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FREESTYLE??? WHAT FREESTYLE???
HOW MANY OF YOU STILLL GET DRAMA FROM YOUR EX...OR THEIR NEW BOY/GIRL FRIEND???

OMG....I HAVE 3 STILL UNDER MY BELT!!! SO I'M GLAD THAT I DON'T LIVE IN TEXAS ANYMORE!!!!! I MEAN THESE GIRLS ARE LIKE 18!!! THEY NEED TO GET A LIFE!!!!! I MEAN IF I WANTED MY EX BACK, THAN TRUST ME, I WOULD HAVE THEM!!!!!! I SWEAR ALL 3 OF THEM ARE SO:lame!!!!!!

SO DO YOU HAVE ANY DRAMA???????
 
After every break up I acquaint my ex and their new men with my neck breaking chancery hold. I use it on a 2x4 infront of them. Then they know they better bring gun to my house if they want mess with me. If they do I call Latino cop on them 🙂
 
Me and my ex still bicker from time to time but I never let it go as far as drama. We concentrate on what holds our relationship together,our children.
 
yeah i still have drama from my ex. some girls he was "messing" around with while we were together still call me. and they live in tampa and orlando (i have no idea what he was doing) and i stay in miami... kinda funny. cuz they think they bothering me... they're not. :spliff
 
First of all, NO drama here!

Second of all, Ex's are not supposed to be so important to talk about them anymore. Especially if you DON'T have kids with them.

Third of all, those girls that are like 18 are all chickenheads that got your "left overs". 😉
 
Unfortunately, I still get drama from my ex, but it's getting better. It just really gets to me because he makes my daughter feel bad just to get to me. You know not calling or showing up when he's supposed to, and then she feels like crap. When I tell him off, he tells me it's my fault because I didn't want to be with him. Maybe oneday he'll learn not to bring her into everything. OMG, maldito desgraciado! He knows that's the thing that bothers me most is for my daughter to get hurt. When he acts like this it makes me feel so stupid for actually having loved him once. I actually had to sit my daughter down and explain to her that it's not her fault. She thinks her daddy doesn't want to see her because she's bad. At least he's not following my boyfriend or me around and trying to run us off the road or destroying our car...Sorry for griping y'all, I just don't know what to tell my baby when her daddy doesn't return any of her calls.
 
Dianita said:
Unfortunately, I still get drama from my ex, but it's getting better. It just really gets to me because he makes my daughter feel bad just to get to me. You know not calling or showing up when he's supposed to, and then she feels like crap. When I tell him off, he tells me it's my fault because I didn't want to be with him. Maybe oneday he'll learn not to bring her into everything. OMG, maldito desgraciado! He knows that's the thing that bothers me most is for my daughter to get hurt. When he acts like this it makes me feel so stupid for actually having loved him once. I actually had to sit my daughter down and explain to her that it's not her fault. She thinks her daddy doesn't want to see her because she's bad. At least he's not following my boyfriend or me around and trying to run us off the road or destroying our car...Sorry for griping y'all, I just don't know what to tell my baby when her daddy doesn't return any of her calls.
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AWWW...THAT IS SO SAD DIANITA🙁 POOR BABY GIRL.....I HOPE HE REALIZES REAL SOON HOW MUCH HE IS HURTING HER....BEFORE SHE GROWS UP NOT CARING TO TALK OR SEE HIM ANYMORE.
 
Dianita said:
Unfortunately, I still get drama from my ex, but it's getting better. It just really gets to me because he makes my daughter feel bad just to get to me. You know not calling or showing up when he's supposed to, and then she feels like crap. When I tell him off, he tells me it's my fault because I didn't want to be with him. Maybe oneday he'll learn not to bring her into everything. OMG, maldito desgraciado! He knows that's the thing that bothers me most is for my daughter to get hurt. When he acts like this it makes me feel so stupid for actually having loved him once. I actually had to sit my daughter down and explain to her that it's not her fault. She thinks her daddy doesn't want to see her because she's bad. At least he's not following my boyfriend or me around and trying to run us off the road or destroying our car...Sorry for griping y'all, I just don't know what to tell my baby when her daddy doesn't return any of her calls.
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Well your ex obviously doesn't give a sh*t about his daughter if he uses her to TRY and hurt you. I would take his a$$ to court for "mentally harrassing" my daughter and prohibit him from seeing his daughter at all. He doesn't deserve visitation rights.
 
LaBetty, you are so right. He doesn't deserve to see her. I'm leaving that up to her though. When he wants to take her out, if she wants to go, she'll go. If she doesn't want to she'll tell him that she's not feeling good. But what I think is going to happen is just as sweetheart said, she's going to grow up and not want anything to do with him. It's really sad because he has a big family and they didn't see her too often before. Now they act like she doesn't exist. Even her own grandmother hasn't tried to contact her since I booted him out. She was so proud too because my daughter, who's named after her was the first of the grandchildren to write her abuelita a letter. People just need to act different when there's children involved. I took alot of crap from him so that my daughter would have her father there.
 
Dianita said:
LaBetty, you are so right. He doesn't deserve to see her. I'm leaving that up to her though. When he wants to take her out, if she wants to go, she'll go. If she doesn't want to she'll tell him that she's not feeling good. But what I think is going to happen is just as sweetheart said, she's going to grow up and not want anything to do with him. It's really sad because he has a big family and they didn't see her too often before. Now they act like she doesn't exist. Even her own grandmother hasn't tried to contact her since I booted him out. She was so proud too because my daughter, who's named after her was the first of the grandchildren to write her abuelita a letter. People just need to act different when there's children involved. I took alot of crap from him so that my daughter would have her father there.
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Well I understand about leaving it up to her.
 
sweetheart said:
I HOPE HE REALIZES REAL SOON HOW MUCH HE IS HURTING HER....BEFORE SHE GROWS UP NOT CARING TO TALK OR SEE HIM ANYMORE.
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Thats exactly how my ex was.. My daughter is now 21 yrs old.. She DOESNT even call him.. could care less about this man who she calls "sperm donor"..He complains to me that he doesn't hear from her, but you reap what u sew and he wasn't there when she needed him growing up..It's truly sad..
 
Dianita said:
Unfortunately, I still get drama from my ex, but it's getting better. It just really gets to me because he makes my daughter feel bad just to get to me. You know not calling or showing up when he's supposed to, and then she feels like crap. When I tell him off, he tells me it's my fault because I didn't want to be with him. Maybe oneday he'll learn not to bring her into everything. OMG, maldito desgraciado! He knows that's the thing that bothers me most is for my daughter to get hurt. When he acts like this it makes me feel so stupid for actually having loved him once. I actually had to sit my daughter down and explain to her that it's not her fault. She thinks her daddy doesn't want to see her because she's bad. At least he's not following my boyfriend or me around and trying to run us off the road or destroying our car...Sorry for griping y'all, I just don't know what to tell my baby when her daddy doesn't return any of her calls.
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believe me i know exactly what you're going through. eventually your daughter is going to ask questions and she'll want answers....from him. i had a child with my ex when i was 20 years old. it was a really bad relationship. very abusive. finally when i had enough money saved up i left and got my own place. he would use our son as an excuse to try to see me. but then i met someone else and when i told him he was sooo pissed. the man that i met is now my husband and the only daddy my son has known since he was 1 year old. the only time i hear from my ex is when he calls me begging for me to take him off child support. i made and still make every effort for that man to be in my sons life and when my son grows up he'll go looking for him for answers but by then it may just be too late!!!
 
oh wow, i feel all of you on this (new to this type of drama too) I've come to realize that as long as you give your child the love and support that they deserve they will turn out to be just fine.....it's a difficult predicament when the father doesn't want shit to do with them and I've come to terms with the fact that it's for the best because in the end it's her he'll have to answer to, not me. In the meantime I'll comfort her as much as necessary. (she's a strong child)
 
Dianita, I am so sorry your daughter has to go through your ex's childish ways.

She needs stability and he needs to be apart of that. PERIOD. He is either there or not, that's how I feel. What happened between you two should have no bearing on child/parent relationship.

Hang in there, try to remain positive... when your daughter feels down because he's not around, make her feel good... tell her he had to work (basically lie to her). No child should ever feel their parent doesn't want to be around them, I'm sorry. I know this is so hard for you because I can't even imagine seeing my kids hurt because their father doesn't come around for them. God bless you.

When I hear stories like this, I only appreciate my ex more. That's one thing we got right... we have never taken our frustrations out on the kids (not that I haven't yelled at them for no reason just because I was made at him).... we tried to both be involved in everything they do.

Dianita, Good luck. Thank god your daughter has you. You will have to give her love from you.... and love from him (no matter how he acts).

Good Luck.
 
4eVerFreeStyle said:
Dianita, I am so sorry your daughter has to go through your ex's childish ways.

She needs stability and he needs to be apart of that. PERIOD. He is either there or not, that's how I feel. What happened between you two should have no bearing on child/parent relationship.

Hang in there, try to remain positive... when your daughter feels down because he's not around, make her feel good... tell her he had to work (basically lie to her). No child should ever feel their parent doesn't want to be around them, I'm sorry. I know this is so hard for you because I can't even imagine seeing my kids hurt because their father doesn't come around for them. God bless you.

When I hear stories like this, I only appreciate my ex more. That's one thing we got right... we have never taken our frustrations out on the kids (not that I haven't yelled at them for no reason just because I was made at him).... we tried to both be involved in everything they do.

Dianita, Good luck. Thank god your daughter has you. You will have to give her love from you.... and love from him (no matter how he acts).

Good Luck.
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Very nice, good advice mama. 🙂
 
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