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that's so wrong he has no respect 4 her i belive men can make mistakes and change but you have to teach them a lesson, my husband was abusive when we 1st got married you let them do it once then for any little thing they want to be wiping thier hands on you i put up with that shit for 3 yrs till the last time he hit me he really beat the s@#t of out me that's when i literally got sense knocked into me i left for almost 5 mo. he went to counseling and thank god to this day (knocks on wood) he never has put a finger on me or said anything abusive to me again. i told him if you was to ever lay a finger on me again god himself will have to come down to save the marriage this time. also i HAD a friend real pretty girl she was in the paper it'll be a year next month her boyfriend killed her when she tried to break up with him for being abusive she was'nt so lucky so she should think about it.
LilMsBoop said:
Well let me tell you man what happened.

last week. My mother went away to PR so yea party, well my friend was here chillen with her man and things got way out of hand. Well her man is younger than her he just turned 18 and she is about toi be 20, well he plays these stupid games to get her mad like talk to girls in front of her and that night he was talken to his brother on the phone when all of a sudden she heard him say well Ill see you at 11 30 nikki just relax. So ya know the drill, the questions come whose nikki he didnt answer so she got mad and smaked the shit out of him while taking his phone and walken out to the balcony. i ran out there to calm her down when all of a suddden he goes out there provoking her and telling her he dares her to breazk his phone and like many PR woman she was tested so she through it and it broke open but he fixed and I brought her back inside and once again she asks me did I break his phone and he says no you didnt so she went out there and all of a sudden we saw him choking her and about to throw a fist to her so my hubby had to hold him back with his friends and escort him out of the area while I was trying to hold her back from throwing punches as well it was crazy.

SO after all; that she tells me that she cant be with him and if she takes him back shell be a sucker so Im like wow man that was crazy and all this other shit, I told her abo ut a friend of mine and they been emailen each other for about a week and she told me to give him her cell number so I did.
Why she got back with him and all this other junkl and then she told him about the friend that be emailen him and how I introduced them and she told the truth about things you know I felt she shouldn've told him about anything..

Today my friend called her cell and her man picked up they exchanged words and then he calls my phoine asking me why I gave him her number and all this other shit so I told him dont ask me ask your girl and dont call my phone no more and then he was like I thought you would understan d what happened and Im like put your girl on and he hung up on me,
 
when he's doing that she must make him feel jealous or get rid of him both solutions work good
 
BoricuaPrincess said:
that's so wrong he has no respect 4 her i belive men can make mistakes and change but you have to teach them a lesson, my husband was abusive when we 1st got married you let them do it once then for any little thing they want to be wiping thier hands on you i put up with that shit for 3 yrs till the last time he hit me he really beat the s@#t of out me that's when i literally got sense knocked into me i left for almost 5 mo. he went to counseling and thank god to this day (knocks on wood) he never has put a finger on me or said anything abusive to me again. i told him if you was to ever lay a finger on me again god himself will have to come down to save the marriage this time. also i HAD a friend real pretty girl she was in the paper it'll be a year next month her boyfriend killed her when she tried to break up with him for being abusive she was'nt so lucky so she should think about it.
I'm sorry but he was in no way being abusive to her. She was the one. She's the one that broke the phone, she's the one that hit him. And in the real world she would of been locked up not him.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Gina I'm still wondering if Anyssa was with me in my house that weekend or not??????? :sadsmile

She better have been for all their sakes!!!

DON'T THEY KNOW WHO THIS CHILD'S GRANDMOTHER IS?????
 
latinocop said:
I'm sorry but he was in no way being abusive to her. She was the one. She's the one that broke the phone, she's the one that hit him. And in the real world she would of been locked up not him.

I have to agree with Latino on this one.
 
hitman6749 said:
take it from me the one that goes to jail would be the one with the most marks on the body period -------------------------dont ask how i know i just do ---------and no i wasnt a victim or a perp fiqure it out
Actually that's wrong. When it comes to domestic violence it's the one who started it all. Not the one who throws the first punch. How do I know because that's how the law is. I deal with it all the time.
 
nope the one who started it does not matter because the crime is actually the act of commision not what started it .the one who started the argument does not count and you would be hard pressed to prove who threw the first punch,the marks on the body will determine the agresor now if there are no marks and no witnesses than you ethier have a cross complaint or mutal combatant new york state law states that domestic violence is a must arrest situation well that is only when you can prove the agresor not who threw the first punch because if you arrest some one who needed medical attention and the other person did not that would look bad in court and you will open yourself up to a law suit so in this case the agressor was the boyfriend he was choking her and if she had marks on her neck than he would take a ride if they both had marks than both of them would ride simple take it from me i have been the law in two states i have done this awile and you canot trust the would of two lovers fighting the only thing you can trust is the marks on the body. and if you want to get tecnical there defense wounds but one would know that right off the bat
 
Actually you're wrong. The aggresor is the one who gets charged when it comes to domestic violence. And you don't go by injuries. That is why cops do investigations.

And domestic violence is not a must arrest. It all depends on injuries. Injuries has to be serious. A verbal argument is technically domestic violence.

Betty this is NYS Law.
 
latinocop said:
Actually you're wrong. The aggresor is the one who gets charged when it comes to domestic violence. And you don't go by injuries. That is why cops do investigations.

And domestic violence is not a must arrest. It all depends on injuries. Injuries has to be serious. A verbal argument is technically domestic violence.

Betty this is NYS Law.
ok take another look at the penal law and get back to me bud cause im not wrong and as for the aggresor i did not say he does not get charged its a must arrest when the injuies indicate. take a look at what i am saying than make a proper response
 
Domestic violence is not stated in the penal law. The penal law just states about assault. Domestic violence is under a separate rules not a law. And once I come off vacation and get the rules verbatim. And trust me I know my shit. Been doing this for too many years and lots of D.V. under my belt.
 
§ 120.00 Assault in the third degree.
A person is guilty of assault in the third degree when:
1. With intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes
such injury to such person or to a third person; or
2. He recklessly causes physical injury to another person; or
3. With criminal negligence, he causes physical injury to another
person by means of a deadly weapon or a dangerous instrument.


§ 120.05 Assault in the second degree.
A person is guilty of assault in the second degree when:
1. With intent to cause serious physical injury to another person, he
causes such injury to such person or to a third person; or
2. With intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes
such injury to such person or to a third person by means of a deadly
weapon or a dangerous instrument; or
3. With intent to prevent a peace officer, police officer, a fireman,
including a fireman acting as a paramedic or emergency medical
technician administering first aid in the course of performance of duty
as such fireman, an emergency medical service paramedic or emergency
medical service technician, or medical or related personnel in a
hospital emergency department, from performing a lawful duty, by means
including releasing or failing to control an animal under circumstances
evincing the actor's intent that the animal obstruct the lawful activity
of such peace officer, police officer, fireman, paramedic or technician,
he causes physical injury to such peace officer, police officer,
fireman, paramedic, technician or medical or related personnel in a
hospital emergency department; or
4. He recklessly causes serious physical injury to another person by
means of a deadly weapon or a dangerous instrument; or
5. For a purpose other than lawful medical or therapeutic treatment,
he intentionally causes stupor, unconsciousness or other physical
impairment or injury to another person by administering to him, without
his consent, a drug, substance or preparation capable of producing the
same; or
6. In the course of and in furtherance of the commission or attempted
commission of a felony, other than a felony defined in article one
hundred thirty which requires corroboration for conviction, or of
immediate flight therefrom, he, or another participant if there be any,
causes physical injury to a person other than one of the participants;
or
7. Having been charged with or convicted of a crime and while confined
in a correctional facility, as defined in subdivision three of section
forty of the correction law, pursuant to such charge or conviction, with
intent to cause physical injury to another person, he causes such injury
to such person or to a third person; or
8. Being eighteen years old or more and with intent to cause physical
injury to a person less than eleven years old, the defendant recklessly
causes serious physical injury to such person; or
9. Being eighteen years old or more and with intent to cause physical
injury to a person less than seven years old, the defendant causes such
injury to such person; or
10. Acting at a place the person knows, or reasonably should know, is
on school grounds and with intent to cause physical injury, he or she:
(a) causes such injury to an employee of a school or public school
district; or
(b) not being a student of such school or public school district,
causes physical injury to another, and such other person is a student of
such school who is attending or present for educational purposes. For
purposes of this subdivision the term "school grounds" shall have the
meaning set forth in subdivision fourteen of section 220.00 of this
chapter.
11. With intent to cause physical injury to a train operator, ticket
inspector, conductor, bus operator or station agent employed by any
transit agency, authority or company, public or private, whose operation
is authorized by New York state or any of its political subdivisions, he
or she causes physical injury to such train operator, ticket inspector,
conductor, bus operator or station agent while such employee is performing an assigned duty on, or directly related to, the operation of a train or bus.
 
§ 120.10 Assault in the first degree.
A person is guilty of assault in the first degree when:
1. With intent to cause serious physical injury to another person, he
causes such injury to such person or to a third person by means of a
deadly weapon or a dangerous instrument; or
2. With intent to disfigure another person seriously and permanently,
or to destroy, amputate or disable permanently a member or organ of his
body, he causes such injury to such person or to a third person; or
3. Under circumstances evincing a depraved indifference to human life,
he recklessly engages in conduct which creates a grave risk of death to
another person, and thereby causes serious physical injury to another
person; or
4. In the course of and in furtherance of the commission or attempted
commission of a felony or of immediate flight therefrom, he, or another
participant if there be any, causes serious physical injury to a person
other than one of the participants.

9. "Physical injury" means impairment of physical condition or
substantial pain.
10. "Serious physical injury" means physical injury which creates a
substantial risk of death, or which causes death or serious and
protracted disfigurement, protracted impairment of health or protracted
loss or impairment of the function of any bodily organ.
11. "Deadly physical force" means physical force which, under the
circumstances in which it is used, is readily capable of causing death
or other serious physical injury.
 
Soory but no where in the "PENAL LAW" which you stated says anything about Domestic Violence.

Once I get back to work. I'll shall bring in the rules on Domestic Violence. Which is alot different than what the layman thinks. Just like every law.
 
Geez! The drama up in here! :lol

LatinoCop...thank you for the info.

Hitman...he's an officer of the law so while I'm not doubting what you say...I think he has to be right in some aspect.

Can we just agree to disagree on this one?
 
well some of us dont like to tell people what we do but bad info is bad info i will leave it at that. there are members here that know what i do so its ok just a friendly disagrement hope to meet him at my party may 14 800 pm
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