They say to always be the better person and tell your partner that you are sorry though it wasn't your fault. But is this correct or you just want to get the fight over with? The past relationships i have been have taught me alot. The showed me not to take love for granted just cause you think it will always be there. Feelings you hurt is the worst come back dont hurt others just cause you have been hurt in the past, yeah you cant trust but that's when you take it slow not fast cause you move to fast you'll get hurt.. It's like exercising you move too fast you pull a muscle or break something and then you can't move on cause of the pain you feel.
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Ummm... I disagree
Let me give you my disclaimer... I am divorced twice which means that whatever crap I advise you on is absolutely guareented to be wrong. Assuming you are cool with that here goes...
One thing I believe and have found to be true that nobody wants to placated. That will just piss him/her off more. If you care enough about this person to have even a friendship then when "shit" happens you should give them the respect of your full attention.
A shortcut like just apologizing so he/she leaves you alone may be cool for a few days/hours but it doesn't resolve the original reason for the argument.
Most of this is simple common sense and things I absolutely failed to do time and time again. Of course if you believe the saying money can fix anything then jewelry or cars are always a good start to a meaningful and honest romantic relationship. Well... at least until your broke!!!
:angel
hear say said:
Let me give you my disclaimer... I am divorced twice which means that whatever crap I advise you on is absolutely guareented to be wrong. Assuming you are cool with that here goes...
One thing I believe and have found to be true that nobody wants to placated. That will just piss him/her off more. If you care enough about this person to have even a friendship then when "shit" happens you should give them the respect of your full attention.
A shortcut like just apologizing so he/she leaves you alone may be cool for a few days/hours but it doesn't resolve the original reason for the argument.
Most of this is simple common sense and things I absolutely failed to do time and time again. Of course if you believe the saying money can fix anything then jewelry or cars are always a good start to a meaningful and honest romantic relationship. Well... at least until your broke!!!
:angel