw my 2 cents in. :walk

I'm just the opposite, diamond...I've always been one to give people the benefit of the doubt, even if people say bad stuff about someone, I'd rather have my own opinion of him/her..speaking of which, my backstabbing friend who I mentioned earlier in the thread wants to make amends..he apologized and admitted he was wrong and admitted his motives for betraying me....straight up jealousy. This is a man who rarely admits when he's wrong, and when he does, he always twists the situation around so that way he looks like the victim. But now that some sort of closure has been brought to the issue, do I forgive? Can 3 years really change a person? Should I play dumb and test him to see if he has a hidden M.O. or just walk away? :confused

 

[JOEDOCPA]

i dont trust anybody they have to give me a good reason for me to trust them .

 

[DiaMoND_GiRL]

personally i cant forgive someone who has stabbed me in the back. Stuff like dat stays in da back of my mind. if he did it to u once... do u believe he wont do it to u again? if u do decide to talk to him again... let him earn ur trust, dont just give it to him.

 

[Brklyn345]

I won't just give my trust to him, DG...my grandmother outed me when I was 16 after I trusted her to let me come out on my own...but I forgave her because there was no malicious intent behind it...she just got drunk and it came out when she was venting to some long time friends...but it took me years to completely forgive her and even now, I still have trouble confiding in her...but a way to find out if my ex-friend is REALLY sincere just presented itself, so I'll know 4 sure