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quadosh
there's no hard feelings on my end............🙂
there's no hard feelings on my end............🙂
Do you practice safe sex?
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Heavenly
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Here's my two cents......
I was with my ex for 7yrs and we ALWAYS USED a CONDOM!! Why you ask when I was with him.....well because a. I didn't want to get pregnant and b. he didn't want to get tested. As for me I get tested REGULARLY......it doesn't hurt to BE SURE!!
As for now.....well my Safe Sex is NO SEX!! Me and my boyfriend now are both in agreement that we should wait to take it to another level.....
As for Chaos......I don't think you are too young to hear about having SAFE SEX! I rather you listen, ask questions, and become better educated. I have to agree with angeleyes though ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM!!! PLEASE Don't rush into it you have sooo much time for that.
Ok Ok That was my two cents worth
BUT EVERYONE PLEASE BE SMART and SAFE!!!!
I was with my ex for 7yrs and we ALWAYS USED a CONDOM!! Why you ask when I was with him.....well because a. I didn't want to get pregnant and b. he didn't want to get tested. As for me I get tested REGULARLY......it doesn't hurt to BE SURE!!
As for now.....well my Safe Sex is NO SEX!! Me and my boyfriend now are both in agreement that we should wait to take it to another level.....
As for Chaos......I don't think you are too young to hear about having SAFE SEX! I rather you listen, ask questions, and become better educated. I have to agree with angeleyes though ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM!!! PLEASE Don't rush into it you have sooo much time for that.
EWWWWWwwwwwwwwwww That was a TMI TMI Moment!!! I didn't need that image.....As Al Bundy would say.....I'M BLIND!
Ok Ok That was my two cents worth
BUT EVERYONE PLEASE BE SMART and SAFE!!!!
DeliciousD
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I don't think that Chaos is too young, Infact he at the right age to learn! Or when is he to ask? Ones hes told that hes gonna be a Daddy?
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QUOTING 'OdB':
"OooooOoo Baby I like it Raw"
"yeah baby I like it Rawwwwwww', lol
The only safe sex is abstinence or maturbation....let ur fingers do the walking.
I'm in a long-term relationship, so I agree with Kenny.....Pull-out method is the best.
The individuals who should be extra careful are the promiscuous ones.....or young teens who 'claim' they know it all. get educated peeps! there are so many nasty std's out there, yuck!!!!!!!
~GND
"OooooOoo Baby I like it Raw"
"yeah baby I like it Rawwwwwww', lol
The only safe sex is abstinence or maturbation....let ur fingers do the walking.
I'm in a long-term relationship, so I agree with Kenny.....Pull-out method is the best.
The individuals who should be extra careful are the promiscuous ones.....or young teens who 'claim' they know it all. get educated peeps! there are so many nasty std's out there, yuck!!!!!!!
~GND
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yahaira
of course I do you never know who you're getting involved with!!!!
sin gorrito no hay cumpleanos!!!!!!hehehe
sin gorrito no hay cumpleanos!!!!!!hehehe
AIDS IS NO JOKE......THERE'S TOO MANY PEOPLE THAT RATHER NOT EVEN KNOW IF THERE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE.....I KNOW CUZ I DIDN'T WANT TO GET TESTED....I RATHER NOT KNOW.....BUT THAT'S AS IGNORANT AS NOT USING PROTECTION....NOW I GET TESTED EVERY TIME I FEEL I PUT MYSELF IN DANGER.....EVEN THOUGH I ALWAYS USE PROTECTION.....YOU NEVER KNOW..
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Damn right I'm using condoms....I have so many friends who dont use them....I cannot understand how they can do it....I would never not use one...They just rationalize it "oh I pull out its ok"...Like what the hell does that matter?! Theres so many diseases and God knows I'm not gonna f*ck things up by getting a random girl knocked up!!! Not that I'm gettin any lately :-(.......
Re: QUOTING 'OdB':
Besides preventing diseases. condoms do prevent pregnancy. And you can get pregnant AND diseases from pre cum. So pulling out, is not a solution. If it was, don't you think they would have advertised it?? And while condoms are pretty good, you should also use another form of contraception like the pill or foam or a diaphragm. And if you're using only the pill because you are in a dedicated and monogamous and trusting relationship, just remember MEN, it is as much your responsibility as it is the girl's, to remind her to take her pill on time! Just because the birth control is in a pill form that she takes doesn't mean it's not your job to make sure you're both protected!! Girls forget sometimes too, and the pill is most effective when taken at the same time every day.TheGirlNextDoor said:
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JADE:
I KNOW that condoms prevent deseases and pregnancy,...I use them all the time with my partner...but OUR main method is pulling out, and YES it IS effective and YES I've seen it advertised @ (planned parenthood, clinics) I mean, damn I didn't make it up, like I stated before, I'm in a long-term relationship, I would'nt have sex with someone I just met and expect him to pull-out that would be careless and stupid...*everyone do whats best for them...as for me pills and foams are a nuisance, but that's just me. It's hard for me to use something that have hundreds of warnings and side-effects 🙂
Safe sex it's not all about using condoms, it's also about abstinence, KNOWING who you're messing with (knowing ur partners sexual history and gettin' tested), getting educated on STD's and the different methods there are for preventing pregnancy. Also parents should'nt be afraid to talk to their children about sex and STD's, you're never too young to know, it's better to learn it at home and get educated than to have them learn it from a stranger or a misinformed person.
~GND
I KNOW that condoms prevent deseases and pregnancy,...I use them all the time with my partner...but OUR main method is pulling out, and YES it IS effective and YES I've seen it advertised @ (planned parenthood, clinics) I mean, damn I didn't make it up, like I stated before, I'm in a long-term relationship, I would'nt have sex with someone I just met and expect him to pull-out that would be careless and stupid...*everyone do whats best for them...as for me pills and foams are a nuisance, but that's just me. It's hard for me to use something that have hundreds of warnings and side-effects 🙂
Safe sex it's not all about using condoms, it's also about abstinence, KNOWING who you're messing with (knowing ur partners sexual history and gettin' tested), getting educated on STD's and the different methods there are for preventing pregnancy. Also parents should'nt be afraid to talk to their children about sex and STD's, you're never too young to know, it's better to learn it at home and get educated than to have them learn it from a stranger or a misinformed person.
~GND
not trying to pick on any of the other posts but i just wanted to make a couple comments. condoms dont prevent pregnancy or disease. sure they HELP preventing ish but theyre not 100%. they can rip, fall off, have holes in them, etc.
as for pulling out AKA withdrawal it is NOT "advertised" by planned parenthood and they will never suggest to a person to use THAT as the only method of birth control. u will never c a planned parenthood poster, commercial, etc., stating that withdrawal is a good method of birth control or disease prevention. in fact, if u tell them thats what u do (and ALL u do), they would probably laugh or roll their eyes.
as said in a lot of the other posts, abstinence/masturbation is the only real way to avoid disease and pregnancy. but of course people r gonna have sex eventually, and too many of them arent being careful. too many peeps today will just lay down with anybody and/or not use "protection." condoms, pills, shots, and so many other methods r out there and can be used alone or in conjunction with each other. its sad that even in 2001 people r still being careless with their bodies.
my post is just how i feel. if any teens or young adults r reading this thread and dunno whats up or need information please dont get it from some internet bulletin board. ask your school nurse, ur family doctor, or planned parenthood.
ps-great post/scenario quadosh!
as for pulling out AKA withdrawal it is NOT "advertised" by planned parenthood and they will never suggest to a person to use THAT as the only method of birth control. u will never c a planned parenthood poster, commercial, etc., stating that withdrawal is a good method of birth control or disease prevention. in fact, if u tell them thats what u do (and ALL u do), they would probably laugh or roll their eyes.
as said in a lot of the other posts, abstinence/masturbation is the only real way to avoid disease and pregnancy. but of course people r gonna have sex eventually, and too many of them arent being careful. too many peeps today will just lay down with anybody and/or not use "protection." condoms, pills, shots, and so many other methods r out there and can be used alone or in conjunction with each other. its sad that even in 2001 people r still being careless with their bodies.
my post is just how i feel. if any teens or young adults r reading this thread and dunno whats up or need information please dont get it from some internet bulletin board. ask your school nurse, ur family doctor, or planned parenthood.
ps-great post/scenario quadosh!
man let me tell you..i didnt use to...i mean i use to do it the first few times and then after that the condom would dissapear...but let me tell u there is not a scarey feeling then being pregnant and taking that damn aids test...you are like f*ck if i have it i hurt myself and my kid...i remember that waiting 3 weeks...regreting every single piece of ass i ever had...man when i went to go get the results i was sh*tting bricks...but thank god i was alright...now ever since then i am very careful...man i check the condom every few minutes while having sex...and if nessecary two condoms and thats no joke!!!!!
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