Ever just wish you were someone else???

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Sexyangel329 said:
There is no reason to ever wish you were someone else. Why dont you trying doing different things with your man, do somethign he wouldnt expect plan a romantic night in our out dont think you haev to change yourself just try different things we all tend to become boring when we stick to the same routine shit i have no social life lol but there aint nothign worng with me lol. Dont say things are doom you control your outcome and if you feed negativity into it then you make it happen. Think positive 🙂
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I would have to agree with you girl do try something different if there is something still there then work at it if it's worth it. don't quit.. give it a chance. good luck...girly...
 
imfromqueenz said:
*refills Dianita's tank*
"this one's on the house"
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Thanks. I really needed that......:sunshine
 
Sexyangel329 said:
There is no reason to ever wish you were someone else. Why dont you trying doing different things with your man, do somethign he wouldnt expect plan a romantic night in our out dont think you haev to change yourself just try different things we all tend to become boring when we stick to the same routine shit i have no social life lol but there aint nothign worng with me lol. Dont say things are doom you control your outcome and if you feed negativity into it then you make it happen. Think positive 🙂
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Adriana said:
I would have to agree with you girl do try something different if there is something still there then work at it if it's worth it. don't quit.. give it a chance. good luck...girly...
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Thanks ladies, I wish it were something as easy as that. I actually had a thread on this before, Doomed relationships. Next year he plans on going back to Ecuador. He came here when his son's mama was pregnant, so he never had a chance to meet his son. At the time he and his baby's mama were still a couple, but through the years have grown apart. Well she's real unhappy we've gotten so serious and uses their son to try to separate us. There are periods of time when she won't let them talk and she says it's because of me. Lately though, she started playing another card...reminding him of this great love they once shared. He was already considering getting back with her to make their son happy, and now she's doing the 'I still love you and have been waiting for you all this time' thing and 'if you reject me, you're rejecting our son'. How am I supposed to compete with that? Should I even? Sometimes I think I should just renunciar este amor que siento and let him go. I mean if he has a chance to give his son a family, I shouldn't screw that up....There's a child involved, and even though I love him, I'm sure I'd eventually move on...Am I making any sense???
 
Mam you can not jus tsit and wait for him to get up and leave you need to let him know ask him up front what the deal is that if there is any chance of him returning to this woman for whatever reason then you are entitled to know rather then hang on waiting to see. If he returns to this woman you get hurt and have to get yourself through that but you cant just sit there and wait for the worse to happen. Believe me I have learned and am slowly learning that love isnt everything if you arent getting teh same stability in return then it might all be one sided. Dedicate your time to something its not healthy to sit and ponder what will happen you cant rely on him to give you answers or pave the way for you yuogot to step up and amke some choices for yourself I say this because it is what I myself am doing alnd although its hard you ahev to look at the big picture.
 
Sexyangel329 said:
Mam you can not jus tsit and wait for him to get up and leave you need to let him know ask him up front what the deal is that if there is any chance of him returning to this woman for whatever reason then you are entitled to know rather then hang on waiting to see. If he returns to this woman you get hurt and have to get yourself through that but you cant just sit there and wait for the worse to happen. Believe me I have learned and am slowly learning that love isnt everything if you arent getting teh same stability in return then it might all be one sided. Dedicate your time to something its not healthy to sit and ponder what will happen you cant rely on him to give you answers or pave the way for you yuogot to step up and amke some choices for yourself I say this because it is what I myself am doing alnd although its hard you ahev to look at the big picture.
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Yeah, I totally get what you're saying and am starting to think you're right. It's so hard trying to figure out what the right thing is. My daughter totally adores him, so that makes it so much harder. I think maybe if he leaves to go be with his son, it wouldn't be so bad, but if he's still around and we bump into him, I think she'd feel alot more abandoned. I don't know.....If anything else, we're together, and we're taking advantage of the time we spend together and are taking things as they come. Though at times, I do think it's not healthy. I've basically stopped hoping and dreaming for the future. I've lost too much in my life and can't let myself start hoping for something that may never be. We've talked about it, and I suggested splitting up and he insists that he doesn't want to lose me.
 
have you ever thought of buying

tic tacs lloll. im telling when ever i have a tuff day in the limo. and stop and buy two tic tacs. 50 cents . and 50 cents.

something about them. and your problems go away lloll.

well you know dianita. ive talked to you a few times. and i found you to be interesting. you know about long island. and you know fishing. but what your going through is something

alot of women go through. and that is they get booring. women do have a tendacy. to not be very interesting people.

sorry?

once you get passed the sex part. lloll and the company part. theres really not alot of intellect there.

it sounds to me like theres something bothering this dood. and alot of times. when theres something bothering a man. usually something in the world?

work money etc,.

he takes it out on the woman. why cuase she can sometimes be like an emotional leach.

and so he'll lash out at her. cuase you might be part of the problem not part of the solution.

so i'd say. cuase you look like you were doing ok 6 months ago. so i'd say .

find out what in the world gots him. angry.

I dont think its you. i think this dood is angry about something. and when a relationship. cuase you were doing ok far as i can tell 6 months ago.

when a relationship turns this bad this fast. on the male side. usually money or work is behind it.

i smell something is wrong with his job. or the money flow.

and help him fix it.
 
if you were the problem diane. he would of left you long time ago. i smell money or work?

i know that if a chick is the problem ill leave her in hours. but if its money or work. ill leave her over time?

dont know if that makes any sense. llloll. but i dont think your the problem.

i smell money. and def smelll work ??
 
i found diane to be pretty inetersting. when i talked to her. and for anyone to get interesting from me. not easy at all.

and i think she was very interesting. i liked talking to her in fact i dont any woman who talk about fishing in long island. or fishing period. i dont think your booring diane.
 
Wow...a compliment from rbonuc...?? Anyway I'm gonna it a try a while longer, yeah, I'll be upset if it doesn't work out, heck, don't even have much hope it will. I think now the main problem is that he is confused and doesn't know what he wants, and if this is all so hard, maybe it's just not meant to be. I don't think I should have to change my personality for anyone...I'm not hurting anyone, so if he has a problem with me, then maybe it's just not meant to be. But also if he has such a big problem, why does he stay. Though actually after we fought, he has left twice and always came back the next day. But if in the end, it doesn't work out I really think he'll be missing out...not to sound conceited or anything.
 
well you know these days men go through alot of problems phsychologiccally. with what they want and dont want. and they make bad decisions. with going out with people. and they set up relatioships with people that sometimes dont work out. thats why when i go out with people i make sure its people that i like and that are gonna like me.

for a long time. theres 1000's of girls i could of gone out with over the years. but i know that alot of those people we were not gonna like each other. etc,.

and then another problem is that people today are never satisfied with anything. like this guy he looks like he has a pretty good deal with you. but he prob thinks he deserves better.

people are like that these days. they ll think they can do better. and should be better. or doing something better. or should be some place better. etc,.

when they dont realize. that this maybe as good as it gets. so thats something that comes through maturity.

but thats a real big time Disease i'd say at this point that our generation suffers from. and that is this notion or this idea. that soemthing is waiting for them better around the corner. with some one else. some place else etc,.

and its really 90 percent of the time a fantasy. if you are were you are theres a reason cause your not good enuff to be anywhere else llloll.
 
well i tell you what dianita ill be looking for a girl freind slash benefits buddy llloll. sometime between dec and jan. dec cuase the holidays are coming. and then after that. i wanna pay off my car first. which is like a thron on my side. never ending one lloll.

then start looking for female around feb 15 or so. but this time i want a quiet one. she's gonna be restricted to

150 to 200 words per day. 300 tops. this time no chatter boxes. there's alot of quiet in my life and not only id like to keep it that way i am gonna keep it that way. lloll. kids are ok ?? belive it or not. but this time i want someone quiet llloll.


shes gotta to be able to spend the nite. and pay for some of my meals. and she's gotta dance. and shes gotta have no freinds 3 tops . gotta have a car something like that. for late winter.

so there you go update your resume.


cuase ill be reviewing women in 4 months llloll.
 
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